LOVE?

[Aeon]

what do you need in your relationship to make it work...

besides sex and a good looking mate (which is a give for most of you)


I do have a reason for asking...

for me it's

intimacy and humor
A love for laughing..and playing.
intelligence and someone i can talk to (sometime they don't go hand in hand)
someone who looks at me like i am the most gorgeous girl ever
someone who can't keep their hands off me.
Passion, spontaneity, humorous sarcasm, sensitivity, understanding,
tolerance, humility and charm.

that's just the basics of what i need..:hidey:
what are musts for you?

[Calienta]

Same sense of humour (there are many kinds but it has to be my kind)
Understanding
Empathy
Kindness
Chivalry (it ISN'T dead I say!!)
Politeness
Selflessness
Intimacy
Intelligence
Enjoying talking for ages about everything and nothing or just sitting looking at each other not saying a word
Modesty (I hate egos)
Ability to admit when they're wrong
Cares what I think and how I'm feeling 24/7
Makes me shiver when he looks at me
Ability to laugh at himself and find something funny in everything
Thinks this list couldn't possibly be true cos he doesn't think he's that great ;)


I may edit my post as I think of more (a) I'm not picky eh ;)

[Aeon]

those are some very good answers cali..
i'm impressed. TY

[Buckledmac]

its all about the teeth(Y)

[odd th0mas]

this is kind of a girly thread, but besides sex and looks a girl must have self-confidence, good posture(lol)
eats right(little or no fastfood....no McBreath)
no smoking
exercises(low body fat)
love kids
low-maintenance
watches little t.v.
drink beer w/ me on weekends
content w/ her life
non-critical


i'm sure there's more, but that good start!

[miemio]

rules me out for you then buckled, my teeth arent all straight :hidey: :(

But in a guy I need someone I have fun with and who has the ability to make me laugh and surprise me. He has to be intelligent and creative in his use of it(the intelligence), he has to not be able to keep his hands off me (and they have to be hands that make me shiver from the touch!), he has to make me feel like the most important person in the universe when we talk. I like a man to be hardheaded, but also able to listen to reason. And I need him to be honest and wise about life, and most important; he has to be openminded (not judgemental about others). I'd like him to be a bit weird as well, weirdos are always more exciting! And also he has to have magic abilities so I wont get bored of him...
Hmm Probably not gonna find that one right away :P

[vixen]

I need a guy who is intelligent, in the respect that he can hold a decent conversation. Sense of humor is key, motivated, doesn't have to have all my hobbies, but some are good as its a way to spend quality time. MUST love to do community volunteering, I have never been arsed to deal with looks, its so much of what is on the inside that counts to me. Its such a cliche but looks fade, personality doesn't. No smoking, social drinker, no drugs please (personal choice), loves sports....I think that is a must in Boston though! Lastly he has to love to kiss, that is so intimate IMO....

Mind you this is what I like, not for everybody I understand....

[Aeon]

interesting answers..

:| at odd thomas...

who would have thought he was a health nut?

:) (f) (Y)

[Flashman]

I'm attracted to psychopathic women.

[Buckledmac]

rules me out for you then buckled, my teeth arent all straight :hidey: :(

But in a guy I need someone I have fun with and who has the ability to make me laugh and surprise me. He has to be intelligent and creative in his use of it(the intelligence), he has to not be able to keep his hands off me (and they have to be hands that make me shiver from the touch!), he has to make me feel like the most important person in the universe when we talk. I like a man to be hardheaded, but also able to listen to reason. And I need him to be honest and wise about life, and most important; he has to be openminded (not judgemental about others). I'd like him to be a bit weird as well, weirdos are always more exciting! And also he has to have magic abilities so I wont get bored of him...
Hmm Probably not gonna find that one right away :P

they dont have to be all straight, i was more meaning white and clean!!

i got 1 crooked one myself so cant be a hypocrite ;)


sidenote: ever considered harry potter linda? he has many magical abilities

[VikesWookie]

interesting answers..

:| at odd thomas...

who would have thought he was a health nut?

:) (f) (Y)
u can see the health nut in his eyes...

being an independent thinker is sexy to me...

[odd th0mas]

interesting answers..

:| at odd thomas...

who would have thought he was a health nut?

:) (f) (Y)

*loooks back at what he wrote to see what aeon found offensive...can't see y*


lol, i know odd th0mas avatar looks a little pastey.......BUT, THAT AIN'T ME!

[Calienta]

/me wants th0mas to post his real pic in the picture thread please :)

[Bonez]

Well that's hard to find!!

[So Warped]

Booooooooobiiiieeessss!!!!!!!

[Envron]

Aeon and Calienta you guys covered most of my list already, but....

Devotion - no matter how bad life hits you, you'll know they will be thier.
The ability to truly be ones self around each other without feeling the need to hold back.
Understanding and the Ability to listen.
Not willing to let go of the child inside and the ability to enjoy the little things in life.
Willingnes to teach and learn from each others experences.

