How do you......?

[Uganja]

stop yourself falling for, or seducing a woman that needs you in their "friends zone" right now? even if they're the only thing you can think of from the moment you wake up, til the moment you go to bed.....

[Santo]

ohhhh fuck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Walk away Jay....

[Uganja]

I figured as much :|

[YetAnotherKitten]

:(

Does she know?

[tca]

who are you and what have you done with jay?

[Uganja]

lol... he's temporarily dead it seems.



And no, of course she doesn't know.... i'm a bloke remember, we don't declare such things openly





Anywhere for You



I'd go anywhere for you

Anywhere you asked me to
I'd do anything for you
Anything you want me to

I'd walk halfway around the world
For just one kiss from you
Far beyond the call of love
The sun, the stars, the moon
As long as your love's there to lead me
I won't lose my way believe me
Even through the darkest night you know

Chorus:
I'd go anywhere for you
Anywhere you asked me to
I'd do anything for you
Anything you want me to
Your love as far as I can see
Is all I'm ever gonna need
There's one thing for sure
I know it's true
Baby, I'd go anywhere for you

I used to think that dreams were just
For sentimental fools
And I'd never find someone
Who'd give their love so true
But I knew the very minute
Couldn't live my life without you in it
And now I want the whole world
To know

Chorus

Hey baby, hey baby, hey baby, oohhh

[Buckledmac]

Jay's in love :run:

[Grendel]

Good luck with this...

It'll all end in tears.

[TJ60]

lol... he's temporarily dead it seems.



And no, of course she doesn't know.... i'm a bloke remember, we don't declare such things openly



yea only to forums with 2000 members :P jay if she's the one u want go get her, you should know by now it's bout fucking impossible to break out of that "FRIEND ZONE"

[Buckledmac]

/me listens for the sound of wedding bells :grin:

[Jacx]

OMG he posted a Backstreet Boys...ugh...thats gotta be real love there to do that in here...fair play to you jay...u sick puppy, never post that sick soppy shit again thought!

[Todd]

/me wonders why Jacx recognised the song:|

[Uganja]

I'm not in love you bastards.... there must be a way out of this

[nfc]

http://www.ehow.com/how_13311_know-you-love.html

[Jacx]

/me wonders why Jacx recognised the song:|


erm welll erm

coz i got a edit button muhahhahahha

Jay is in love na na nana na

[Uganja]

Jacx is hung like a pigeon....





Fuckers !

[NovaCaine]

Jacx is hung like a pigeon....





Fuckers !


wondering how you would know this info???:|

[Uganja]

Googled it :$

[Jacx]

i just want to see what other LOVE songs jays gonna post...the sick loved up bastard

[Asshole]

I'm not in love you bastards.... there must be a way out of this


There is.. its called alcohol, ive slept with a few "friends" in this manner, of course, if you sleep with a "friend" they want a relationship, and even if you politley turn them down they wont want to be "friends" andymore

Friends is in brackets because ladies, in these situations where you say to a guy "lets just be friends" you just are not, You wanna be pals with the guy, the guy does not want to in the least way be just firends with you, therefore they are not true friendships, because the poor little bastard is still lusting after you, and you are in effect teasing him


Girls saying lets just be friends are very evil... (totally different after a relationship break up of course)


but yeah jay just go out for some drinks with her, if she gets smashed she will soon appreciate your "friendship" ;)

[Todd]

There is.. its called alcohol, ive slept with a few "friends" in this manner, of course, if you sleep with a "friend" they want a relationship, and even if you politley turn them down they wont want to be "friends" andymore

Friends is in brackets because ladies, in these situations where you say to a guy "lets just be friends" you just are not, You wanna be pals with the guy, the guy does not want to in the least way be just firends with you, therefore they are not true friendships, because the poor little bastard is still lusting after you, and you are in effect teasing him


Girls saying lets just be friends are very evil... (totally different after a relationship break up of course)


but yeah jay just go out for some drinks with her, if she gets smashed she will soon appreciate your "friendship" ;)

And thats the end of Opera for today :)

*roll credits*

[YetAnotherKitten]

I say, if she's single tell her..

