Chemistry

[Aeon]

Can you fake it?

Can you fake the way it feels when you kiss someone, who, makes every nerve in your body tingle?

In other words can you make someone who thinks you are clicking with them , think, that you both have some serious chemistry,
Would you do that to someone, who you wanted to shag very badly, just to get them out of their clothes?
?




Myself i could never fake chemistry, it's either there or its not...
and i would never pretend to have feelings for someone just to shag them...or take advantage.

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[odd th0mas]

lol, chemistry is a 'girly' thing! guys can fake EVERYTHING except the climax....which is the one thing you guys can fake well! :|

[Aeon]

good point!

[Colonel Sanders]

haha yeah I would agree. For guys it's a bit different, none of this "chemistry" crap. Not to say no guy ever falls in love or feels a connection.. but I would say most guys perceive and deal with it allot differently than women.


On a side note I just found out that "Allot" is spelled with 2 L's.. I always thought it was 1....

[nfc]

lol, chemistry is a 'girly' thing! guys can fake EVERYTHING except the climax....which is the one thing you guys can fake well! :|


Guys don't have to fake climax. ;)

[Uganja]

Everyday its fake. You want to make a woman feel special while your shagging her eyeballs out then for sure.

If you get some nasty bitch who likes to be treated that way then leave the chemistry at home....

[Bellows]

Guys don't have to fake climax. ;)

so you've never spat on a girls back and told her enoughs enough?

[for20gurl]

Can you fake it?

Can you fake the way it feels when you kiss someone, who, makes every nerve in your body tingle?

In other words can you make someone who thinks you are clicking with them , think, that you both have some serious chemistry,
Would you do that to someone, who you wanted to shag very badly, just to get them out of their clothes?
?




Myself i could never fake chemistry, it's either there or its not...
and i would never pretend to have feelings for someone just to shag them...or take advantage.

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aeon...silly girl! we dont have to have chemistry to "shag"...is we want sex just for the sake of having it, there are usually plenty of willing subjects :P

its just better with the chemistry thrown in ;)

[miemio]

chemistry? I thought it was all about sexual instincts, you dont need to fake those, they're automatic when you're aroused aren't they? But if you're talking in a non sexual way, like.. presexual attraction, then it cant be false either because it sort of attacks you and it's impossible to hide or fake. It's either there or it isnt. But the strenght of it varies of course, so maybe when there is low initial attraction you can fake it so it seems to be stronger just to get what you want? (for instance in a relationship, you're bored to death with your partner, but there's some attraction there underneath all the boredom, so to get the sexual experience you need you fake the level of attraction? And you can do the same with people you're not 100% into aswell?)

[Grammar Nazi]

haha yeah I would agree. For guys it's a bit different, none of this "chemistry" crap. Not to say no guy ever falls in love or feels a connection.. but I would say most guys perceive and deal with it allot differently than women.


On a side note I just found out that "Allot" is spelled with 2 L's.. I always thought it was 1....
http://englishplus.com/grammar/00000175.htm

[Colonel Sanders]

http://englishplus.com/grammar/00000175.htm


GASP! i feel dumb :(

[Santo]

http://englishplus.com/grammar/00000175.htm


Thank you Grammar Nazi, you have been missed


/me lurks back in the shadow

[Aeon]

ok so guys can fake it no problem,and,girls can sorta fake it...



i've lost my trust in all humans.

[odd th0mas]

ok so guys can fake it no problem,and,girls can sorta fake it...



i've lost my trust in all humans.

i think it's true for whole animal kingdom. for instance: if you were the last lioness on the planet, and me the last 'king of the jungle', we might not be able to tolerate each other at all, but we'd sure FUCK LIKE RABBITS on occasion! :)


[EDIT] on second thought, we'd probably starve to death due to our refusal to eat meat!

[Aeon]

LOL....

but ... but.. but..
i just think that two people know when it's hot beyond belief...
and when chemistry is apparent, could you ignore it.?

