Advice Thread

[Aeon]

I'm surprised we don't have that section..Am i missing it...?


I know there are a select few in this forum who like to help others..
and some others who need help ..lol..

Instead of crazy people (like me) making random threads about "how i feel..ect ect ect.."

Wouldn't it be easier to have a advice thread of some sort..?
I would do it.. I'm sure a few others would aswell..

Any advice on this subject ? ;)

[Smash Bros]

make a complete section about it.

put it in the home and health part and that way people can post their problems and others can post their advice.

my only advice is to try putting this in the forum suggestions section lol. might get more viewers there

[stokes91]

so a thread where you can ask any kind of advice? or will there be a specific topic?
make a complete section about it.
isn't that kind of defeating the purpose of aeons idea? i.e. Instead of crazy people (like me) making random threads about "how i feel..ect ect ect.."

[Aeon]

I was thinking any kind of advice... LOL.. (which is dangerous in this place.)

but sorta like a Dear Abby concept.. I have no idea who will act like Abby.. but.. Just a idea..
:D

[Infidel]

i'll be the advice giver. just not abby, or phil.

how about Suresh. Dear Suresh.... Sounds good to me.

NOW GET ON THE COUCH WOMAN!

[Smash Bros]

damn infidels >.<

i wanted to be the advice giver.


:O:O how about we take it in turns.

[Infidel]

how about we just give advice at the same time. most people know what to do, they just want to see/hear someone else say it first.

so i'm thinking if we both say something, we're more likely to be right :D

not saying that i'd ever be wrong though :P

[Aeon]

damn infidels >.<

i wanted to be the advice giver.


:O:O how about we take it in turns.

ohhkay boys take turns..


how about we just give advice at the same time. most people know what to do, they just want to see/hear someone else say it first.

so i'm thinking if we both say something, we're more likely to be right :D

not saying that i'd ever be wrong though :P


I didn't catch any gay undertones.. at all..

MY.... first bit of advice to infidel and smash....

Come out of the closet buddies!.. :thumbs:

LOL:whip:

[DnD]

Ok, I need some advice. I got me a stalker who won't stop calling me and messaging me. Being the stalkee extroordinaire that you are, what's the most painless and effective way to tell her to beat it?

[Zeus]

Ok, I need some advice. I got me a stalker who won't stop calling me and messaging me. Being the stalkee extroordinaire that you are, what's the most painless and effective way to tell her to beat it?


Sorry Cam, Ill stop :hidey:

[Raskil]

I have an Itch what should I do:haha:

[Aeon]

I have an Itch what should I do:haha:

You should go soak yourself in a bath of gasoline..
light some candles.. :whistle:
and then just relax ..
:D

[Nite Owl]

i think that it is a good idea for us to have an advice page. like people have said there are some people that need this and i think that if everyone would give there perspective of what they think it will help alot.

[peddle07]

Ok, since this the only thread related to advice I'll just post here. In the past year I've had three childhood friends die, I'm only 20 and my town has <5000 people in it. One was in deep to coke dealers, word goes that he was in deep to his coke dealer, dealing himself, dipping in his own shit I guess and went on a 3 days binge giving away his coke and eventually overdosing. Probably one of the most traumatic experiences I've ever had. One of those friends growing up you were good friends, had all those childhood pictures together, in highschool you got into different circles, move away for university and that happens. The next summer I come home on my turnaround as I'm working at the other side of the country, another friend who just lived down the street from me is in a car accident, he died and his brother ends up in critical condition and can't attend his brothers funeral. Once again, I end up asking if this is the last time I need to see a friend be put in the ground. I go back to work, get a call one sunday afternoon while I'm at work, a guy I played hockey with all through minor hockey, his dad was constantly doing repairs on my dirtbike for me for free, and just everyones familys were close in that group of guys, hung himself. Was out of province working, his girlfriend of 4 years dumped him, got fired from his job, and got picked up with a bunch of coke on him. Couldn't get a flight home in time for his funeral, which still honestly bothers me. Now I find myself at times just dwelling on these deaths. I get panic attacks, especially driving on a highway or any other higher speed transportation, and just have this great fear of dieing. I try to find some closure on these situations, visit their gravesites. I know I can't blame myself, but I can't help but to think what if little things just happened different. What about those different circles didn't come back. What if just the smallest thing happened different. Could someone have done something? It seems like I end up rambling on in my head like I am now, but there are just so many unanswered and painful questions I have. I don't know if I need advice or if I needed a vent, but either way I know I haven't been the same in the past year.

[Flipchic]

Peddle, i'm not good in giving advices, i just feel like you need a :hugs: