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Beli
12th May 2007, 04:11 PM
how do you know if you are truly in love?
my dad used to tell me "you just know"

but how can one explain it?

DeLeRiuM
12th May 2007, 04:16 PM
I think the more important question is how do you know your in a love that will last...

Beli
12th May 2007, 04:18 PM
I think the more important question is how do you know your in a love that will last...

oh a very good point. and at what point do you trust the person enough to hand over your heart.

how many times do you let that person stomp on your heart before you take it back and go looking somewhere else?

tca
12th May 2007, 04:22 PM
True love..................what tca feels for belinda (f) :D

seriously though, i don't think it can be explained really

Todd
12th May 2007, 04:24 PM
True love is the hearts recognition of it's counter part in another...(f)


Or so i heard on Wedding Crashers, lol :hidey:

Jacx
12th May 2007, 06:38 PM
for a guy its simple....every morning when u wake up, check you got morning glory when u look at the misses beside you, so far we are set for life :P

JaiJai
12th May 2007, 08:27 PM
for a guy its simple....every morning when u wake up, check you got morning glory when u look at the misses beside you, so far we are set for life :P


:nods:

hehe

Eyez Neverclear
13th May 2007, 05:16 AM
When she annoys you and you have flashes of strangling her, *you don't end up doing it, but you somehow find yourself asking for more of her and liking it when you get it.

*that part is very important ;)

Nazkyn
13th May 2007, 02:20 PM
*Must... refrain... from... sappiness...* :hidey:

dave
13th May 2007, 05:58 PM
tbh love sucks, no matter if its just a little crush or madly in love. always ends in being hurt

Beli
13th May 2007, 06:09 PM
tbh love sucks, no matter if its just a little crush or madly in love. always ends in being hurt

not true.
i started the thread on the 11th anniversary of my first date with my true love (f)
he hasn't broken my heart yet and i don't anticipate it happening.

but how does one know that they are in love?

it is when your heart skips a beat when that person comes into the room?

when the phone rings and you jump to answer it? hoping it is them.

dave
13th May 2007, 06:17 PM
yes, and when u think about someone all the time, and just the sound of there voice makes you smile,

Nazkyn
13th May 2007, 06:24 PM
tbh love sucks, no matter if its just a little crush or madly in love. always ends in being hurt

Maybe if you stopped slicing your name in your arm you would have a bit more luck ;) I can't imagine the 'chicks' diggin' that shit.

I'm one of those people that believes that 'true love' is something that happens only once in a lifetime, I believe I have met the one too :hidey:

The way I know is that my heart misses a beat everytime she tells me she loves me and we're completely natural together... obviously every relationship takes some effort but we just... work. I feel like I have known her for years :hidey:

dave
13th May 2007, 06:27 PM
fair point lol, laura got all upset about it and iv not spoke to her since but oh well im not gonna do it again. onmly wanted the scar and i got it

Calienta
13th May 2007, 06:28 PM
I think true love is whenever you picture yourself at some point in the future - they are there, and you can't handle even imagining not having them around. When you choke up over the thought that something might happen to them.

When you'd give everything you have to that person. I think if you're scared to marry them, scared to make any sort of commitment - then it's not love.

Beli
13th May 2007, 06:30 PM
Maybe if you stopped slicing your name in your arm you would have a bit more luck ;) I can't imagine the 'chicks' diggin' that shit.

I'm one of those people that believes that 'true love' is something that happens only once in a lifetime, I believe I have met the one too :hidey:

The way I know is that my heart misses a bit everytime she tells me she loves me and we're completely natural together... obviously every relationship takes some effort but we just... work. I feel like I have known her for years :hidey:

awww (f) i know what you mean! it was really weird for the first few years when we both thought about the same thing at the same time. almost like ESP. now we have learned to deal with it :hehe: i don't have to speak most of my thoughts... he already knows what i am thinking:grin:

Nazkyn
13th May 2007, 06:30 PM
I think true love is whenever you picture yourself at some point in the future - they are there, and you can't handle even imagining not having them around. When you choke up over the thought that something might happen to them.

When you'd give everything you have to that person. I think if you're scared to marry them, scared to make any sort of commitment - then it's not love.

^^

That woman scares me :hidey:

awww (f) i know what you mean! it was really weird for the first few years when we both thought about the same thing at the same time. almost like ESP. now we have learned to deal with it :hehe: i don't have to speak most of my thoughts... he already knows what i am thinking:grin:

That was EXACTLY like me and Rachel... even before we even considered being any more then friends. We would be talking in MSN and say the exact same thing at the exact same time, it got kinda freaky :hidey:

(Can you edit my spelling mistake) *cough*

Calienta
13th May 2007, 06:36 PM
haha yeah I remember that! Too weird hehe

Nazkyn
13th May 2007, 06:42 PM
haha yeah I remember that! Too weird hehe

Innit. Now shut your maaf and back to ironing!!

Beli
13th May 2007, 06:46 PM
Innit. Now shut your maaf and back to ironing!!

lmfao!! if you 2 are ever in Cali... you better stop by and visit me. :hehe:

Calienta
13th May 2007, 06:56 PM
Why, so we can do your ironing?? Bear in mind I'll probably iron even worse wrinkles into your clothing before I actually do any good :hidey:

Nazkyn
13th May 2007, 07:01 PM
Just for the non-believers like Dave -

The word 'monogamy' is in the dictionary because it is common enough to be there ;)

Repo Man ®
1st June 2007, 07:45 AM
how do you know if you are truly in love?
my dad used to tell me "you just know"

but how can one explain it?


Only when the heart and the mind both agree, will you have found true love

Repo

Uganja
1st June 2007, 09:19 AM
I think true love is when you are just about to cum in a chicks eye, then you re-consider and lower it into her mouth instead (f)

Beli
1st June 2007, 09:27 AM
I think true love is when you are just about to cum in a chicks eye, then you re-consider and lower it into her mouth instead (f)

i was told... 'true love is when you swallow'

Uganja
1st June 2007, 09:31 AM
thats returning the true love i've just shown, definately

Beli
1st June 2007, 09:35 AM
thats returning the true love i've just shown, definately

so how do i know if he truly loves me?

Expectation
1st June 2007, 09:50 AM
It is a chemical reaction that is very similiar to taking illicit drugs. Some of the neurotransmitters (but not limited to) are dopamine, nor-epinephrine and serotonin. Dopamine may be involved in the “attention-getting” phase of attraction, signalling the brain that a potential reward, in this case a love interest, is nearby and helping focus your attention on that person. Nor-epinephrine gets your blood racing and primes you for action (or to flee, in some cases–it’s involved in the so-called “fight or flight” response), while serotonin is closely associated with the control of moods, which everyone knows can fluctuate drastically in the process of falling in love.

This would also explain why people go into such a funk/depression when they are dumped. You feel like shit because of a withdrawal effect.

And amazingly, I'm married.

Uganja
1st June 2007, 10:10 AM
so how do i know if he truly loves me?

He wont bust a nut in your eye

Aeon
4th June 2007, 02:46 AM
Love is a lost concept....

Chemistry is the main component... without that there is no love.