For the record Beli....

[JaiJai]

Shoutbox log from earlier today.

[06-19-2007 02:34 PM] Beli: so i am assuming about 8 months...like the forum update
[06-19-2007 02:34 PM] Beli: but i think that is up to Rit now
[06-19-2007 02:34 PM] Beli: nor sorted overall monies
[06-19-2007 02:30 PM] Konser: Jacx still hasn't sorted the banner contests

Beli.. I don't know where you get off calling Jacx and Rit lazy all the time... You bitch and moan about every little change around here, and then when things aren't done straight away.. or to your liking...you whip out the ole "jacx and rit are lazy" frenzy. These comments today weren't bad just in themselves..but combined with all the other ones you continously make. You complain more than anyone I've seen here in over 3 years and it's gotten old fast.

You know what.. at first I didn't think much of you, because you came on the forum and quickly tried your hardest to be everyone's friend...by whatever means were available to you (sending gifts, taking sides, flirting with the guys), just whichever way you could to fit in... I admit I didn't trust it. But I started giving it a chance, and for a while I thought you were alright..

But then when the mods were changed, you worked your hardest to rile up the ones who were taken off (Yes many ppl have told me) ... You try to pit people against each other.. You instigate rebellions....and I think the worst thing is you run from person to person, talking trash behind other ppl's backs. You manipulate staff to get information, so you can use it in your little rebellions.

Ya know what.. I am sick of you dissing My husband, and Rit.. anytime you don't get your way and as quick as you want it. Why am I making this post instead of those guys? Simply because they could care less what you say or think about them.. But I'm not them.. and I do care that you badmouth them like that!

You will never come between us that have made friendships here long before you came along. You don't have the power to do that. Sure, maybe you've been able to influence a select few.. but in the end.. those of us who formed a family type relationship are way stronger than you and your antics will ever be.

It's simple.. If you don't like the way this place is run, or the people who run it... then fuck off.

/rant over

edit: btw... when John started doing DW admin duties awhile back.. He gathered up the list of people who had been waiting on donation codes and he made sure EVERYONE , Including You.. got your donations owed to you. And many people can attest to that. So rather than keeping in mind that he Does make sure ppl are taken care of, you'd rather make shitty comments any chance you get. :blahblah: Not to mention, Rit HAS sent your check. And these guys have more than just this forum to do.. so yea.. the banner contests took longer to judge than planned..but they are done now too.

[Dymond]

WTF??? Where do you get she's calling Jacx lazy?? Rit maybe but not Jacx..Sorry but its not what I read..

[Asshole]

Bra-fucking-vo

Its been a long time coming in my opinion, i may be rude to the mods to have a little fun, but i would never call any of them lazy especially jacx who i would personally class as a friend and whom i know puts many many hours of work into the forum, and as far as i understand still has a list of things to do, its a public forum, a place for fun and chat, not a business.. jacx doesnt get paid to babysit you lot..

stand up and give the man some credit and thanks rather than always putting him down

and as jaijai previousley mentioned, the forum is not the only part that jacx hasto work on, grow up



(and that goes for a few of you, not just beli)

[JaiJai]

WTF??? Where do you get she's calling Jacx lazy?? Rit maybe but not Jacx..Sorry but its not what I read..



Ah yes.. here come her little fans to defend her.. as expected.

Her mentality was that they as admin are lazy.. JOHN did the forum updates.. and everyone knows this... So the comment was to them in general. Along with all her other comments she makes in private.. and in threads.. it's a general mentality.

So.. it's what I feel and this is AIW and I've said what I think.. and what many others think that may be too unwilling to post.

(Y)

[Dymond]

Honestly it has nothing to do with friendship.. More like you have basically put up a weak case and are building your prosecution around it.. Should I call you Mike Nifong? He did the same thing and he doesn't have a job or a bar # anymore.

[JaiJai]

Dymond I dont' care what you call me, but pssst....this isn't the Duke case and this isn't my job..no comparison. lol

She has always dissed admin here when she doesn't get her way.. and this was just an addition, a final straw so to speak.

Jacx specifically made sure she got her donations that were owed to her not to long ago.. so rather than be patient or send a pm to admin, she mouths off in the SB.. and I think she's manipulative and an instigator.. and so I spoke my mind.

There's no prosecution... so who cares what my "case" is? I said what I feel. Simple as that.. same as you're entitled to your opinion here. ;)

[Dymond]

Well opinions are like assholes..some stink more than others.. No offense to The Asshole..

[JaiJai]

Yea and this is AIW... and I'm using it for a change ;)

And I commend you for trying to come to her rescue, but i'm sure its not needed. :pats:
I said what I think and she will say what she thinks (probably).. and we will have our little AIW flame fest and it'll be over :P

[Todd]

*edit* Resa caught me on msn to let me know this thread wasn't aimed at my shout.


What i said was just a joke, "why isn't the banner contest finished Mr Jacx?:glare:" I've said it a few times just playing around :D

I've said a few times, Jacx is really approachable (except when he's in season:P)and the odd 1 or 2 problems i have had on this forum he's sorted in no time, top bloke (Y)

[Dymond]

Well its good that your utilizing the AIW for what its meant for..

[Dymond]

What i said was just a joke, "why isn't the banner contest finished Mr Jacx?:glare:" I've said it a few times just playing around :D

I've said a few times, Jacx is really approachable (except when he's in season:P)and the odd 1 or 2 problems i have had on this forum he's sorted in no time, top bloke (Y)

Kiss ass ;-)

[Asshole]

This is my section, i demand to see konser insulted !!!


and for the record dy while i respect you totally i believe your friendship with beli may have clouded the situation, i have heard from many sources AND witnessed firsthand in the SB how much respect beli has for the staff around here, along with her attitude 90% of the time i think its time she got a reality check and she just recieved it

[JaiJai]

Hey don't take my thread off track.. It's the first time i've started an AIW thread since i've been a member here and I demand you don't derail it! :nono:


:fu: konser...there is that good?

[Todd]

Kiss ass ;-)

What ever do you mean?(a)

This is my section, i demand to see konser insulted !!!


Nice shades

Hey don't take my thread off track.. It's the first time i've started an AIW thread since i've been a member here and I demand you don't derail it! :nono:


Apologies :)

[Moonblood]

agreed with resa.

[steff]

[06-19-2007 02:34 PM] Beli: so i am assuming about 8 months...like the forum update
[06-19-2007 02:34 PM] Beli: but i think that is up to Rit now
[06-19-2007 02:34 PM] Beli: nor sorted overall monies
[06-19-2007 02:30 PM] Konser: Jacx still hasn't sorted the banner contests


She was just relating and the post after about Jacx conceded it's Rit that she needs so where's the problem?

[Flashman]

mild sarcasm at worst - hardly a reason to be told to fuck off.

oh and btw,

Round 42 (February 2007)
1 Love Rats $2,774,593,329 - GOLD

would like my donation code too please :)

[JaiJai]

Ok you have your point of view I have mine.. as I said in my prior post.. This one instance in itself is not worth this thread... However..it's a constant thing with her and this was the "final straw". I get tired of her slamming the admins here, as she's done the entire time she's been on the forum...and I have the right to say how I feel about her.

Her and I have some of the same friends.. hopefully those that are will just walk away and not feel they have to choose sides. because I personally don't want/need any backing.. I feel how I do, end of story. I am not out to damage her, I just want her to grow up and stop being so critical of everything admins here do! One of them happens to be my husband and I see how he agonizes over this place and has so much passion for it. This forum has been here long before you beli.. and for you to waltz in here and start dissing staff or the way this place is run at every turn isn't cool. Anyone who knows me knows I dont' get angry often but this does anger me. :grr: Although I'm sure it's not worth the energy it takes to be mad about it.

As I said ... if she hates how this place is run so much.. she should fuck off outta here ... simple as that.


Flashman.. have u pm'd jacx letting him know u are owed a code? If so, I'm sure you'll get it soon :)

[TJ60]

finally a REAL fucking thread calling someone out and it's dying fast. Let the person who started the thread and the person she called out actually post n it. Shit it's what 16 posts and its mainly Jai Jai defending herself for calling her out, thats not the way AIW worked in the old forum. So with that being said let the fucking ladies say their peice....and no i don't mean Konser when i say ladies.

[F8SentMe]

Okay I'm not sure what happened but as usual I have an opinion anyway. I had no clue what went into this site, to be honest I figured Admin had to get paid or why would they do it. Unlike other sites I don't get ad banners or popups they are obviously not selling ad space. Therefore no money really coming in except donations and I'm pretty sure that huge amount of money (sarcasm) goes to keeping the site running. So after all of us bitched when the new program was installed about how much we hated the update and asked that it go to exactly the way it was before when we all still bitched it made me see that these people are far from LAZY....I really don't think they sit around thinking of ways to slow things down or to piss people off. It's not news that I sometimes disagree with things e.g. the sucky rep system but I would really hate it if this site weren't here at all. For once I agree with Michael (Asshole) who would have thought but instead of always pointing out the bad maybe we should start a Thank You Thread....... Nah let's not get carried away LOL but John and Rit I appreciate everything you do Thank You... And to show you my appreciation ima send you a little something something. Okay Resa put something sexy on and please your man for me please. Did that sound right? And Rit well you can watch haha Well just remember that tonight is on me sorta thanks Resa I'll owe you one haha well two if Rit gets to watch.:hehe:

[vixen]

OK I feel its time for me to weigh in....no pun intended :)

I was an emotional mess when I got demoted from my mod position....dumb or not, it is what it is.....

I talked to a few people, of course not the person I most needed to talk to, John...instead I went to my friends. F8 was a voice of reason, she told me the truth....not what I wanted to hear, just the truth. Then there was Beli....she told me what I wanted to hear. That I was wronged, what they did to me was personal, that I was screwed on purpose etc. She found me posts to create a PM to rit and that I needed to send it and have my voice heard. What I did was sink to an all time low, hurt friends and make myself look like an ass.....

In the end I know who my friends are, who my family here is and who has my best interest at heart....

[JaiJai]

See... this is the first time I've spoken to you Vix, since the whole mod thing.. and I KNEW she was riling you up and egging you on way before you just now said it!

The reason I knew, is because she was also doing it to other people as well. And with situations around here before, she was the leading force at instigating revolts against staff. It's how she has operated many times.

I duno.. maybe you aren't all bad beli.... but from everything I see.. there's a large amount of fakeness and self serving agenda going on with you, and I'm not sure what you gain from it besides attention and half hearted "friends"?






Vix... I knew the things you were saying wasn't coming from your own heart. You've been like my own sister for over 3 years now, and I knew it wasn't really you. Glad to have ya back tho :Friends:

Love ya , as always

[~Justpeachyy~]

:popcorn:

[F8SentMe]

OK I feel its time for me to weigh in....no pun intended :)

I was an emotional mess when I got demoted from my mod position....dumb or not, it is what it is.....

I talked to a few people, of course not the person I most needed to talk to, John...instead I went to my friends. F8 was a voice of reason, she told me the truth....not what I wanted to hear, just the truth. Then there was Beli....she told me what I wanted to hear. That I was wronged, what they did to me was personal, that I was screwed on purpose etc. She found me posts to create a PM to rit and that I needed to send it and have my voice heard. What I did was sink to an all time low, hurt friends and make myself look like an ass.....

In the end I know who my friends are, who my family here is and who has my best interest at heart....


I do I do...... Plus I really like that you unlike most people have the balls and class to say hey I fucked up and I'm sorry instead of making excuses. In my book those are the things I look for in people I respect versus the ones i am just e-nice too. Love you Vix

[Shanna]

peachy share the damn popcorn!!:hehe:

[Deadwrong]

so 3 full pages and no response from beli...thats wierd....does any1 kno if shes seen the thread yet, its not like her to not defend herself, wait, let me correct myself, she is not being attacked, but thats wat it mite seem like to her. where are ya beli??

[Dymond]

Last I heard she had gotten into this MMO with Phuq..

[Pirate Hooker with Monkey]

MMO? :eh: Wow, I'm really behind on my leet speak

[tca]

Mass Multiplayer Online

Everyone in this thread from about page 2 onwards needs a tissue, i agree with craig, first mint thread in here and yous are turning it into a sappy piece of shit.

Asshole - being sort of usual, so he is fine

Konser - comes in here joking around and being well just childish as per usual, obviously hasn't grapsed the title "Accusations, Insults and Whining"

Dymond - he couldn't start a fight by pretending to be gay in a bikie bar

Vixen - thought you were leaving?

thats all, whine away kiddies, im getting me some popcorn :popcorn:

[Todd]

Konser - comes in here joking around and being well just childish as per usual, obviously hasn't grapsed the title "Accusations, Insults and Whining"



I tryed exersizing the real use of AIW once, but someone felt the heat and ran off saying "hell, im too good for you go die, nana".. or something along those lines (Y)

[tca]

I tryed exersizing the real use of AIW once, but someone felt the heat and ran off saying "hell, im too good for you go die, nana".. or something along those lines (Y)

Really? Thats not a very nice thing to say about asshole, he gonna whoop your ass for that.

here we go resa, perfect example of stirring an idiot pot for my own amusement ;)

[Asshole]

Really? Thats not a very nice thing to say about asshole, he gonna whoop your ass for that.

here we go resa, perfect example of stirring an idiot pot for my own amusement ;)


The only idiot is you, this thread is not about you so stop trying to make it such, unless you have something else to say regarding the actuall topic of the thread fuck off, if you want to call me an idiot go make your own thread for it, from which you will once again run away, like so many times before stating "I wont argue with asshole he makes me look like a fool"..

aww your poor little bruised ego...

[vixen]

Really? Thats not a very nice thing to say about asshole, he gonna whoop your ass for that.

here we go resa, perfect example of stirring an idiot pot for my own amusement ;)

Or spamming to improve your post count....

[Todd]

Really? Thats not a very nice thing to say about asshole, he gonna whoop your ass for that.

wow, is it me or did tca just resort to a typical playground comeback, whats next? "i know you are, but what am i?"