But you know ask her if she wants to hang out first and then like surpize her with a bunch of her favorite things.. and maybe get a psychic to tell her that her true love is right there in fornt of her lool (meaning you) idk..

that way you don;'t have to say anything

[tca]

get really drunk, memorise a sappy love song, get a big bunch of roses, go to her house at 1 - 4am (the time is your choice, late makes it seem more like you care lol then sing said love song, badly, present her with the roses and let it go from there

if all else fails, blame the alcohol and spend the next day apoligising

[YetAnotherKitten]

I'd say don't do that. Drunk men are NOT sexy.

[NovaCaine]

I'd say don't do that. Drunk men are NOT sexy.


dont have to be sexy just romantic...lol

[RedRum]

love sux but i think u dhould send her a pm with a long rant about how she make you happy and how she comltes you or some crap like that

[tca]

I'd say don't do that. Drunk men are NOT sexy.

to you

it depends on the woman, not everyone can be sophisticated and above the world :rolleyes:

[Uganja]

i'm drunk, stoned or high on coke 80% of the time that i spend with her.

Any more suggestions? I notice no one's got any ideas on how to get her out of my head!

Ps. Jacx you're a wanker ::):

[Buzzin]

Im kinda in the same situation as you Jay, but i dont love my friend like you do :D :P The fact that im mates with her brother and ive pulled 2 of her best mates dont make me stand much of a chance with her anyway. I'd say either tell her how you feel or move onto some other bird ;)

[tca]

i'm drunk, stoned or high on coke 80% of the time that i spend with her.

Any more suggestions? I notice no one's got any ideas on how to get her out of my head!

Ps. Jacx you're a wanker ::):

you can't get her out of your head, simple lol

[Santo]

you can't get her out of your head, simple lol

quoted for emphasis

[SweetHoney]

Jay~

Getting her out of your head is not what you REALLY want for several reasons.

1. You love her.
2. You will not be "just friends" with her...EVER. You can't go back.
3. She doesn't want you NOW for some valid reason that you understand. She obviously needs to "deal with" some things first.
4. If she is in the slightest actually interested in you beyond friendship, it (a "relationship") will happen in its own time, but you need to be patient and conscientious until that time.
5. When she IS ready, you will still want her. Don't push her away now, but don't let her "slip away" without knowing how you feel either.
6. You must eventually tell her how you feel, or risk always being "just a friend" in her eyes, so never lie to her about your true feelings. You can tell her she doesn't want to know, or that you will tell her when you are/she is ready.
7. To "get her out of your head"...you would have to be out of yours.
8. If you GOT her out of your head, that wonderful feeling you get when you are around her would have to go with her.
9. We love who we love, and you cannot change that, nor would you want to.
10. You need to let yourself love her, and at some point she will need to know she is loved...by you.

*imho*

[kizkiz]

This thread is worthless without pics :D

Advice depends on what she looks like

[tca]

SH, thats 10 ;)

[Trajedy001]

hmm.. have fun with that dude... it only gets worse before it ever starts to get better...

[Trajedy001]

Jay~

Getting her out of your head is not what you REALLY want for several reasons.

1. You love her.
2. You will not be "just friends" with her...EVER. You can't go back.
3. She doesn't want you NOW for some valid reason that you understand. She obviously needs to "deal with" some things first.
4. If she is in the slightest actually interested in you beyond friendship, it (a "relationship") will happen in its own time, but you need to be patient and conscientious until that time.
5. When she IS ready, you will still want her. Don't push her away now, but don't let her "slip away" without knowing how you feel either.
6. You must eventually tell her how you feel, or risk always being "just a friend" in her eyes, so never lie to her about your true feelings. You can tell her she doesn't want to know, or that you will tell her when you are/she is ready.
7. To "get her out of your head"...you would have to be out of yours.
8. If you GOT her out of your head, that wonderful feeling you get when you are around her would have to go with her.
9. We love who we love, and you cannot change that, nor would you want to.
10. You need to let yourself love her, and at some point she will need to know she is loved...by you.

*imho*




HOLY CRAP ANOTHER OREGONIAN!! WAS HAPPENIN YO??

[Cheese on Toast]

i think u should just try it on w/ her. chances are she'll wanna touch ur short, pretty thing ;)

































yes ur hair :)

[SweetHoney]

SH, thats 10 ;)


:Rose: Is not ten "several"? *blush*


HOLY CRAP ANOTHER OREGONIAN!! WAS HAPPENIN YO??


Not much honey...where around town are you? *curious* ;)