[miemio]

*loooks back at what he wrote to see what aeon found offensive...can't see y*


lol, i know odd th0mas avatar looks a little pastey.......BUT, THAT AIN'T ME!
I think the guy in the avatar is sort of cute.. does this make me weird:$
maybe that was my forum secret:|

edit: Buckled you might be on to something there... He's got magical abilities and a wand.. But I'm afraid he's too young..

[odd th0mas]

/me wants th0mas to post his real pic in the picture thread please :)

lol, let me think bout it...i shy!



..there is a partial pic of me here somewhere when i was being goofy


I think the guy in the avatar is sort of cute.. does this make me weird

lol, i heard that once before....and i ain't sayin i'm cuter than odd, just not as pastey. lol!

[DnD]

first and foremost, she has to be sexy, call me shallow but, but the heart wants what the heart wants :dunno:

and then intelligence of coarse, i cant stand talking to dimwits, i just end up making fun at their expense

she has to be willing to go explore the world and try new stuff, or ill go do it without her; see ya later baby!

she has to be socially gracefull.

and any jealous, paranoid girls are ruled out, im a big flirt, so that wont work. lol

i dont care if she doesnt cook or clean, i can cook, and i dont care if my house is a sty, i dont plan on spending much time there anyway :)

and she has to have a great sense of humour and lots of patience to put up with me :D

and some common interests wouldnt hurt

[Aeon]

*loooks back at what he wrote to see what aeon found offensive...can't see y*


lol, i know odd th0mas avatar looks a little pastey.......BUT, THAT AIN'T ME!

LOL nothing offended me...LOL
i was just in shock over the health nut stuff...
twas a interesting answer is all.


envron: good andd on's

and dd i know what you means about acting a huge flirt...some patience and understanding helps with that...or dating a big flirt yourself. :)

[Buckledmac]

I'm attracted to psychopathic women.


your in luck, we got plenty of those here flash :)

[Antoper]

The ability to make me laugh
most girls cant

nice ass is a plus

odd hair/eye color is also a plus

[Honeypot]

what do you need in your relationship to make it work...

besides sex and a good looking mate (which is a give for most of you)


I do have a reason for asking...

for me it's

intimacy and humor
A love for laughing..and playing.
intelligence and someone i can talk to (sometime they don't go hand in hand)
someone who looks at me like i am the most gorgeous girl ever
someone who can't keep their hands off me.
Passion, spontaneity, humorous sarcasm, sensitivity, understanding,
tolerance, humility and charm.

that's just the basics of what i need..:hidey:
what are musts for you?

That pretty much sums it up, and I must say that I have that... Not to rub it in or anything... But I love my man, and he is definitely all of those things in my book.
But I do have to add communication... Which I guess lies under the someone you can talk to area, but in a deeper sense. In the sense where they feel comfortable enough to talk to you about anything, that kind of communication :D

[Everette]

"i want a relationship with somebody that isnt a whore -_- i hate this town"

I guess that counts me out.



some times I need a gurl to confort me and a man to use me.

Love is like chocolate all thats left when your done is sticky fingers.

From one who has loved and lost. I am to bitter to know what love means outside a good cucumber and a danielle steel novel.

But if ever i am in the market

He/she would have to play dope wars. Have low standards and a wide understanding of urban legend,tribbing,back rubbing,Bondage,and Gay porn....

[Colonel Sanders]

I just need to fuck somethin

[Pittman]

i want a relationship with somebody that isnt a whore -_- i hate this town.

Dyersburg is a horrible city with nothing but rednecks and ignorant fundamentalists. No one here is going to ever get anywhere with their lives. Dyersburg has nothing but dead-end jobs and factories. And a drug scene where ecstasy is almost unheard of, and LSD is something that people look at you and say "Huh?" This is a worthless city where the biggest thing in the newspaper is the fact that we're getting an interstate here within the next ten years. I hate everyone who lives here and everything that happens here. I can't wait to leave. I know i sound like an immature kid or whatever, but seriously, if you lived here. all you would love is how low the gas price is.

[Uganja]

Incredibly Sexy - I want to wake up each morning and feel like the luckiest man alive
Independant - This is crucial for me to be compatible, i like my own space
Share the same sense of humour - Make me laugh & understand my slightly random sense of humour.
Self Confident - I need someone who can challenge me, not someone i can manipulate or have to deal with their insecurities.

The list is longer, but i get bored writing long posts

[Ariauna]

True to themselves and everyone around them. Passionate, Intense. Loyal. And flawed... because thats what makes them special! :P

[Aeon]

one more thing...

he needs to be completely perverted. In a cool kinda way.

[TJ60]

one word .....Ashley(f)

[tca]

one word

beli :D

[dave]

mmm ok

funny
finds me funny!
sociabal
nice smile
likes haveing fun
conciderate
tollerent
not anoying and naggin

(opposit to my last gf)