Who said this guy could flame? Oh yeah, he did :rolleyes:

here we go resa, perfect example of stirring an idiot pot for my own amusement

Just another fine example of you trying to excuse you're lack of a retort.



After that i refuse to engage in any sort of argument with you, as i will not take advantage of the mentally challanged.

[tca]

To avoid being hounded by "big bad asshole" for it being off topic, Resa and Belinda both rock.

NOW, Konser, if you have an issue, take it to another thread like Asshole told ME to do, instead of just dribbling shit here, we could start awhole new thread, oh before i rewrap this up, if you think im trying to excuse my lack of a retort, how bout you ask Resa what i said on msn about 8 or 9 hours before i posted that stuff, that i'd post only to stir the idiot pot, again.

As for Vixen, Konser and Asshole, give them a round of applause folks, proved my point in its entirety, such a great crowd, take a bow!!

Case closed, enjoy the being a sheep and lead around in circles.

[Buckledmac]

mild sarcasm at worst - hardly a reason to be told to fuck off.

oh and btw,

Round 42 (February 2007)
1 Love Rats $2,774,593,329 - GOLD

would like my donation code too please :)

what do you mean your donation code :argh:

[Taste of Britain]

*edit* Resa caught me on msn to let me know this thread wasn't aimed at my shout.


What i said was just a joke, "why isn't the banner contest finished Mr Jacx?:glare:" I've said it a few times just playing around :D

I've said a few times, Jacx is really approachable (except when he's in season:P)and the odd 1 or 2 problems i have had on this forum he's sorted in no time, top bloke (Y)


:hehe: :hehe:
:roflmao:

[Cowboy From Hell]

why not settle this with mud wrestling? :run:

[Cushion]

only if i can watch :D

[Asshole]

As for Vixen, Konser and Asshole, give them a round of applause folks, proved my point in its entirety, such a great crowd, take a bow!!

Case closed, enjoy the being a sheep and lead around in circles.

the only person here saying baa is you..

and we all know whos pulling your strings too..

[Aeon]

This is something that didn't happen overnight guys...

this has been a on-going problem that I have witnessed.

I adore beli, she's funny and daring and wicked...and i'd get into evil games with her anytime..

But i have been a witness to this behavior in all fairness and
I think everyone should back the fuck off and let Beli come in here and explain herself...

I'm sure she has a logical reason for the misunderstandings that have been going on.

The floor is hers.

[~Justpeachyy~]

peachy share the damn popcorn!!:hehe:

Okies... :popcorn: for you .. Berger

[Santo]

stop spamming and let the ladies wrestle in mud :eek:


:run:

[Flashman]

what do you mean your donation code :argh:

lol - I meant "our" donation codes, obviously *cough*lasvegas*cough* :P

[tca]

the only person here saying baa is you..

and we all know whos pulling your strings too..

O'rly? Do share so i can laugh at your lack of intelligence, again.

[Blindj]

wtf? 5pages and good stuff from jaijai and no reply from beli and a bunch of spam crap hell let me know if the acussed speaks please

[HellRaiser]

I believe Beli is on Holidays/Vacation and not around.
So everyone will have to wait awhile for a response I assume.
I am sure this will be 40 pages by that time lol...

[Flashman]

maybe she has a real life and doesn't give a fuck.

[JaiJai]

Flashman.. why do you feel the need to speak for her? Are you her flavor of the month now or something?

We all know she normally is on here 24/7, posting and talking in the SB... now all the sudden she's quiet? Since you're speaking for her, answer this...Why couldn't she be this quiet rather than making her shitty comments about people in the first place? She seems to "give a fuck" when she's running her mouth about how this place is run. lol

And the whole "she's on vacation" isn't valid, because she's still posting in her cartel and reading the forum ;) Let's just face it, quite a few people have spoken up with the same type of accusations, and everything is out in the open and she really has no defense or reasoning she can post...that's why she's quiet, not that she doesn't give a fuck.

And flashman, are you saying you don't have a real life? Afterall you've posted a few times in this thread.

[CrayZii-InDiaN]

flashy is cornered by resa ;)

[Flashman]

I definitely have no life.

[I Got Priors]

I can't comment on the topic at hand but I just want Beli to know that I (L) you. (f)

Can we make-out now? :hidey:

[swiss miss]

my two-penneth worth.......

personally, i am the kind of person that cannot sit back and be a sheep - if i have an opinion on something i WILL say it...... i think i have made that clear during my time here and whilst some people will respect me for speaking out, im sure im very unpopular with some people but frankly i dont care - im not afraid of being dislike here if im talking about a subject i feel strongly about............. now i also think these are qualities that Beli has too and so if she isnt posting here it may be becuase she simply couldnt give a damn - she has the right to criticise admin if she feels that she is being badly treated by them (i cannot comment on the legitimacy of her comments as i have no idea about the case in question). Beli is a big character on this forum - love her or hate her, its a quieter place without her, i think thats something we can all agree on :dunno:

[vixen]

my two-penneth worth.......

personally, i am the kind of person that cannot sit back and be a sheep - if i have an opinion on something i WILL say it...... i think i have made that clear during my time here and whilst some people will respect me for speaking out, im sure im very unpopular with some people but frankly i dont care - im not afraid of being dislike here if im talking about a subject i feel strongly about............. now i also think these are qualities that Beli has too and so if she isnt posting here it may be becuase she simply couldnt give a damn - she has the right to criticise admin if she feels that she is being badly treated by them (i cannot comment on the legitimacy of her comments as i have no idea about the case in question). Beli is a big character on this forum - love her or hate her, its a quieter place without her, i think thats something we can all agree on :dunno:



And by saying this you in no way ascertained if it was a good or a bad thing....care to elaborate??

[JaiJai]

she has the right to criticise admin if she feels that she is being badly treated by them (i cannot comment on the legitimacy of her comments as i have no idea about the case in question).

This is true.. you must not have any idea about the legitimacy of her comments.. orelse you'd know that she hasn't been "treated badly by admins", on the contrary... they've spent agonizing hours listening and trying to please her, for awhile anyways. ;)

Beli is a big character on this forum - love her or hate her, its a quieter place without her, i think thats something we can all agree on :dunno:

..and Germany was a quieter place when hitler left.. what's your point? :dunno:


Listen... I've had 6 reps and 8 pms regarding this thread, not to mention the msn messages i've recieved... even I was surprised to hear how many people supported me and agreed with things in this thread. Now it doesn't really matter to me if she responds or not.... I feel the way I do regarding her antics and her comments.. and I called her out on it.... there's nothing she can say that jusifies her actions, so I don't really expect her to post nor do I care at this point (Y)

Nothing personal Swiss miss.. I think you're a nice member.. I'm just giving u a rebuttal since this is a debate :P

[Buckledmac]

if you take those pennies to america they'd be worth double!!!

[Dymond]

You know what guys I told her NOT to post in here.. It felt it more like a witch hunt than anything else and I told her the best thing is to ignore it. I totally agree with Swiss and with Flashman. JaiJai you and I talked but I'm confused about something. You said you posted this to get this off your chest but every time somebody comes in and defends Beli you are all over them like the proverbial 'flies on shit'. You tell everyone how many people sent you messages of praise yet there wasn't alot here posted publicly but god forbid somebody says otherwise you tear them a new one. Now I'm not dissing your cause or your anger in what you feel she is/was doing to the admins and mods. I just know that this never happened in my convos with Beli. I never felt like she was turning me against anybody.

I can tell you that Beli will most likely be going away. She has found other things that interest her more than the Forums and DW. In fact she has even said she is finding it harder and harder to play her tokens. She said the only reason she was here when the SB post was copied was because the other site was down for maintenance and she was bored.

and Jesse for your comments way back there.. Honestly dude, your not even in the same league as me. I was engaging in full scale flame wars before your mama wiped the first bit of shit off your tiny baby ass.

[JaiJai]

You know what guys I told her NOT to post in here.. It felt it more like a witch hunt than anything else and I told her the best thing is to ignore it. I totally agree with Swiss and with Flashman. JaiJai you and I talked but I'm confused about something. You said you posted this to get this off your chest but every time somebody comes in and defends Beli you are all over them like the proverbial 'flies on shit'. You tell everyone how many people sent you messages of praise yet there wasn't alot here posted publicly but god forbid somebody says otherwise you tear them a new one. Now I'm not dissing your cause or your anger in what you feel she is/was doing to the admins and mods. I just know that this never happened in my convos with Beli. I never felt like she was turning me against anybody.

I can tell you that Beli will most likely be going away. She has found other things that interest her more than the Forums and DW. In fact she has even said she is finding it harder and harder to play her tokens. She said the only reason she was here when the SB post was copied was because the other site was down for maintenance and she was bored.

and Jesse for your comments way back there.. Honestly dude, your not even in the same league as me. I was engaging in full scale flame wars before your mama wiped the first bit of shit off your tiny baby ass.


Why would you tell her not to post and defend herself? Does she ask your advice before she mouths off? I doubt that. You admittedly said you used to "engage in full scale flame wars before", yet would you have wanted someone to step in front of those u were calling out and flaming and stop them from replying? Isn't she quite a bit older than you and can make her own decisions without your Chivalry? lol

This is AIW.... why don't you quit trying to stop it from being ACCUSATIONS ... INSULTS ... and WHINING.. Good Grief!

Big deal two ppl stepped up and semi defended her.. and since this is my thread.. it's my right to rebutt anything that's said here , is it not?? And I hardly think I tore swiss or flash a "new one" ... if you call that tearing someone a new one i'd hate to see what a real flame war is like :rofl:

I'm sure you're scoring points by speaking FOR her.. but give it a rest.. I didn't plan on even posting to Beli anymore (that should make you happy :)) I already said to her what I had to say .. all i'm doing now is answering posts like this lol

You say I mentioned the rep and pm's of praise and that hardly anyone posted in here, I think you should look back through this thread and look at the blatant and subtle comments that were made. And any admin can look up my rep comments for you, if you don't believe it ;)

And how dare you talk to TCA like that! lol Oh wait.. this is AIW .. carry on :roll:

Enjoy your evening Dymond

[tca]

and Jesse for your comments way back there.. Honestly dude, your not even in the same league as me. I was engaging in full scale flame wars before your mama wiped the first bit of shit off your tiny baby ass.

lol why don't you go talk with asshole

perhaps between the two of you, you could come up with something that warrants a response more of

your boring, next

[Uganja]

Jesus H fucking Christ.

As transparent as a glass of water........


Resa, i personally think the main reason people are coming to the defence of Beli in this thread is that she isnt directly malicious to anyone (I'm not sure she's capable of that), its important to remember that people are sometimes blissfully ignorant to whats right in front of them. As a result, you wont change peoples opinions, they have to find out for themselves.
I often feel in real life that i am too cynical of people, that people have their own agenda and I personally fucking hate manipulative people..... thats the way i choose to live my life, rather than being niave to the cause (that way i wont get hurt) - but people are different.

Never the less, to me anyway, this thread does seem more like a "i don't like beli" thread, and perhaps you are just using the dissing of jacx as the catalyst for your cause, would that be a fair thing to say?


Ps. Dymond, you the man dude ;)

[Beli]

Wow! How one can twist my words when they are so plainly stated. Truly amazing to me. The way in under stood the forum update, is like this: Jacx did the majority of the work on it. Then came the part that only Rit could do. Rit was busy with school or something and didn’t get to it. Jacx did not have the access to continue with the upgrade and was left to wait. < that is the understanding I have in regards to the update. So I can hardly see that it is a negative statement towards Jacx.

And the overall winnings…Don’t offer a prize unless you intend to make good on it. The winnings I am waiting on are from March and April. We are nearing the end of June.

And now to the fun stuff . Jaijai..please state specifically what I complain about so much. Make a list of it would be the best way for me to see it. Exactly what is it that I am trying to get my way with? What information so I seek from mods/admins?

And my status is hidden. The only way you could see when I was last online is a. use still have your mod powers or b. you used Jacx account to spy on me. Either way…not very nice and good for you wholesome image.

When I the mods were changed, I had only one person that I was worried about…Phuquit. I wasn’t sure how he would take it. He said that it really didn’t matter to him and he wasn’t around here much anyway. I asked where the hell have you been hiding at. He told me about a new game and I started downloading it right then. 5 hours later my adventure began and I have been spending all my time on the new game. So accusations of me “riling people” has me laughing. And trash talking…Now really Jaijai…you really should look at yourself there. Anything and everything I need to say to or about people, I freely do so. To their face. Isn’t that what this entire thread is about? Me saying exactly what I feel?

I have never felt the need to try and force people to be friends with me. I do send people gifts. In r/l my poor friends are forced to endure all kinds of stuff. They are the ones you should feel truly sorry for. They don’t have a choice on sending me their addy or not.

Honestly Jaijai, you have made a lot of accusations but have provided nothing to back it up. Be extremely specific and list some of the things that you are talking about. I am totally open to listening to criticism. I just need to know exactly what you are talking about. Ie what admin has spent hours trying to please me? And exactly what rebellions have I started and what did I accomplish with said rebellion?

I am in the middle of 3 weeks of vacation that part is very true. I don’t check into this forum every day any longer. If one looks at my post count for the last 6 weeks, it has dropped drastically. And when I do check in, I certainly don’t have time to read every thread. I have certain people that I do read where they post at and Jaijai you are not one so I would have missed this thread entirely if it hadn’t been brought to my attention. Jay is correct in saying that I would never maliciously hurt someone. It isn’t my way. I thought that all the old school people on here were hardcore “flamers” yet I make a few remarks and have people with hurt feelings. How confusing for me.
Anyway, I am off to kill monsters and try and not die. Give me a few days to respond as the net where I am going for the next week is very spotty if any. No cell phone service either.

*anyone interested in the new game…pm me. But consider yourself WARNED! It is very addictive*

[Uganja]

You've shown yourself in a really good light in that post beli, what a well thought through reply.