[tca]

haha yeah I would agree. For guys it's a bit different, none of this "chemistry" crap. Not to say no guy ever falls in love or feels a connection.. but I would say most guys perceive and deal with it allot differently than women.


On a side note I just found out that "Allot" is spelled with 2 L's.. I always thought it was 1....

you've never felt it, obviously :P

[Rex Mundi]

so you've never spat on a girls back and told her enoughs enough?

LMFAO !

Bellows, you show a distinct lack of showmanship !

The consummate performer should of course squirt a bottle of baby cream halfway across the room for a truly awe inspiring faux bank shot !

[Grendel]

so you've never spat on a girls back and told her enoughs enough?

Tried that once, she said me hawking up the phlegm was putting her off...

[Aeon]

I hate boys. :(

[nfc]

so you've never spat on a girls back and told her enoughs enough?


Only times that happened is when I was to pissed/spaced. Then not to feel like I was lacking I'd tell her she wasn't trying hard enough :P

[Kloaked Spirit]

LOL....

but ... but.. but..
i just think that two people know when it's hot beyond belief...
and when chemistry is apparent, could you ignore it.?

Absolutely, depending on the situation the two people are in. For example, I could easily have chemistry with someone I just met. However, if I'm happily married, am I going to act upon this? I'd hope not. In the end I'd just ignore it.

[DnD]

the worst scenario is when somebody thinks there is chemistry, but the other person doesn't.......
like the other night after i fucked Aeon, i was like "Dayumm! that was hawt!", but she was like, "mehh." :S

[Aeon]

seriously....i've turned dyke now because of this thread.


I just didn't think someone could fake that feeling...
i guess i was wrong.

i would never fake chemistry to get into someones pants....

[Kloaked Spirit]

Well, it's possible for women to fool themselves into having a fake pregnancy. I don't see how people could fake something like that and couldn't fool themselves or fake chemistry.

[Wutty]

i prefer to have feelings, generally when i dont have chemistry with a girl, its like the feeling when you've had a wank and asked for a shag, sorta meh cba

[DnD]

seriously....i've turned dyke now because of this thread.


please, i bet there is just as many girls who are just as fully capable and willing to fake chemistry as their is as many guys likewise. that, or i'll eat my shoe!

[Aeon]

girls don't do that...

i don't think.. I don't.

[Beli]

please, i bet there is just as many girls who are just as fully capable and willing to fake chemistry as their is as many guys likewise. that, or i'll eat my shoe!
start eating......
duh! how many times do you find women wanting "passion" in a relationship? a lot. and men, meh, as long as they get laid they are happy.
or maybe i am just around a really bad crowd of men :$

[PiNkPaNtHeR22432323]

start eating......
duh! how many times do you find women wanting "passion" in a relationship? a lot. and men, meh, as long as they get laid they are happy.
or maybe i am just around a really bad crowd of men :$



;) there ya go

[DnD]

but there are tons of girls out there just to get laid too, and besides, the motive behind their deception might not even be sex all the time, it could be money, power, revenge, all kinds of wicked shit. :S

[Aeon]

but there are tons of girls out there just to get laid too, and besides, the motive behind their deception might not even be sex all the time, it could be money, power, revenge, all kinds of wicked shit. :S

your right but we can not fake chemistry

[Radical Truth]

girls don't do that...

i don't think.. I don't.

They do you know :(
My best friend is gay and she gets women doing it to her all the time. Is such a shame cos she is so sweet. I wish I was gay so I could rescue her and treat her nice.

Aeon, don't loose heart and faith. There are heaps of wonderful men in the world. When I pop into the shoutbox I often see guys saying lovely things about you. You have quite a fan club.

I'm sorry to hear that you have been tricked by someone. Next time, make him wait and wait and wait (maybe jump through a hoop or two). Then you will see true colours. The ones only wanting a shag will get bored pretty quick and move onto easier conquests. The ones with heart and feeling will give you flowers and say "how high".

Beli, I think you are just hanging round the wrong type of men. Find the ones who will pick you some flowers.

[DnD]

your right but we can not fake chemistry

lol, you can't say that. it's one or the other!