Never the less i have my beer and crips ready for round 2






Edit: That was a bit too ass kissy by my standards so: Beli you suck dick, put a cock in it you flaming lesbian, i'm sick of your whining fat ass around here... the smells getting bad, and my balls still itch from the last time you had your mouth around them, facial hair on a chick is NOT COOL

[JaiJai]

You're right Beli.. it's all fabricated and exaggerated... Everyone is wrong and you are right, as always. I concede, you're perfect and all of this was from fantasy land.


Go enjoy your game :)

[YetAnotherKitten]

You're right Beli.. it's all fabricated and exaggerated... Everyone is wrong and you are right, as always. I concede, you're perfect and all of this was from fantasy land.


Go enjoy your game :)

That argument never works (well it never wins me anything)!! After all this build up I demand a TRUE debate!! :hehe:

[JaiJai]

That argument never works (well it never wins me anything)!! After all this build up I demand a TRUE debate!! :hehe:


lol lisa.. Well what else is to be said? I've said all of it in this thread.. she wants specific dates and things she's said.. I dont' have them, I didn't keep track as time has went on, such as keeping logs etc.. I just know that she's manipulative and she's sneaky and she's made alot of comments over time.. Many people have seen it and have even posted in this thread regarding it. She works alot behind the scenes and she makes the comments mostly in passing in the shoutbox.

I could sit here and tell all the storys that ppl have said to me this week, but that's up to them to post, I won't break their confidence by splashing it in here. I know what I know and that's good enough for me. She can come in here and play the innocent victim.. her supporters can come post in her behalf (bless them)... but it won't change history and how she's behaved.

What else can I say?

It really amounts to this... those that have witnessed her in action, they know .. those that dont' want to believe she's capable of being this way..will never believe it... and that's fine too.

[Cushion]

lol lisa.. Well what else is to be said? I've said all of it in this thread.. she wants specific dates and things she's said.. I dont' have them, I didn't keep track as time has went on, such as keeping logs etc.. I just know that she's manipulative and she's sneaky and she's made alot of comments over time.. Many people have seen it and have even posted in this thread regarding it. She works alot behind the scenes and she makes the comments mostly in the shoutbox.

I could sit here and tell all the storys that ppl have said to me this week, but that's up to them to post, I won't break their confidence by splashing it in here. I know what I know and that's good enough for me. She can come in here and play the innocent victim.. her supporters can come post in her behalf (bless them)... but it won't change history and how she's behaved.

What else can I say?

jacx really isnt that good in bed ? haha :hidey:

[JaiJai]

Bra-fucking-vo

Its been a long time coming in my opinion, i may be rude to the mods to have a little fun, but i would never call any of them lazy especially jacx who i would personally class as a friend and whom i know puts many many hours of work into the forum, and as far as i understand still has a list of things to do, its a public forum, a place for fun and chat, not a business.. jacx doesnt get paid to babysit you lot..

stand up and give the man some credit and thanks rather than always putting him down

and as jaijai previousley mentioned, the forum is not the only part that jacx hasto work on, grow up



(and that goes for a few of you, not just beli)

This is my section, i demand to see konser insulted !!!


and for the record dy while i respect you totally i believe your friendship with beli may have clouded the situation, i have heard from many sources AND witnessed firsthand in the SB how much respect beli has for the staff around here, along with her attitude 90% of the time i think its time she got a reality check and she just recieved it

agreed with resa.

OK I feel its time for me to weigh in....no pun intended :)

I was an emotional mess when I got demoted from my mod position....dumb or not, it is what it is.....

I talked to a few people, of course not the person I most needed to talk to, John...instead I went to my friends. F8 was a voice of reason, she told me the truth....not what I wanted to hear, just the truth. Then there was Beli....she told me what I wanted to hear. That I was wronged, what they did to me was personal, that I was screwed on purpose etc. She found me posts to create a PM to rit and that I needed to send it and have my voice heard. What I did was sink to an all time low, hurt friends and make myself look like an ass.....
In the end I know who my friends are, who my family here is and who has my best interest at heart....

This is something that didn't happen overnight guys...
this has been a on-going problem that I have witnessed.

I adore beli, she's funny and daring and wicked...and i'd get into evil games with her anytime..

But i have been a witness to this behavior in all fairness and
I think everyone should back the fuck off and let Beli come in here and explain herself...

I'm sure she has a logical reason for the misunderstandings that have been going on.

The floor is hers.

I can't comment on the topic at hand but I just want Beli to know that I (L) you. (f)

Can we make-out now? :hidey:


So are all these ppl exaggerating too when they speak of Beli here in this thread?? Are they only posting to fit their own agenda? I don't think so ;) It's obvious that even some of her close friends...can't really defend her on these accusations because even though they care about her and like her.. they know these things are true and what defense can they put forth?? If anyone's confused.. go read the very first post again.. why should I keep repeating it? lol

[Asshole]

And if more opinoins are required, jaijai can show her rep comments without the names, like she did to me on msn

infact just do it resa, at leats that way they cant dispute the facts

[JaiJai]

And if more opinoins are required, jaijai can show her rep comments without the names, like she did to me on msn

infact just do it resa, at leats that way they cant dispute the facts




Ok here's the rep comments but I've taken out the names and inserted X's because it's not cool to break confidences like that:

For the record Beli.... 06-21-2007 07:30 PM XXXXX i surport you, i dont like her XXXX

For the record Beli.... 06-21-2007 01:57 PM XXXXX I agree with what is said.. (can't post the rest or it'd reveal who it is)

For the record Beli.... 06-20-2007 07:53 PM vixen spot on sistah ~vix (she won't care that i leave her name)

For the record Beli.... 06-20-2007 01:16 AM XXXXX bravo, resa but don't let her get to you ... she isn't worth it

For the record Beli.... 06-19-2007 09:36 PM XXXXX ~You Rock~ XXXXX

For the record Beli.... 06-19-2007 09:35 PM XXXXX LMAO - XXXXX


Im showing these things to prove to ppl like Uganja that its not as transparent as he might think, that other ppl have had issues as well and this isn't just jaijai defending her poor admin hubby lmao Jacx can defend himself if he chooses and he's not shy about it when he does.... he and rit don't care what beli say about them.. like I said.. I made this thread because I wanted to say how I felt about it all. It's not JUST about what she says about staff, its also about how she manipulates ppl to instigate trouble..etc..

[Uganja]

I didn't mean to offend you with my comment Resa, you're a bloody sweetheart.

I was just trying to see it from both angles.


Tell john to work late tonight and i'll come and give you some of that jay lovin you've been pining for all these years :D

[dave]

for the record i repped jaijai and agree with her....incase anyone was wondering who repped her

[Asshole]

I didn't mean to offend you with my comment Resa, you're a bloody sweetheart.

I was just trying to see it from both angles.


Tell john to work late tonight and i'll come and give you some of that jay lovin you've been pining for all these years :D

you must of misheard her, she said she was curious about gay loving...

altho your so feminine I'm sure you could fulfill either

[JaiJai]

lol Jay.. I know it.. as close as we all are.. we can still disagree and debate in this section.. and hopefully not cause hard feelings. I'm always passionate when I believe in something.. don't mistake my passion for anger or being offended :cheeky:

You'll always be my number 1 shallow hal :Friends:

[Uganja]

you must of misheard her, she said she was curious about gay loving...

altho your so feminine I'm sure you could fulfill either


If i wanted the opinion of a fat cunt, i'd of got between Mari's legs and had a chat with her beaver.

Speak when spoken to

[Asshole]

If i wanted the opinion of a fat cunt, i'd of got between Mari's legs and had a chat with her beaver.

Speak when spoken to


Lol thats gold..


But im STILL not fat, now go look at the london trip thread baby hanson

[Uganja]

will do :grin:

[Dymond]

Wow..I'll be honest 'YOU ROCK' is blistering admission of Beli's guilt *rolls eyes*. Your friends will always say what you want to hear and I admire the ones that had (or didn't have) the balls to post in here.

I guess what I am most amazed at though is the blatant two-facedness that goes on this place. Here is the flash update, the people here are NOT your friends. You may think they are, they may even put 'nicies' in your rep but behind your back that are burying the dagger so deep you couldn't pull it out with a crowbar. I remember why I stay off of MSN nowadays and as Flashman so elegantly put it, 'have a real life'.

lol why don't you go talk with asshole

perhaps between the two of you, you could come up with something that warrants a response more of

your boring, next

and Jesse..this pat response is getting a bit tired. You use it consistently instead of actually saying anything of 'importance'. Really I've been here 4 years and I haven't seen you say anything that warrants thinking your actually good at anything other than filling a forum with crap. I think you've confused your ability to post quantity with quality. I know its hard to absorb but just because you have 20000 posts doesn't mean any of them were any good.

[JaiJai]

I guess what I am most amazed at though is the blatant two-facedness that goes on this place. Here is the flash update, the people here are NOT your friends. You may think they are, they may even put 'nicies' in your rep but behind your back that are burying the dagger so deep you couldn't pull it out with a crowbar.


Ahhh Alas! we agree on something in this thread Dy! :P

Don't mistake it, I'm definately not naive....I've been online for 7 years and I do know how ppl can be 2 faced. Why do you think some are sending messages in private rather than posting their thoughts here in the thread? (that doesn't mean everyone, because I did understand why a couple didn't post publicly)

And it doesn't matter if no one had posted... I Had hoped to call Beli out, her reply, us debate the whole situation, maybe a few comments by others, and then move on. I didn't want bandwagons, which I stated in my other post... and I don't need a team of ppl on my side to tip the scale. I also asked for our mutual friends to just stay out of it so as to not cause any hard feelings. People who know me know I usually try to see the good in everyone, but my anger overflowed at her constant remarks about admins and staff, and after a few other issues that happened, so I posted to get it off my chest.

As for the 2 faced people Dy... that's their problem... they know who they are, and they don't affect me.. because it's life.. they exist in school, work, circles of friends, and online (Y)

[tca]

and Jesse..this pat response is getting a bit tired. You use it consistently instead of actually saying anything of 'importance'. Really I've been here 4 years and I haven't seen you say anything that warrants thinking your actually good at anything other than filling a forum with crap. I think you've confused your ability to post quantity with quality. I know its hard to absorb but just because you have 20000 posts doesn't mean any of them were any good.

lol the same shit, from you and asshole, i could give you a million dollars and you couldn't buy a clue

so i spam, big whoop, all everyone sees you as is a big naive dickhead, that'd do anything for anyone, whats the term, pushover, fuck off old man n stop trying to my game, cos this shit has gone beyond your fame

[Dymond]

lol the same shit, from you and asshole, i could give you a million dollars and you couldn't buy a clue

so i spam, big whoop, all everyone sees you as is a big naive dickhead, that'd do anything for anyone, whats the term, pushover, fuck off old man n stop trying to my game, cos this shit has gone beyond your fame

I'll start here because that was utter shit.. I had to pause in the middle of it to yawn so I wouldn't fall asleep. Plus if thats your game it has to be the flame 'equivalent' of chutes and ladders. Why don't you put the kids games away and bring out something else, and no I'm not talking Candyland.

[tca]

I'll start here because that was utter shit.. I had to pause in the middle of it to yawn so I wouldn't fall asleep. Plus if thats your game it has to be the flame 'equivalent' of chutes and ladders. Why don't you put the kids games away and bring out something else, and no I'm not talking Candyland.

lol im sorry, you lost me after yawning, i know thats common at your age, but don't be dribbling your useless old man shit over my posts

[Dymond]

lol im sorry, you lost me after yawning, i know thats common at your age, but don't be dribbling your useless old man shit over my posts

Dude the old man jokes are about as tired as the rest of your lines. I mean you've already went to well once and it was pretty dry then. You better start digging for something else cause that dog won't hunt.

[YetAnotherKitten]

Alright.. I said I wasn't going to dip into this cuz it aint my mess.. but I think there are some lessons to be learned here and I'm sometimes halfway unbiased so I think I'll try to look at the facts instead of taking sides.

first we have the initial subject

JaiJai says:

She is fed up with Beli's said complaining, shit talking, manipulating, and overall bitchyness towrds her husband and Rit. She has had people tell her about these things and so feels that its not only her delusion.

Beli says:

JaiJai is twisting and exaggerating her words. She denies all of the accusations and points out that she hasn't posted becuase she "hasn't known about this thread".

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My feelings in general. I think Resa needs to get more hard facts and probably should have taken this up with Beli personally instead of making a thread about it. Although I'm sure many enjoyed the drama.

I had noticed Beli sort of freaking out in the shoutbox a few weeks ago, talking about "I think Tim was peachy's something or other". I had no idea what she was talking about but she seemed to be quite excited about it. I have seen some comments in her threads about overall winnings where she seemed pretty self-righteous. I find that it is an easy conclusion to come to that Beli is a passionate person.

I too was put off by the blatant gratutious display put forth by Beli in the beggining but I feel that has gone to more private areas. She definately won a lot of hearts but that is not a crime and I don't hold it against her that people like her.

BUT since her reply I think that I personally question her innocense.

So to me we are side-stepping the questions of real value

Is her passion being used for a worthy cause?

Is she telling the truth in her reply?

If people feel backstabbed or used by her--could they not come foreward themselves?

Does she, or any other forum use for that matter have or deserve the right to know what the mods/admins are doing and why is this?

Does Resa have grounds to speak for others that are (too scared?) to come foreward?

If not, what factual evidence do we have of these points that Beli denies?

If so and if it is true, how many people care that she has become bitchy and somewhat raving?

What can the forum users learn by this incident?

The more people that answer these questions the better off we'll be!! I'll post my answers later.

[Ridgeback]

mods and admin are viewed in the same way as anyone else in authority - they should expect to be abused for being annoying useless bastards.

sorry, but in my mind this thread was ridiculous - it's the internet, who cares what's said.

ps. jay is hawt

[So Warped]

Is John getting fat yet? http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y27/b_ezee/smilies/FatGuy03.gif http://www.xs4all.nl/%7Eernstmul/images/msnbonus/flag_american.gif

[kitty]

Wow..I'll be honest 'YOU ROCK' is blistering admission of Beli's guilt *rolls eyes*. Your friends will always say what you want to hear and I admire the ones that had (or didn't have) the balls to post in here.

I guess what I am most amazed at though is the blatant two-facedness that goes on this place. Here is the flash update, the people here are NOT your friends. You may think they are, they may even put 'nicies' in your rep but behind your back that are burying the dagger so deep you couldn't pull it out with a crowbar. I remember why I stay off of MSN nowadays and as Flashman so elegantly put it, 'have a real life'.


wow...does anyone else see the humor or shall i say the irony in this post? All this coming from the man that had to create a multi so that he could continue to act as he pleased without being spied on when his "real life" aka wife intruded on his private space?? So that he could continue to mess around with forum girls without being caught...geez..I think that fits the definition of shady, and two-faced so you should definately be able to spot it when you see it huh felix?:roll:

[JaiJai]

:O Kitty!



And yea Ridge... opinion noted. Although i'm sure this isn't the most ridiculous thread ever started, by far.
I must have too much time on my hands this week, yea that's it :nods:
However.. if this is the internet and it doesn't matter what's said.. then this thread shouldn't matter either :P

And no Sw.. Jacx is still as hawt as ever : p ~~~

[Santo]

:O

I was going to quote the where is Nickything thing..... so where is she SW??? :glare:

we want answers....



And a big fuck you to the double faced stabbers here you know who you are :glare:


Resa, I think you are right on this matter, and if it's somethig that is bothering you you are free to speak your mind in any manner you seem fit, as we all do.

Beli you know i love you inmensly but Resa has a point, at least from my point of view.

In any case i will always have the back of those who i consider my friends, in this case both sides of the matter are people dear to me, and i tried to stay out, but some stuff was brought to my attention and this needed to be addresed, those that talk the most about backstabbing and double faced people should really take a look at the state of their lifes, if it's sad to have "internet" friends, it's even worst to not being able to trust and find friends where ever it is....

[Aeon]

Wow! How one can twist my words when they are so plainly stated. Truly amazing to me. The way in under stood the forum update, is like this: Jacx did the majority of the work on it. Then came the part that only Rit could do. Rit was busy with school or something and didn’t get to it. Jacx did not have the access to continue with the upgrade and was left to wait. < that is the understanding I have in regards to the update. So I can hardly see that it is a negative statement towards Jacx.

And the overall winnings…Don’t offer a prize unless you intend to make good on it. The winnings I am waiting on are from March and April. We are nearing the end of June.

And now to the fun stuff . Jaijai..please state specifically what I complain about so much. Make a list of it would be the best way for me to see it. Exactly what is it that I am trying to get my way with? What information so I seek from mods/admins?

And my status is hidden. The only way you could see when I was last online is a. use still have your mod powers or b. you used Jacx account to spy on me. Either way…not very nice and good for you wholesome image.

When I the mods were changed, I had only one person that I was worried about…Phuquit. I wasn’t sure how he would take it. He said that it really didn’t matter to him and he wasn’t around here much anyway. I asked where the hell have you been hiding at. He told me about a new game and I started downloading it right then. 5 hours later my adventure began and I have been spending all my time on the new game. So accusations of me “riling people” has me laughing. And trash talking…Now really Jaijai…you really should look at yourself there. Anything and everything I need to say to or about people, I freely do so. To their face. Isn’t that what this entire thread is about? Me saying exactly what I feel?

I have never felt the need to try and force people to be friends with me. I do send people gifts. In r/l my poor friends are forced to endure all kinds of stuff. They are the ones you should feel truly sorry for. They don’t have a choice on sending me their addy or not.

Honestly Jaijai, you have made a lot of accusations but have provided nothing to back it up. Be extremely specific and list some of the things that you are talking about. I am totally open to listening to criticism. I just need to know exactly what you are talking about. Ie what admin has spent hours trying to please me? And exactly what rebellions have I started and what did I accomplish with said rebellion?

I am in the middle of 3 weeks of vacation that part is very true. I don’t check into this forum every day any longer. If one looks at my post count for the last 6 weeks, it has dropped drastically. And when I do check in, I certainly don’t have time to read every thread. I have certain people that I do read where they post at and Jaijai you are not one so I would have missed this thread entirely if it hadn’t been brought to my attention. Jay is correct in saying that I would never maliciously hurt someone. It isn’t my way. I thought that all the old school people on here were hardcore “flamers” yet I make a few remarks and have people with hurt feelings. How confusing for me.
Anyway, I am off to kill monsters and try and not die. Give me a few days to respond as the net where I am going for the next week is very spotty if any. No cell phone service either.

*anyone interested in the new game…pm me. But consider yourself WARNED! It is very addictive*


:eh:


Beli I call BULLSHIT on you!

You sat with me on msn... bitching... and WE BOTH talked about starting a rebelion....
Until....

You left me to hang for a thread that you and I conspired together and your excuse was....
"I just can't handle conflict!!!"
You seem to be handling it just fine in here.

I have all the information i need..
You can act and treat people as nice as you want and for a while and they may buy it... But every snake comes outta the woodwork after time.

I did honestly think you were wicked and awesome..
Both you and I know what went down ... And.. for me after reading what you wrote up there...

I could care less if all the people on the forum come here to stand up for you...

I'm feeling oh so crystal clear about you.

And you know the old saying... "You can fool half the people half the time"

But you belinda LIED... Cold and straight up LIED!

And I loved you honey... I woulda come in here and stood up for you like the rest... Had you not done what you did. Even a apology would have been nice..

You say the only person you cared about was "PHU" then why did you pretend to give a shit about Vixen?

Your excuse doesn't add up at all.

Cue the masses to defend.

[Pirate Hooker with Monkey]

totally fucking uncalled for.


I left this forum a long time ago because of drama, popularity contests, and this catty bullshit. I guess my only mistake was coming back here and reading the post of an adulturous attention whore who had no business getting into this conversation that was about BELI in the first place.

I'm done biting my tongue for the sake of kindness....

How dare the biggest e-slut in the entire forum have the nerve to call Dymond out when he was simply making a point about how people on the internet are never TRULY your friends.


So I'm sure very shortly your male cavalry will arrive (hmmmm.....somehow I think Chawlie won't) to save you yet again and flame the hell outta me...Maybe you can even get Tung unbanned again to come to your rescue.

But sorry, I won't be here to reply. I don't come here to get my e-ego stroked.


Resa, Aeon, Vix.....love you all, and I know you are freinds with Kitty, so no worries if you need to be here for her and come to her defense...I already told you how I feel about the Beli situation Resa. I love you girls...wish you the best! :grin:

[Santo]

:bananalama:

Cavalry is here

Maija,

I'm not here to flame you but you are going after who i consider my closest friend in this place, and you are doing exactly what she did, so how is that better? She called out Dymond for a very specific reason that you clearly did not stop to think about and consider the posibility that it's there. What you are doing in the other hand it's in fact uncall for and i could go into things with that but no need, I like you enough, hell i'll even admit to the crush i've had on you since day on i came to this forum, but this time i think you went completly off track, and that is just too damn bad. Like it says in the bible, let the one without fault to be the one to throw the first stone.... and glasshouses come to mind.


Btw, putting Charlie in the position you are trying to put him shows you don't care about him even a bit....

[Pirate Hooker with Monkey]

I'm just going to reply to you Santo because I respect you.

You are doing the right thing for sticking up for your friend, but I still stand by everything I said (as do you)

As for the Charlie comment.... I think you took that the wrong way, and I would go edit it out now....but it's already there. I'm not "trying to put him" in any position. Kitty is his girlfriend that he loves very much and I'm sure he will defend her.

As for throwing stones.......I think we can all agree that this is a glass forum ;)

[kitty]

totally fucking uncalled for.


I left this forum a long time ago because of drama, popularity contests, and this catty bullshit. I guess my only mistake was coming back here and reading the post of an adulturous attention whore who had no business getting into this conversation that was about BELI in the first place.

I'm done biting my tongue for the sake of kindness....

How dare the biggest e-slut in the entire forum have the nerve to call Dymond out when he was simply making a point about how people on the internet are never TRULY your friends.


So I'm sure very shortly your male cavalry will arrive (hmmmm.....somehow I think Chawlie won't) to save you yet again and flame the hell outta me...Maybe you can even get Tung unbanned again to come to your rescue.

But sorry, I won't be here to reply. I don't come here to get my e-ego stroked.


Resa, Aeon, Vix.....love you all, and I know you are freinds with Kitty, so no worries if you need to be here for her and come to her defense...I already told you how I feel about the Beli situation Resa. I love you girls...wish you the best! :grin:

lol the good old adultery diss...i'm not gonna go far into that one besides saying that you have to be with your spouse to commit adultery....I wont argue with the attention whore part at all..call it what you will.

Lmao biting your tongue out of kindness?? I have basically kept my mouth shut for 2 years because of you being friends with Charlie. I have constantly bit my tongue and not said anything because he asked me to not put him in an awkward position.i have had many fights with him over his asking me not to respond to you. It's good that you wont bother replying cuz i really dont give 2 shits what you have to say.

You have some nerve calling me out as the biggest e-slut on the forum. I guess taking being a slut to other mediums and texting the forum guys makes it so much better eh? hey :roll: whatever...

As far as Dymond, he's been in this thread for days running his mouth about things he shouldnt and going at resa, not to mention that he's always had plenty of shit to say about me. So if i choose to call Dy out when I see that he is being hypocritical then I will do so. Why dont you go text one of your boys that you use to stroke your ego??oh wait..you only do that when you are drunk right? :roll: Perhaps if you sobered up a bit, you'd realize how slutty you can act too.

Oh and I dont need any of my calvary to come in to save me thanks:D As for Chawlie...wow I could've sworn that we were just talking about this post on the phone:S but you must know better than me..Why dont you just go text him again to get the whole story.:roll:

[Pirate Hooker with Monkey]

Can you try replying again without using the eye rolly smile?

kthx

I gotta go now and get drunk and text some boys....

[kitty]

Can you try replying again without using the eye rolly smile?

kthx

I gotta go now and get drunk and text some boys....

:roll::roll: sorry i dont think i can...Way to make light of your own actions...

make sure to send them some nice pics while you're at it:D

[Shanna]

man this is fuckin lame. now everyones turned agents each other? wtf

i mean damn fuck it.
turn this into the
"this is what iv thought about you for a long time thread"
and everyone get that shit out.

wow:zip:
i love you all..lol well not really. but yall cool with me. issues or not.:P

[JaiJai]

reading the post of an adulturous attention whore(Kitty) who had no business getting into this conversation that was about BELI in the first place.



Maija?? wow

I'm sorry but that seems hypocrytical.... Why weren't you in here telling Dymond he had no business getting into the conversation that was about BELI too?? Afterall, he posted more than anyone in this thread and all his posts were against me simply cuz I made an AIW thread to one of his "buddies". Why all the sudden is kitty not allowed to post in here to respond to ONE of Dymonds many posts? :dunno:

And the slut/whore comments ? :|

You and I get along fine..we've always shown mutual respect for each other, but wow your post here disturbed me cuz it's not like you :eh: You ok?





man this is fuckin lame. now everyones turned agents each other? wtf

i mean damn fuck it.
turn this into the
"this is what iv thought about you for a long time thread"
and everyone get that shit out.

wow:zip:
i love you all..lol well not really. but yall cool with me. issues or not.:P

Berger LOL.. you crack me up .. dont' ever change (Y)

[YetAnotherKitten]

Dude, berger is now my fucking hero. eh... sorry for my forwardness :hidey:

[Mitch]

Fuck you Atlantic.

[Eyez Neverclear]

totally fucking uncalled for.


I left this forum a long time ago because of drama, popularity contests, and this catty bullshit. I guess my only mistake was coming back here and reading the post of an adulturous attention whore who had no business getting into this conversation that was about BELI in the first place.

I'm done biting my tongue for the sake of kindness....

How dare the biggest e-slut in the entire forum have the nerve to call Dymond out when he was simply making a point about how people on the internet are never TRULY your friends.


So I'm sure very shortly your male cavalry will arrive (hmmmm.....somehow I think Chawlie won't) to save you yet again and flame the hell outta me...Maybe you can even get Tung unbanned again to come to your rescue.

But sorry, I won't be here to reply. I don't come here to get my e-ego stroked.


Resa, Aeon, Vix.....love you all, and I know you are freinds with Kitty, so no worries if you need to be here for her and come to her defense...I already told you how I feel about the Beli situation Resa. I love you girls...wish you the best! :grin:

Wow so this is what you warned me about? I get a text from you out of nowhere basically telling me goodbye because you said something that I'll never be able to forgive you for and this is it. Pretty much the same old tired bullshit about kitty being an attention whore/e-slut. Its a fucking joke around here all the people that have bitched about her being an attention whore the last 2 years. She comes in here, and like most every other girl here, all the male posters come running and flirting. She, because it entertains her, bats around the stupid little mice and laughs to me about it on a near daily basis. Its our own inside joke, "How pathetic can these forum guys be? Will one ever learn from the other?" Nope they keep coming back for more and when one is ruined another magically shows up...... She makes threads, and people post in them whether they are having fun or they are annoyed. As I feel that everyone's posts are generally aimed to do so, amazing isn't it. BUT with her doing this and so consistently getting the reactions that she aims for she's an e-slut attention whore. Please tell me where she raised her hand and asked for what she gets. All she has to do is say hi in the shoutbox and people come running to talk. She talks with them and she's the attention whore. She gets me to come watch and the minute I say hello all the guys take off like some illegal Mexicans at the Home Depot when La Migra shows up. People pm her and she replys so she's an attention whore. She gets in an arguement with someone and 10 people flock to her side without her even talking to a single one, but that makes her an attention whore. The guys in this forum are the fucking attention whores. I've yet to come across any girl in this forum that when she gets here goes on a mission to track guys down to flirt with them. They don't have to because their in-box is filled before they truely make thier presence known.