[Radical Truth]

Women can fake chemistry for good reasons too. I was in a long term once where the magic went away. I faked it for the longest time hoping to get it back.
It did come back.... for a lil while.


I'd also like to add that I was sorely disappointed this thread wasn't about how to make coloured fire or LSD from common household products etc..

[tca]

Beli, I think you are just hanging round the wrong type of men. Find the ones who will pick you some flowers.

like me (f)

if your not willing to look/sound stupid, your not inlove (a)

[Aeon]

like me (f)

if your not willing to look/sound stupid, your not inlove (a)


TY radical truth... that was very nice of you to say...


also....DD it's bad when you look/act like a fool in love, but, the other person just looks at you like your on crack.
or if your both acting like fools then everyone else looks at you like your retarded. :hidey:

[Radical Truth]

I'm all for lovey dovey romance but...
I was at a party not long back where this couple were sitting with us all at the table...

*puts on cutesy wootsey voice*
:love1:
"Would you wike a drink my cuddley wuddley bear?"
"Oh but you are MY jubbey wubbley bear, princess. Thank you"
"Ahhh, I wuv you smoochykins" *kiss slurp slop*
"I wuv voo more my pumpkinwumpkin pie"

:puke2:

*picks up a brickey wickey and pounds them both into comawomas*

This type of behaviour is just not acceptable in public people!

[Aeon]

PMSL!!!!
your right..

[Davecat]

/me licks Aeon

[Aeon]

STOP THAT!!

[miemio]

I'm all for lovey dovey romance but...
I was at a party not long back where this couple were sitting with us all at the table...

*puts on cutesy wootsey voice*
:love1:
"Would you wike a drink my cuddley wuddley bear?"
"Oh but you are MY jubbey wubbley bear, princess. Thank you"
"Ahhh, I wuv you smoochykins" *kiss slurp slop*
"I wuv voo more my pumpkinwumpkin pie"

:puke2:

*picks up a brickey wickey and pounds them both into comawomas*

This type of behaviour is just not acceptable in public people!

I live with that couple! 8o|

[Grendel]

I live with that couple! 8o|

Kill them, quick, kill them!

[Wutty]

brick em while their smooching!!

[So Warped]

Nobody really knows.

[miemio]

Kill them, quick, kill them!

trust me, the thought has crossed my mind:-#

Im jk, they are really nice people, but god, that special language can really get on your nerves sometimes

[tca]

fuck you all, cunts

[Aeon]

fuck you all, cunts


see chemistry..

[Gringo]

You've asked a question here Aeon and all i've pretty much seen is " Macho " guys talking out of their ass!

This could be one of 3 reasons:

1) They are too scared to be themselves with someone, therefore chemistry can never be achieved .........

2) As soon as they feel chemistry is there, they get scared and insecure as they have never felt this before, and for a man to accept certain emotoins is very hard.....

3) or they are just darn site ugly and have never left the house!

Chemistry is the backbone of any relationship, to want to be your self endlessley with someone, to be able to hold hands while your walking through a mall, to stop in the middle of the mall and kiss pationately, to return home from work and want to nkow everything about your partners Day, to want to cook and clean together, to accept eachother as you are, to love an inperfect person perfectly as they are perfect to you, to not care about what your friends are going to say if they see you together, to say that your " Freedom " is when you are together as one without a care in the world!

For all those guys who are emotionally challenged, let yourselves go once in a while, when u come across that somone who u just click with at the first instance, embrace it, it is very rare..... be yourselves as if you act, then the person is not with you for who you are but for who you are pretending to be!

To make love with someone when there is chemistry adds so many more levels to the pleasure of sharing your body with them...... The explosion of emotion when your lying there looking in eachothers eyes, smiling as you make love is inexplainable, you have to experience it to understand!

[JaiJai]

/me fixes Aeon up with Gringo (a)

[Santo]

/me fixes Aeon up with Gringo (a)

:@ :argh:

[Davecat]

:@ :argh:

/me licks santo