As for not ever wanting to talk to you again, calling her an attention whore as every other god damned other person in this forum, myself and her included, has called her could hardly do that. Hell, making some ignorant ass claim, as a few others here have already pointed out, about her post being uncalled for would hardly get me that worked up. Normally I'd just laugh that off and feel no need to respond to it. Mostly because kitty in no way needs me to protect her around here. However, getting some out of the blue text from you telling me you don't think I'm ever gonna wanna talk to you ever again and that you're sorry got me thinking 3 hours before I even got here and read this post. Thinking that something must have really pissed you off enough to stop and think that your words were going to cause me to no longer wanna be your friend. Enough to have you come to the conclusion that throwing away our friendship was worth it. Yet I get here and its this bunch of bullshit. I now feel like I completely wasted my time ever befriending you. Sadly enough you're one of the very very very few people here in my 3 years I aimed to make friends with back when I saw we clearly had at least one thing in common. 2 years of friendship completely tossed down the drain. Countless hours I spent fighting with Kitty because I asked her to play nice with you because you were my friend. The 1st year me and kitty were together the only time we ever had a fight that carried into a 2nd day was over me standing up for you. Wow I went through that headache for someone willing to wash their hands of me as easily as you chose to tonight.

I guess its not just that you have to worry about your "friends" being two-faced but them just plain old not feeling like they value your "friendship" enough to bite their fucking tongue.

I'll leave you with one last thing before I let you off to enjoy your life after deciding I'm of zero importance to you......

Some E For She <------ remember that handle in a5 way back when? That wasn't SA that was lil old me playing evil and getting you and She Cat to start fighting with the intentions of 4 Fingers winning. Having it blamed on SA was fucking classic though. I don't remember if we won or not but that sure was a memorable round. I wish I saved those angry pm's I kept getting from you, Cool Hand, and Vamp.

[Spork!!!]

hey eyez, can I have the "little golden book" version of your post, it's to wordy 4 me. ;)

[Eyez Neverclear]

hey eyez, can I have the "little golden book" version of your post, it's to wordy 4 me. ;)

*pours Vinnie a beer, and offers a look at the beernanas if he finishes all his homework* ;)

[Beli]

i wish that you all wouldn't fight like this. blame me for anything and everything.. i have very thick skin and don't mind taking heat for my own actions or others should the case warrant.
aeon i made a thread stating NO SEX TALK...jaijai and others had been offended byt stuff that was said in the s/b. i made that thread in all seriousness. you turned it into a joke and i kind of carried on with it. my thoughts at the time starting that thread were this: if it is truly offending people..why not just stop doing it? there are porn site that i am sure have forums that i can go talk dirty on. i didn't think that you needed any defending as you were not the one accused of anything.. i was wrong and should have stood up for you. sorry

and along the same lines..if someone is screaming for attention... why not just give it to them? i hear a lot.. oh they are just doing that for attention.. so why don't we all pay attention, give them what they want and everyones happy? is kitty and e-whore? i don't know.. she never offered to cyber with me :S
and Majia.. if not for you i wouldn't have registered on here :hehe: i used to just read the forums and never made an account. then you accused me of being Rob's/Parker multi. so i had to speak up.
Vixen.. i have an entirely different convo with you showing me posts. i will look through my msn logs for it and post it with your permission.


and Jay.. look you sick fuck.. you told me the beard turned you on. i spent the next week picking the damn crabs out of it. next time keep your pets to yourself. ; )

[dave]

mmm all the girls are callin each other attention whores, im pretty sure iv been saying that they were for years....

i guess when the shit goes down u find out who ur friends are aswell ay

we should have a thread like this once a month or something

[Bloodlust]

Ok jaijai, you've made 18 posts in this thread so far and the only evidence you admitted having was the 3 sb comments in your first post. Beli defended and explained those comments. But still without further evidence you continue this flawed argument.

So what your saying is, despite having no evidence of her doing all the things you claim we should just believe you anyway because your right and have 6 rep comments to prove it.

If you feel having rep comments backs up your argument then you are sadly mistaken and without posting both positive and negative rep you are only giving one side of the general view. Some would say thats manipulation.The very same thing your accusing Beli of doing.

Finally, if you are going to make a public thread then be prepared to accept public opinion without dismissing the ones you don't agree with as just one of Beli's followers. If you really didn't want loads of other people commenting then why didn't you just keep it to a pm between the 2 of you?

[Asshole]

i think charlies post about all the men here being sluts is waay waay out of line..

I never ever come running like a dog on heat, if i ever flirt with any of the girls they know its a laugh but i hardly hound them down for the purpose of e-humping thier legs.. to be honest i think most of your post on that subject was veiwed through rose coloured glasses, i like kitty she is a friend of mine no doubt there but you cant just blame the males its a lot her fault too that they flirt with her and more often than not (from what I personally) have seen she quite often starts the flirting with a select few others..


As for maija.. want my number ? ;)

[Flashman]

Let it be said, I, have never once in four years spoken with Kitty in any form whatsoever - I have, however had an "awkward" drunken moment with Charlie when our "goodbye hug" seemed to last just a liiiiitttle tooooooooo long :$

[JaiJai]

Ok jaijai, you've made 18 posts in this thread so far and the only evidence you admitted having was the 3 sb comments in your first post. Beli defended and explained those comments. But still without further evidence you continue this flawed argument.

So what your saying is, despite having no evidence of her doing all the things you claim we should just believe you anyway because your right and have 6 rep comments to prove it.

If you feel having rep comments backs up your argument then you are sadly mistaken and without posting both positive and negative rep you are only giving one side of the general view. Some would say thats manipulation.The very same thing your accusing Beli of doing.

Finally, if you are going to make a public thread then be prepared to accept public opinion without dismissing the ones you don't agree with as just one of Beli's followers. If you really didn't want loads of other people commenting then why didn't you just keep it to a pm between the 2 of you?

Hello Bloodlust, whoever you are.....

First of all I'm not asking you to believe anything...This thead wasn't a "Pssst...hey everyone, watch out for Beli" thread, to convert anyone lol. I tried getting her on msn not long ago..(for yet another incident) but she didn't come online. So, this time, this is where I called her out, like it or not.

As for evidence...alot of the comments she's made have been in the shoutbox, and as we all know, there's no permanent logs of the SB. Its not like I knew months ago i was gonna make this thread, so why would i have screenshotted all of them? So, no..there's no SB evidence. And the threads she's posted her dribble in are out there..and I was going to go find those posts but then several people posted in here that they've seen her in action, attesting to how she's acted, so I didn't feel the need to go digging through months of threads (eyewitness accounts are just as solid). What's important to me is that I know how she's played and She knows it as well, not that YOU believe it, or become a Beli hater, that wasn't the intenion of this thread, and I stated that from the beginning. But if I get time today, I'll try to make a detailed list and round up logs, just for you bloodlust ;)

The other evidence would come in the form of me having to reveal things that other's (who I do trust) have told me happened. And I am not breaking their confidence like that.. sorry. However several ppl have come in here and "testified" to how they feel about her.. and dood, those are ppl who've seen it over and over in the shoutbox as well or have heard her over and over in msn convos and elsewhere.. and to be honest.. I still don't even know the stories behind some of them, i just read their posts here and though ooooh another person who feels that way, interesting. If any of them want to post thier msn logs or their stories.. that's up to them.

As for my rep... Your rep today is the ONLY negative rep I have. I could prove it... but someone here doesn't want me to, because it allegedly puts those at risk who don't want people to know they repped me for it, or something. That's all I can say on that and I can't legitimately defend your rep concerns when someone has changed my rep comment in the user cp panel. :dunno: So think what you want on that subject, there's nothing I can do about that.

Finally... when people come into the thread, and they post TO ME, regarding my post to Beli... I have every right to post back to them. psst.. I did start the thread ya know, and I am not going to just ignore comments that i feel need a response. And if you re read the thread, most of my debating has been with Dymond, who has posted tons of times himself here. A couple of the people I responded to (uganja and ridgeback) are Very good friends of mine and johns', who I trust a great deal, and it wasn't anything more than differing opinions, which is allowed between friends. Anyways..after she finally posted I knew it was useless to say anymore to her and to just drop the cause.. because she's sitting herself up on a pedastal and saying she's innocent of all accusatinons, and that she's perfect.. yadda yadda.. I realized then that there's no point in continuing this, it's not going to get anywhere.

But now others are using the thread for their own dirty laundry :zip: .. so bloodlust, you can either do one of 3 things.. you can sit back, relax, and enjoy the "show", or you can keep asking me things in which the answers are obvious here, or you can go read in a different thread. Either way.. with all due respect, you don't affect me, because I am confident in my claims.. I've seen it with my own eyes, and I've been told it by ppl i've known and trusted for years around here. However I do appreciate that you posted on behalf of fair and equal justice, good man (Y)

[Pirate Hooker with Monkey]

She comes in here, and like most every other girl here, all the male posters come running and flirting. She, because it entertains her, bats around the stupid little mice and laughs to me about it on a near daily basis. Its our own inside joke, "How pathetic can these forum guys be? Will one ever learn from the other?" Nope they keep coming back for more and when one is ruined another magically shows up......

Wow. You honestly said it better than I ever could have.

Please tell me where she raised her hand and asked for what she gets.

Um, yeah. See above.



I have nothing more to say. This thread should go back to it's rightful owners, Beli and JaiJai

I wish you the best Eyez. I'm out :wave:

[Beli]

So who you think are your friends, really are not. They are driving a huge machete into your back while grinning in your face. If my behaviour has been so terrible, and if my so called friends have noticed it. Then why wouldn’t they pm me and ask me if something was wrong? Usually when someone changes drastically in a short time span something is really, really wrong. And yes something is really wrong with me. My health is at an all time low and maybe I am bitchier than normal. (I have never claimed sainthood in that dept.) In dec of 2006 I went to the doctor and was diagnosed with a potential fatal disease. I told no one here. My business only. I don't want or need sympathy. Coming here and no one knowing is like pretending that I am ok. In Jan, on my birthday no less.. I got even worse news from the doctor. I would rather not say exactly what is wrong..no not the e-aids from Jay ; ) but I think that when one is face with a time limit...things tend to get VERY touchy in all areas. I have 2 small kids...I think you can imagine part of my lashing out at maybe innocent people. If I have indeed done these things. Dymond does know that I am sick.. and guess what... so does Jaijai. So why she would try and cause me more distress... I really don't know.
About a month ago, suffered a possible small stroke. I was unable to speak or type properly. It was horribly embarrassing for me so I stopped using msn for the most part. It is really hard to have 5 convo’s going when you can’t even make one sentence come together.

And for the record.. Simon, Jock, and Jesse did pm me to ask if I was alright and what was going on. I guess they are tuned in to how I act more than the rest of you.

I don’t want or need your fucking pity. In fact I may not ever come back here just for the fact that I don’t know how to handle sympathy aimed at me. I am the one who is supposed to be giving out the sympathy-I am a nurse in r/l.

Jaijai…if you are going to start a thread about something back your shit up. Vague comments about yeah I noticed that too… is not backing it up. And oh well stuff isn’t saved in the s/b is total BS. You need to have something to go on if I am to answer for it. One cannot pay for a crime if one doesn’t know specifically what the crime is. I don’t need dates..but for examples…work very well for me.

So a BIG loving FUCK YOU!! To oddthought :P I am going to the mother fucking beach and getting a California tan!!!

[dave]

So a BIG loving FUCK YOU!! To oddthought :P I am going to the mother fucking beach and getting a California tan!!!

and aids?

[Aeon]

HMM... If your not gonna read the entire thread then don't bother posting.. that's what I say.


You don't want sympathy Beli... You won't get it. I know what it's like to be sick.
To not have enough energy to lift your own head... I know what it's like to be angry about it....
BUT......
All of us in the SB "that day" were concerned about you.. I asked you specifically if you were alright... You chose to say "I'm fine" And let it be..
How the fuck can you come in here and say ... I'm sick and that's why i've had a bad attitude.. Your a RN then you know the power of the people that care about you makes you better far faster than being alone and bitchy about it... You know that each one of us would have stood behind you and taken your crap that you have been dishing lately...

NOW!!!
I'm not saying you don't deserve a shoulder to cry on...
But when the people who give a shit about you are watching you and clearly see a difference in your behavior
"DO you not fucking think that we have the right to know?"
Your acting like a different person and we are just supposed to put 2 and 2 together and not take it personally?

AND for the record... I appreciate the apology ... I did try to talk to you on msn... about it...
BELI i was fuckin HURT so badly. You were quickly becoming my girl around here... And Maybe that's my foolishness..

But your Misleading on something.... And this is what makes me raise a eyebrow at you...

.............
aeon i made a thread stating NO SEX TALK...jaijai and others had been offended byt stuff that was said in the s/b. i made that thread in all seriousness. you turned it into a joke and i kind of carried on with it. my thoughts at the time starting that thread were this: if it is truly offending people..why not just stop doing it? there are porn site that i am sure have forums that i can go talk dirty on. i didn't think that you needed any defending as you were not the one accused of anything.. i was wrong and should have stood up for you. sorry......

That "NO SEX TALK" thread.... You did not make seriously..(or atleast you didn't indicate to me that you were making it seriously to me the way we were talking about it you made it as a joke) .. And don't even for one second try and say different. You and I were fed up with being told we couldn't talk about sex...
(Not that we really did care..)
You and I were gonna make a point and stir up shit... You made that little "no sex talk" sig and we added it to our sigs. WE did it to be evil and funny .. And when the shit hit the fan...
Yeah
You ran like a little mouse..and your last message to me on msn about it was "i just can't handle conflict!" And then YOU blocked me for months!!!!
So don't play like your virginal white robe is shrouded in blood...
Pull your chin up and treat the people that love you NOW with the respect they deserve... Ofcourse we are all here for you..
But apperently we don't matter enough to you to clue us in...(until NOW) but we matter enough to be treated poorly

AS far as the other comments and the blatent derailment of the thread and literally everyone fighting with everyone....

The boys are big whores
The girls are big whores

The whole forum has gone to craziness.. it's very entertaining
Say what you think... fight .. argue .. and literally cry over your point of view..It's your right.

We are a strong bunch.. very opinionated and passionate... And I would rather Fight with every last one you than makes eFriends with anyone else..

So stir it up... that's what FAMILY is about.
Ya'll know I adore everyone of you and I would "guard dog it up" for each one of you..
but ...
now..
I have to tell myself that some of you can't be trusted AT ALL.. and that to me is sad and it really shows a lack of character around here.

So when I, a naturally loving and funny person... (cuz i'm so great :Dlol) who adores everyone and can be a bit naive at times suddenly realises that some of
the people I have been chatting with and sharing stories with for over 2 years turn out to be a bunch of untrustworthy internet creeps preying on people.

That family unit that we claim so well has just TOTALLY gone down the drain ... That's not to say that I don't consider some of you family still.. but on the other hand.

I am very disappointed in some of you. I'm done with the Mommy speech. :|

[I Got Priors]

The boys are big whores
The girls are big whores

The whole forum has gone to craziness.. it's very entertaining
Say what you think... fight .. argue .. and literally cry over your point of view..It's your right.

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[Aeon]

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LOL tell me about it just look at Canada's country logo

http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:LohaZYterEdQ9M:http://www.kidsfest.ca/lib/i/logo_canada_beaver.gif

[Asshole]

So who you think are your friends, really are not. They are driving a huge machete into your back while grinning in your face.

BULL SHITE, that is utter crap most of the people who have posted here in support of jaijai, would never EVER do that to jaijai, quite possibly the nicest person i have ever met on here, me for one, kitty for a second and dave for another, i also highly doubt aeon would have after all her "trust" spouting, so perhaps you and dy can come up with a viable excuse for your behaviour you wont need to use sneaky underhand tricks like this crap to try and come out of the thread looking good,

Its pathetic sad and not a low many here would stoop too.. and apologies to jaijai who asked me not to say anything but i know for a FACT my name was mentioned as a back stabber and that shit really fucks me off, if anything on here i am certainley not false, if i have a problem with anybody i tell them head on..


Jaijai…if you are going to start a thread about something back your shit up.

Now put you money where your shithole of a mouth is and back your claims the fuck up, id especially like to see the part where i stabbed jaijai in the back.. and dont bother with false evidence i would quite happily send jaijai my ENTIRE msn history folder just to disprove any shit you guys say, fucking vermin

As for the sob story youve done a good job keeping "it" quiet so far dont stop now

[YetAnotherKitten]

BULL SHITE, that is utter crap most of the people who have posted here in support of jaijai, would never EVER do that to jaijai, quite possibly the nicest person i have ever met on here, me for one, kitty for a second and dave for another, i also highly doubt aeon would have after all her "trust" spouting, so perhaps you and dy can come up with a viable excuse for your behaviour you wont need to use sneaky underhand tricks like this crap to try and come out of the thread looking good,

Its pathetic sad and not a low many here would stoop too.. and apologies to jaijai who asked me not to say anything but i know for a FACT my name was mentioned as a back stabber and that shit really fucks me off, if anything on here i am certainley not false, if i have a problem with anybody i tell them head on..



Now put you money where your shithole of a mouth is and back your claims the fuck up, id especially like to see the part where i stabbed jaijai in the back.. and dont bother with false evidence i would quite happily send jaijai my ENTIRE msn history folder just to disprove any shit you guys say, fucking vermin

As for the sob story youve done a good job keeping "it" quiet so far dont stop now

I think maybe she was just reiterating what other people had said and then the point was proven by kitty and maija and eyez (sort of)?

I have to say although it seemed slightly tainted with martydom, I think Beli's second post was more honest. It seems like she is actually trying to find a solution for the problem ( a little bit )

Maybe there is more stuff on msn that I don't hear (I'm in the bum fuck egypt of msn circles lol..and well I like it that way haha) but from her post doesnt look like she was calling you a back stabber. I don't think anyone thinks that you are!! I can say with all honesty that you can easily change from a very nice guy to a total jerk in minutes though. At one time I thought you were misunderstood and sweet but then things turned ugly... was it me or was it you?? I dont know..

Resa, Even if you have "no evidence" it's pretty obvious what has gone on here.

She admits to being bitchy and lashing out at people. If she is truly sick then that sucks but it doesn't mean its okay to lash out nor should she expect people to deal with it without even telling them.

When my dad died (I know everyone is sick of hearing it but fuck it) I didn't know how to say it and I didn't want it to be true.. I kept it a secret from everyone in R/L for 3 days until I cracked in the middle of the street. Those days I was a zombie, I wasn't mean but I wasn't nice either, I honestly thought about all the rich kids at Berklee were assholes. Then I had a talk with my friend who reminded me that it's not everyone else's fault that my dad died. Each of their problems are real to them and just becuase my dad died doesn't mean I shouldn't respect that. I SHOULD grieve and find my peace.. but anger at others and being judgmental won't help.

Whats really awesome is that this thread has accidently shed light on what some people might be missing in their lives--- the line between selfless grace and being true to yourself.

I find that, if you are OVERLY gracious and seemingly taking in a lot of shittyness from one person but only reserving it for a later time, It's unhealthy for you and dimishes the orginal thought (i.e I am SOO sweet to ______ but ______ keeps shitting on me!! I hate _____*). If you are OVerly true you just might step on people's toes for the sake of truth and end up with very few friends (i.e. I am being honest with ______ and she keeps smiling at me like a fake ass. I can't deal with fake asses*)!!

I myself have trouble with that line and I'm sorry to anyone that I was short with becuase I got caught up in my "me-ness".

I actually felt like just with in this past few months I can finally say my peice and get fair judgement and I really appreciate it.

As gay as it sounds, and even through as much shit as I've been through, I honestly believe that atleast 90% of the people here are good people. And can be DAMN FUN and many of them can be there for you if you need a friend and sometimes you can be there for them.

And though this IS the internet... and real life friends (or people who you talk on the phone with) will always take precidense over those that you are simply gracious to -- I honestly believe it would be wisest and easiest route use the golden rule and try to keep an open perspective of whats really going on.

But only if you love yourself. If you don't love yourself.. give me a pm I know some people who are good at finding the diamond in the rough ;)


*note--these examples are completely fabricated, making reference to no one, and don't show my view of anyone on the forums currently

[tca]

seriously can you people learn to keep this shit under a paragraph? lol

[JaiJai]

As unfortunate as all of this arguing is.. I think it, as Aeon said, it ended up being a good thing. I, as well as others, have semi discovered who we can or cannot trust. Some things have been aired here that I think might have shocked many of us, and some character or lack of has been established, in my opinion. This goes above and beyond the original intention of the thread, which was simply to debate with beli and move on. This has reached out to the very heart of some issues.. the main one being trust and honesty.

This being my final post in this thread... I do want to say that I admire those who stood up in public for their convictions, regardless of what others thought. Asshole, Aeon, Vixen, Kitty, Santo, Yak and others... who brought out similar issues with her, and also defended me and each other as well.. You all have the character that I was sure of. ty.

And Uganja, Ridge, who I love to death... ( they just stated their opinions in general) but still stood up and said what they think, without taking sides.. that's admirable too.

Hell even , Flashman and Bloodlust and swiss miss... said what they believe..even if I didn't agree with some of it, they still were true to their feelings...that's always admirable.

However, Dymond, my view of you has changed... I was surprised how you came after me, determined to try to make me look like a liar and naive....The part that changed my opinion most is that you tried to make me believe that everyone, even my close friends, were stabbing me in the back and hated me.. trying to make me feel bad.. but I knew who my real friends were, and nothing you could say would change my belief. You always used to be so nice to me.. but in my opinion you've become quite cocky.. and it isn't only just in this thread. We already talked about why you started disliking me (because I am friends with a certain person here) and then you apologized and admitted that was not right, judging someone by associations they have.... very good... but then you did your best to come after me throughout this thread, rather than leaving it between me and beli. You coulda posted a comment or 2 or 3, but you went well and beyond that, jumping on me from the beginning, posting 10 times! lol I"m sure, being such good friends, you've witnessed Beli bad mouthing staff and being 2 faced etc.. however that didn't matter to you, you pushed that aside and came after my head simply for starting this thread about your buddy. Not cool.

Beli.. I'm sorry you're sick.. I don't wish illness on anyone. I don't hate you, but I dislike how you have been treating people here.. and if it's because of your illness.. then I would suggest you take some time offline and rest and get some help (you're a nurse.. i'm sure you know this). Because if being here isn't helping you, and it's causing you to treat those you say you care about in this way.. then I would say a change is needed. I called you out here, to debate these things and possibly work them out.. but I have to say.. Dymond's relentless posting made the situation worse in my opinion. Had you came in, hell even insulted me, I dont' care.. but came in and faced up to this stuff, rather than waiting for him to roll out the red carpet for you.. I think things would have resolved alot easier.

Now you want examples and lists.. here ya go:
Bashing John and Rit and other staff, only because you didn't get your personal way about things. The reputation being changed, The shoutbox being down, The dontations not being sent as fast as you like, The forum being updated, The scans not being run fast enough, The mods being removed (even though you were first complaining it was overly policed) .. you bitched after they were removed because your precious phuquit was removed. I really like phuquit lots.. that's not the point, I highly doubt he solicited your help in whining about it for him, he's stronger than that.

The whole No Sex Talk rebellion, which I know you were the ringleader of that one (the sig, the thread) etc.. You took that issue way above what was intended by staff.. You Beli, were the one in the shoutbox, trying to make staff look alot worse than it was.. you would say to people "Oh sorry, I can't hug you".. people would say "why?" you would say "It's banned!!", which was an exaggerated lie. You were blatantly instigating people to turn against staff. That's how you operated on every issue you weren't satisfied with. I said to you before.. Why not just pm staff and ask if you didnt' understand, Noooo not you.. you'd rather be a drama queen and turn users against the staff, pitting ppl against each other. Everyone bitches about some things.. but you were complaining about everything.. and u went past just complaining, you tried manipulating people with your sly comments, stroking their egos the way you do, while whispering poisonous comment about others in their ears.. subtle , yet powerful method.

Case in point.. Vixen. She lost mod.. she was upset, you used the whole (trying to give her a backbone, which anyone knows Vixen doesn't need help with) .. you used that to instigate her to be mad at John, someone who's been like a brother to her for many years! Maybe that whole situation wasn't deal with ideally, but who the hell are you to try to influence a person, in her weak moment, to hate on someone they care for like that? :nono:

*There's other things that are only up to other people to discuss, because it's things that happened behind the scenes in places like MSN, etc.. But there are things that you've done, said, that are of the same manipulative nature.. and it seems to stem on getting everyone to like you, and manuevering them to dislike those who you dislike. Those are storys they'll have to share though.*

Beli, the list goes on and on and on.. I can't think of every situation right now.. and you may try to justify these things anyways, I duno.. so let's just leave it at this..I hope you get well.. I hope you find a new balance in how to treat people, or how to make friends. I will also look at how I could have handled this whole thing differently in some way that might have been better. I know one thing, I am very passionate about this situation.. I fully believe in everything I've said here.. and I dont' need anyone on my "bandwagon".. because it doesn't change a single thing.

Good luck to you

Sorry Tca.. it went a little over a paragraph :dunno:

edit: Lisa (i didnt see your post till after I posted) soo..for the record dymond had posted the whole backstabbing among friends thing to me before maija and kitty's posts.

[Shanna]

seriously can you people learn to keep this shit under a paragraph? lol

lollll word

:hidey: :zip: :grin: :wgaf: :blah: (rr) :wank: :spammer: :wack: :ninja: :banme: :rolleyes:

[YetAnotherKitten]

edit: Lisa (i didnt see your post till after I posted) soo..for the record dymond had posted the whole backstabbing among friends thing to me before maija and kitty's posts.

I know, the quote was:


Originally Posted by Dymond View Post
I guess what I am most amazed at though is the blatant two-facedness that goes on this place. Here is the flash update, the people here are NOT your friends. You may think they are, they may even put 'nicies' in your rep but behind your back that are burying the dagger so deep you couldn't pull it out with a crowbar.

Nowhere was Assholes name mentioned. Is it not possible that he was making a generalised (and paranoid) statement about the entire forum in general?

A long time ago Dymond himself tried to tell me that someone very dear to me was a "player" and I'm such a fucking indecisive asshole that I almost believed it (though I argued with him tooth and nail)!! In the end of the convo he's whole basis was on the grounds that "he did it to a girl once".

So yea, I'm sorry that you thought this was something new for him lol.. he runs his mouth when he thinks he's right just like everyone else and sometimes he runs into a pile of shit.

Sometimes he is actually a nice guy though...

It's up to you decide wehter its worth it to deal with fallible people.


tca- It's good for you to read complete sentances. Perhaps if you read these posts, you too can one day write a paragraph without the use of smilies or saying the same thing repeatedly!! :P (it is still aiw isnt it?)

berger- Spam?? damn.. you WERE my hero! You might want to look up the word spam and then look at your reply ;)

[Asshole]

Maybe there is more stuff on msn that I don't hear (I'm in the bum fuck egypt of msn circles lol..and well I like it that way haha) but from her post doesnt look like she was calling you a back stabber. I don't think anyone thinks that you are!! I can say with all honesty that you can easily change from a very nice guy to a total jerk in minutes though. At one time I thought you were misunderstood and sweet but then things turned ugly... was it me or was it you?? I dont know..


somebody told jaijai on msn that i was knifing her in the back.. ive just bought it to light here

As for me being a jerk its usually not uncalled for

[Dymond]

I think I'll follow Maija and Beli on the way out.. You kids can keep your sandbox. I just wonder how much fun it is to play in your own shit cause eventually some of you are gonna fill it up so much its all your gonna see. Good luck with that when you start choking on it.

[HellRaiser]

Since others are airing dirty laundry here, fuck it me too then... :)

I love debating serious topics and having controversary and sometimes causing havoc lol, no secret to anyone here that's been around a bit. I know I am far from one of the so called favorites around here muchless in any so called clique. I could care less, I'm not a sheep. I probably make more so called online enemies because of it lol... So why stop now? ;)

I never had any problems with the admins here yet, not because I am like so MANY HERE who kiss their asses ( you know who ya are) but because they never done anything to me to have a problem. Anyone who is a kiss ass for any reason is pathetic and should be embarrassed. ;) Try getting some self respect and dignity. ;)

Though they never did get that November round sorted out. ;) Hint Hint...

I could care less about forum updates as SO MANY complain about here do. I mean seriously, who the fuck cares about forum updates? lol... Do any of you think you deserve or are owed this service? Get a grip... It's a free forum for you to post on, stop your fucking bitching, be thankfull, don't like it, leave...

In fact Jacx and Rit helped me out quick when I asked to resolve the one and only problem I had, so that is much appreciated and respect from me. So no admin bashing from me lol.

Now onto the controversary hehehe...

My gosh look at the age differences between some of the people here living in a fantasy world having a (so called) relationship between electronic keystrokes? lol, If you think your in love get together in real life or go OUTSIDE and get a LIFE lol.

I got to admit the comments said from Eyez about a lot of guys being mmmmm pathetic chasing Kitty or just women/girls here in general is true to an extent. But then again you can't really blame the guys because the majority of guys here it seems are mostly (BOYS/teenagers) dealing with raging hormones lol. From what I seen a lot of females here are mostly adult women not teenagers so of course to young males that is more desirable. If a woman eggs on a teenager or any man, why would one stop? So who really is at fault here or causing the problem?

Hell, from what I seen and noticed a lot of the women doing this are mostly in there 30's flirting with BOYS/teenagers, how pathetic lol... Seems like they can't find a MAN and need to be WORSHIPPED and apparently DESIRED because obviously in their REAL LIFE they don't have it lol. My gosh stop being craddle robbers. ;)

But yet we will hear many stories or topics on how men are twisted and sick who chase young girls, how hypocritical for sure. ;)

I never seen so much ass kissing, then here, regardless if it is in the desire department or to get in good with Admins or cliques. Kinda sad and pathetic really. Individualsim is gone just many sheep lol. ;)

Some people apparently cannot separate the differences or definition between REAL friendship with online interaction.
Nevermind to get so riled up enough or take it personal enough to be hurt or angry about any given thing online.
It is far different then having passionate debates over touchy subjects.

Hijacked thread over lol...

Come on you's responsible, you know who ya are or should, bring your anger and hate and most importantly the denial... ;)

[Aiyana]

BOY OH BOY there has been so much shit going on in here latley!

People where complaining that AIW went to shit,,,,lol as I see it now it was the calm before the storm.

As much as I prob should nat say it....this has been great entertament for me:cheeky:

I think I had learned alot about the people in here...good and the not so good.But it would not stop me from being your e-friend.(H)

People say in here that it is only the internet there not your real friends..i say BULLSHIT!!!
They might not be the same kind of friends but they are still your friends.If that was the case people would not keep coming back.Also how can u not call them a type of friend if you have been talking to some of them for years.We share our good times and our bad times with people on here and you start to get to know them.

There is not one of us on here (:$ ) in our ring of bull shit that has not something to be held against us...as we have seen.Does this make us a bad person...nope...just bad judgement.

All I have to say is that you will never prob see me picking a sides...I find good in everyone and if I don't I TRY to keep my mouth shut...That does not mean that I would not be watching my own back.

I will give you a small example on what I mean.
JaiJai...I truely adore!If it was not for her I would prob never joined the forum and anytime I need help with something she was there to help.
Beli and her do not seem to be on the best of terms.I never really got to close to beli so does this mean I am going to pick a side because I feel closer to one than the other NO.
Now it seems Jaijai and DY are not on the best of terms...what does the mean to me.....NOTHING!
DY has always been nice to me has tried to help me out with my comp problems....he stopped what he was doing to help...he did not have to but that is a friend...even if it is an e-friend.
I also adore Kitty...she is prob the second person I first talk to in here...she is always cracking me up with one thing or another...right now it seemd her and majia are having there tiff.Even tho I never really got to know M does that mean I would take a side NEVER...I remember M around x-mas knew I was having a prob and said she would help me with x-mas if I needed.I will never forget.

I see the good AND bad in most in here...have you done shit to me yet NOPE so until then I am not going to take side(like i said before that does not mean I would have a blind eye to all..I watch my back)


And about the flirty bullcrap people keep bringing up...BIG FUCKING DEAL half of us flirt on here...what does it mean NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!It is all in good fun..that it...I say flirt away:P


To round this up I just want to say it seems everone has gotten off there chest what they wanted to say...can we just end it now and move on already.


off to go flirt in the SB:P ................................

[tca]

I could care less, I'm not a sheep. I probably make more so called online enemies because of it lol... So why stop now? ;)

I got to admit the comments said from Eyez about a lot of guys being mmmmm pathetic chasing Kitty or just women/girls here in general is true to an extent. But then again you can't really blame the guys because the majority of guys here it seems are mostly (BOYS/teenagers) dealing with raging hormones lol. From what I seen a lot of females here are mostly adult women not teenagers so of course to young males that is more desirable. If a woman eggs on a teenager or any man, why would one stop? So who really is at fault here or causing the problem?

I liked these 2 points, so i thought i'd say so for the record, i quite like you and i think your right-ish about the other thing.

But, as for the friendship thing, Aiyana touched on it, alot of people on here really are that close friends, talk on the phone, meet each other in person etc etc. Oh i'll touch on the flirting since im here and dramatically bored, adults flirt, whats the problem? This forum IS technically supposed to be 19 and over, so rit always claimed anyhow, so technically, there is only supposed to be adults here and adults flirt, its human nature.

As for you Yak, i just typed about what 2 sentences without a smiley face? Case closed, now everyone stop typing such fucking huge replies. :argh: <--- is an angry face, not a smiley face ;)

[Eyez Neverclear]

i think charlies post about all the men here being sluts is waay waay out of line..

I never ever come running like a dog on heat, if i ever flirt with any of the girls they know its a laugh but i hardly hound them down for the purpose of e-humping thier legs.. to be honest i think most of your post on that subject was veiwed through rose coloured glasses, i like kitty she is a friend of mine no doubt there but you cant just blame the males its a lot her fault too that they flirt with her and more often than not (from what I personally) have seen she quite often starts the flirting with a select few others..


Sorry I forgot to mention that asshole and some others out there happen to be the exception to what I said. Obviously things can only be generalized to a certain point and will never be 100%. However, believing I'm blind and am leaving kitty without any blame is pretty laughable. As I said in that post I know exactly what she's saying to people and they are saying to her. She lets me know ahead of time what is going to be posted quite often and when she doens't its not like I don't come here and read it anyways. I know damn well she's not completely without guilt. I was just generalizing that its usually people tugging on her shirt for attention. As I know its not always the guys fault. I do however believe its the guys starting it clearly more often than the girls. And I'm not gonna call someone an attention whore because they don't push off their attention every time they get it.

As for "(from what I personally) have seen she quite often starts the flirting with a select few others.."

You eyes decieve you then. You don't know the whole story and you're making assumptions. You see her flirting with her good friends, take Carlos for example. They play around with eachother daily, but its in no way anything more than a joke and Carlos is every bit my friend as he is hers. People may see that and think of it as the same old attention whoring but to the people involved its no different than back when you and kitty joked about having midget children or something like that. Neither of you saw that as anything meaningful but if it was in the shoutbox it'd be kitty being an e-slut again.

But really what you say is not much different than Maija jumping in here and jumping down kitty's thoat, albeit I don't think anyone saw your post as confrontational, as her's clearly was. But she only sees a single post by kitty with no outside explanation for it and automatically believes what she said was completely unprovoked and uncalled for. However that couldn't be further from the truth. Dymond has been sharing his dislike for kitty for awhile now and hasn't been very subtle about it. Kitty's been frustrated with him for quite some time as well, over different things. Then Dymond runs to JaiJai basically telling her he has no respect for her and can't be her friend because she's also friends with kitty. That was close to the last straw for her and when she saw him in here spouting his mouth, as he always does, and being a hypocritical bastard, as he too often does, she couldn't resist airing his dirty laundry. Laundry he had already left as public record too. It wasn't like she said something that other people didn't already know. His fault for calling others two-faced when he so clearly is in that same boat. So basically Maija showed up, saw only what she could and decided it was her place to start bitching. Common mistake I suppose. Nothing new, but also nothing that should be left for someone else to believe when they shouldn't. Or for people like hellraiser to show up here not knowing anything about it, or the parties involved, and yet still thinking he has viewed enough to feel his opinion is somehow educated enough that he can school others here. I suppose its better to assume you don't know the whole story when you see personal shit being aired. I know thats why I stayed the hell out of this thread before Maija called my name.

Although I can't deny that it's fun being the asshole and speaking just to stir the pot

[Aeon]

Seriously...

This thread is twisted.. I love it...

Thanks to JJ for kickin up some shit...

But from what i see now.. is.. The boys argueing that they are and they are not sluts..

LOl and if you word it JUST right you can still talk about it while putting it on the girls...

Get over it already.. Who cares!!!

And to Dymond.....

Despite whatever is going on between you and JJ .. i like you..... It seems everyone is miscommunicating...

It's sad.

If your gonna leave then leave... it's not a option for us... but I just wanna say.. before you go.....

Can I have your stamp collection?

and I will miss you.

[Sirius]

PLEASE...:flag:

[Eyez Neverclear]

This thread is twisted.. I love it...

Agreed

Get over it already

NO way you slut! :karate:

[CrayZii-InDiaN]

fuck... 2 much to read.. lost track.. anyone care to tell me in short term whats really happening in here

thanks

[dave]

fuck... 2 much to read.. lost track.. anyone care to tell me in short term whats really happening in here

thanks

it turns out you was adopted :O

[CrayZii-InDiaN]

it turns out you was adopted :O



r u bein serious... damn.. i never knew that aye :(

[Pirate Hooker with Monkey]

Sorry I forgot to mention that asshole and some others out there happen to be the exception to what I said. Obviously things can only be generalized to a certain point and will never be 100%. However, believing I'm blind and am leaving kitty without any blame is pretty laughable. As I said in that post I know exactly what she's saying to people and they are saying to her. She lets me know ahead of time what is going to be posted quite often and when she doens't its not like I don't come here and read it anyways. I know damn well she's not completely without guilt. I was just generalizing that its usually people tugging on her shirt for attention. As I know its not always the guys fault. I do however believe its the guys starting it clearly more often than the girls. And I'm not gonna call someone an attention whore because they don't push off their attention every time they get it.

As for "(from what I personally) have seen she quite often starts the flirting with a select few others.."

You eyes decieve you then. You don't know the whole story and you're making assumptions. You see her flirting with her good friends, take Carlos for example. They play around with eachother daily, but its in no way anything more than a joke and Carlos is every bit my friend as he is hers. People may see that and think of it as the same old attention whoring but to the people involved its no different than back when you and kitty joked about having midget children or something like that. Neither of you saw that as anything meaningful but if it was in the shoutbox it'd be kitty being an e-slut again.

But really what you say is not much different than Maija jumping in here and jumping down kitty's thoat, albeit I don't think anyone saw your post as confrontational, as her's clearly was. But she only sees a single post by kitty with no outside explanation for it and automatically believes what she said was completely unprovoked and uncalled for. However that couldn't be further from the truth. Dymond has been sharing his dislike for kitty for awhile now and hasn't been very subtle about it. Kitty's been frustrated with him for quite some time as well, over different things. Then Dymond runs to JaiJai basically telling her he has no respect for her and can't be her friend because she's also friends with kitty. That was close to the last straw for her and when she saw him in here spouting his mouth, as he always does, and being a hypocritical bastard, as he too often does, she couldn't resist airing his dirty laundry. Laundry he had already left as public record too. It wasn't like she said something that other people didn't already know. His fault for calling others two-faced when he so clearly is in that same boat. So basically Maija showed up, saw only what she could and decided it was her place to start bitching. Common mistake I suppose. Nothing new, but also nothing that should be left for someone else to believe when they shouldn't. Or for people like hellraiser to show up here not knowing anything about it, or the parties involved, and yet still thinking he has viewed enough to feel his opinion is somehow educated enough that he can school others here. I suppose its better to assume you don't know the whole story when you see personal shit being aired. I know thats why I stayed the hell out of this thread before Maija called my name.

Although I can't deny that it's fun being the asshole and speaking just to stir the pot


Hmm, for somene who proclaims to not care what people think about Kitty's actions, you've made some pretty long posts in here.

But since I tried to bow out of this thread gracefully, I would appreciate it if you would refrain from bringing me back into this crap.


You see, I know a lot more about the Dymond/Kitty situation than you give me credit for, and your continuing assumptions about my or anyone else's knowledge of the situation is where your posturing becomes weak.

My "uncalled for, bitching" in this thread had nothing to do with defending Dymond, and everything to do with calling someone out for what I considered probably the most reprehensible and hypocritical statement I have seen posted on this forum in the three years I have been here. And guess what? A heck of a lot of people agree with me that she crossed the line, in fact, even some of them who posted in this very thread AGAINST Dymond.

But what should have been a discussion between JaiJai and Beli turned into a diatribe on people being "two-faced." For me personally, your response validated the whole point.

You see, all this time I thought you were innocent in Kitty's little games, but really you claim to be an accomplice......you're just a shill. And honestly, that makes me sad. You admit to laughing at the end of the day at her little conquests of emotional betrayal ... most of which are probably raging hormonal teens that can't help the fact that a hot woman is leading them on and batting her eyelashes at them (great point Hellraiser BTW). Sure it's not entirely Kitty's fault.....but who is old enough to know better? And more importantly, who is vindictive enough to play those games?


Anyway the people I care about on this forum know why I called Kitty out. I gave you the respect of apologizing before I did it.....but you put some crazy spin on that text message that wasn't even going that way...

What was for me origionally all about standing up to someone who crossed the line....has actually turned into me being very sad for the entire forum. Sure there has always been conflict, and flaming, drama sluts, and AIW......but like Aeon said soo brilliantly....this thread brought a lot of people to light about the nature of e-friendship :|


So I might not take my toys and leave the shitbox....Oops, I mean sandbox....but I'm certainly not going to spend the time here I used to...if I need to hang out with people who play mindgames just for their amusment and to mask their own insecurity....hell i can go to myspace for that :hehe:

[Aeon]

I really think we should all get naked and mosh to some punk music.

always makes me feel better. :D ;)


(Now if your gonna call me a slut don't be surprised when I act like it ...LMAO!)

[HellRaiser]

I liked these 2 points, so i thought i'd say so for the record, i quite like you and i think your right-ish about the other thing.

Jesus fucking Christ, your ruining my reputation lol.
Where's my fluffy bunny? :hehe:

But, as for the friendship thing, Aiyana touched on it, alot of people on here really are that close friends, talk on the phone, meet each other in person etc etc.

I agree, if people actually meet up and can spend time together truly getting to know each other and find themself in synch, that is a friend.
I was merely aiming at those who only know each other from a keyboard.

Oh i'll touch on the flirting since im here and dramatically bored, adults flirt, whats the problem? This forum IS technically supposed to be 19 and over, so rit always claimed anyhow, so technically, there is only supposed to be adults here and adults flirt, its human nature.

The forum being 19 and over was supposed to be, hardly the case as we all know.
So what we have is many so called underage people mixing with adult conversations and shoutboxes.

Flirting isn't the problem, I am not against fliriting adults, I was saying it is being done with underage people.


Or for people like hellraiser to show up here not knowing anything about it, or the parties involved, and yet still thinking he has viewed enough to feel his opinion is somehow educated enough that he can school others here. I suppose its better to assume you don't know the whole story when you see personal shit being aired. I know thats why I stayed the hell out of this thread before Maija called my name.

Woah, hold on...

First of all, I was agreeing with the point you stated in question I retorted to.
I also never stated or claimed anything in a negative fashion towards Kitty.
I don't know either of you muchless your online stories ( or anyone else for that matter) to comment positive or negatively.

I was making statements in a GENERAL THEME, from what I seen, nothing more or less.
If one is guilty from that, well reflection needs to be addresses not defence mechanisms.
As for schooling others, hardly my intention or agenda.
I post what I do everywhere as my beliefs and opinions for me, not for e support.

Other then this, were good.

[HellRaiser]

I really think we should all get naked and mosh to some punk music.

always makes me feel better. :D ;)


(Now if your gonna call me a slut don't be surprised when I act like it ...LMAO!)

That sounds good but change the punk to Metal hehehe. ;)

[YetAnotherKitten]

That sounds good but change the punk to Metal hehehe. ;)

How about lets change the "naked" to silly, "mosh" to play patty cake

What?/ it sounds fun to me... I'm always trying to get my neice to play hand clapping games :(

[Uganja]

So I might not take my toys and leave the shitbox....Oops, I mean sandbox....but I'm certainly not going to spend the time here I used to...if I need to hang out with people who play mindgames just for their amusment and to mask their own insecurity....hell i can go to myspace for that :hehe:

i wish these people didn't exist in life, i really do.

[Santo]

i wish these people didn't exist in life, i really do.


Word :trudat:

[HellRaiser]

How about lets change the "naked" to silly, "mosh" to play patty cake

What?/ it sounds fun to me... I'm always trying to get my neice to play hand clapping games :(

Geez, you need to lighten up, hehehe... :angel:

[steff]

Has anyone read every post in this? It's like a novel and you're pissing in the wind if you think I'm reading it. Can someone provide me with the summary thus far?

[Santo]

Well, after reading it thouroughly, it all comes down you you being a skanky cunt Steffy.

[YetAnotherKitten]

Geez, you need to lighten up, hehehe... :angel:

did you think I wasn't serious?? I would mosh naked but I bruise easily and I am insecure about my body...punk is okay though...for a while...

[Aeon]

How about lets change the "naked" to silly, "mosh" to play patty cake

What?/ it sounds fun to me... I'm always trying to get my neice to play hand clapping games :(


Will someone get "The Virgin Mary" a patty cake partener! :D




metal...hiphop..patty cake :D;) whatevs! As long as your naked and silly.


And I think I might be in luv with Hellraiser! I needed a new victim anyway ;)

[YetAnotherKitten]

Will someone get "The Virgin Mary" a patty cake partener! :D

HERE HERE!! WELL SAID!!!:bananalama:

oh and I've decided

(P)

well scratch worthless and put "not nearly as entertaining"

[Aeon]

Gotta love it when you can whip out naked dancing photo's and everyone is cool with looking at it...




NSFW!!






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[YetAnotherKitten]

See.. i dont understand why it wouldnt be just as fun. with clothes on... :S??

[Aeon]

Nobody could see your boobies bounce!

[HellRaiser]

Will someone get "The Virgin Mary" a patty cake partener! :D

Ya, no kidding. ;)

And I think I might be in luv with Hellraiser! I needed a new victim anyway ;)

Ya, I know it's hard to resist my charm and ........................... :hehe:

[Aeon]

Ya, no kidding. ;)



Ya, I know it's hard to resist my charm and ........................... :hehe:



Is that acceptance of my overture? :angel:

[tca]

Has anyone read every post in this? It's like a novel and you're pissing in the wind if you think I'm reading it. Can someone provide me with the summary thus far?

If you stand diagnoally when pissing into the wind, you'll find said piss blows away from you ;)

[Eyez Neverclear]

Woah, hold on...

First of all, I was agreeing with the point you stated in question I retorted to.
I also never stated or claimed anything in a negative fashion towards Kitty.
I don't know either of you muchless your online stories ( or anyone else for that matter) to comment positive or negatively.

I was making statements in a GENERAL THEME, from what I seen, nothing more or less.
If one is guilty from that, well reflection needs to be addresses not defence mechanisms.
As for schooling others, hardly my intention or agenda.
I post what I do everywhere as my beliefs and opinions for me, not for e support.

Other then this, were good.

I guess I owe you an apology. I shouldn't have used your name but a certain person in this thread has me a little pissed off with her assumptions that all the teasing and flirting going on with kitty involved were always proked by her and not only that but they are with underage people when that is far from the case. And well your post kind of played into that whether you were aiming at her or not. You and her both claim its all underage boys and an older irresponsible girl when at least in kitty's case thats just not the case.

Sadly enough the list of guys that have been humping her leg at some point in time throughout the last year were almost all older guys plenty mature and very mature by forum standards and probably an average age of 25 even after adding in the 2 sapplings. The problem here is lonely older men that can't get a women. Not lonely women. The younger guys aren't old enough to be lonely, and the so called lonely older women I know around here seem to be doing just fine for themselves under the sun in the real world. These guys befriend every girl on the forum and when they find one that actually talks to them the loneliess gets the better of them and despite being told over and over again that nothing is happening they keep coming back. But I guess thats Kitty's fault. She should do more than tell them bluntly its not gonna happen, more than I have a boyfriend I love and I'm completely happy with. I guess she should also be a heartless bitch on top of that and not attempt to let them down easily. Not try to at least be friendily. But it happens so often it must be entirely her fault right? And everybody around here is underage right so she must also be taking advantage of young kids. Yup she's some kind of internet child predator. Maybe she should let those guys chasing her know in public that she is taken and happy so everyone can know exactly what's going on so they won't be confused. Maybe she should make a warning thread. Hell some people would lead you to believe its such a problem there should be a sticky thread saying Beware of Kitty! Maybe it should be in the FAQ section. Hell maybe even the Everything You Wanted to Know and More section.

It clearly doesn't pay to be a sociable girl around here. Its completely unacceptable if you don't wanna be labeled an e-slut. And calling bullshit to complete assholes is really unacceptable when you're already labeled an e-slut. Even if you're only restating public record. Hell I think that makes it even more unacceptable. Then even more so when its a shocking truth and not just some lame attempt at name calling thats the norm around here. How dare they!!!!

But again sorry Hellraiser, I shouldn't have brought your name into this. That was probably a step further than I should have taken it.

[Spork!!!]

eyez, I haven't had homework since '93.
show me beernanas! ;)

[tca]

It clearly doesn't pay to be a sociable girl around here. Its completely unacceptable if you don't wanna be labeled an e-slut. And calling bullshit to complete assholes is really unacceptable when you're already labeled an e-slut. Even if you're only restating public record. Hell I think that makes it even more unacceptable. Then even more so when its a shocking truth and not just some lame attempt at name calling thats the norm around here. How dare they!!!!


Quoted for truth!

This forum is showing a shocking case of double standards lately.

[Eyez Neverclear]

Hmm, for somene who proclaims to not care what people think about Kitty's actions, you've made some pretty long posts in here.

And you've known me so little over the last 2 years that you think I'm known for anything less than long posts. Nobody gets more replies telling me what I wrote was too long. NOBODY!

But since I tried to bow out of this thread gracefully, I would appreciate it if you would refrain from bringing me back into this crap.

Ironic considering you brought my name into this meaninglessly in the first place. Even refering to the fact that I usually don't step in for her. Whether you meant to or not you called me out on this. Without you mentioning my name here and texting me I would have continued to ignore this thread as I ignore every thread where 2 people I enjoy are arguing.


You see, I know a lot more about the Dymond/Kitty situation than you give me credit for, and your continuing assumptions about my or anyone else's knowledge of the situation is where your posturing becomes weak.

My "uncalled for, bitching" in this thread had nothing to do with defending Dymond, and everything to do with calling someone out for what I considered probably the most reprehensible and hypocritical statement I have seen posted on this forum in the three years I have been here. And guess what? A heck of a lot of people agree with me that she crossed the line, in fact, even some of them who posted in this very thread AGAINST Dymond..

Rephensible and hypocritical based on what? Your assumptions of kitty's life? You can't even begin to compare Dymond coming to the forum and having a sig saying he loves his wife and then at the same time making a completely seperate account that he knows what be checked up on so he can talk and flirt away here on the forum. Then Kitty having issues with a husband she attempted to kick out of her house for an entire year before the wife beating asshole would actually leave. She wouldn't let me see her until he was out of the house even if she had made it clear to the asshole they were no longer together. He finally left then we saw each other. But no, kitty is berating Dymond for something she herself does. She's so hypocritcal! Omg you know exactly everything thats going on in kitty's world you're just the perfect person to point out all her flaws to the world.

And anyone else that supposedly sided with you and Dymond on this is just someone that either wasn't here when Dymond made that account or just plain forgot about it. I don't think there would be anyone out there realizing that that would also feel her making that post was so out of the line when its shit Dymond admitted to doing perviously to multiple people. It was no secret at the time. Only from his wife. But I guess bringing up the past is reprehensible[/QUOTE]

But what should have been a discussion between JaiJai and Beli turned into a diatribe on people being "two-faced." For me personally, your response validated the whole point.

You see, all this time I thought you were innocent in Kitty's little games, but really you claim to be an accomplice......you're just a shill. And honestly, that makes me sad. You admit to laughing at the end of the day at her little conquests of emotional betrayal ... most of which are probably raging hormonal teens that can't help the fact that a hot woman is leading them on and batting her eyelashes at them (great point Hellraiser BTW). Sure it's not entirely Kitty's fault.....but who is old enough to know better? And more importantly, who is vindictive enough to play those games?

And yet again you just think you know exactly what it going on in other people's world based on what you see in this forum. Conquests of emotional betrayal huh? Thats 10 times over the funniest thing I've ever seen you post in here. Somewhere you assume that kitty does not tell these already emotional wrecked fools that nothing is going to happen. That they don't know about me, or whatever else. Sorry honey but guys are told daily its not gonna happen. Its discussed 100% through and though. Yet its still her fault the guys come to the conclusion they can't help their feelings. She's being vindictive and playing games. That's why we laugh about it. And you know this because all these guys have what, told you differnt? You clearly don't even know who they are seeing as you think they've all been the kids in the forum. You just don't know. You've never liked kitty and therefore you always assume the worst. Give me a list of all these under age guys. You may be able to state the latest but I have a hard time believeing you would even remember the name of the only other underage kid. You could even ask the latest and I'm sure he will admit over and over again that she told him over and over again that she was happy with me and nothing more than a friendship was in their future. I'm sorry, I know you'd love to believe she's been torturing young boys and ruining them for life but sadly they are all, short of 2, between 24-30something.

Anyway the people I care about on this forum know why I called Kitty out. I gave you the respect of apologizing before I did it.....but you put some crazy spin on that text message that wasn't even going that way...

Crazy spin huh. I get a random text out of nowhere saying "Its nice getting to know you and being friends all this time, but I think I just made a post that you will not be able to forgive me for." How can I not read that and take it the way I did? You clearly thought in advance that you said something I wouldn't be able to forgive you for. You actually stopped and thought to yourself "Charlie is never going to talk to me ever again", accepted that as the consequence for you making the post, and then made it anyways. Its clear as day to me. You decided you just absolutely couldn't keep your mouth shut even at risk of losing a friend. Sorry, but someone that makes that decision is not worth my time. Even if the relationship has been as good as ours has for the last 2 years. You too have clearly not liked eachother from as long as I've known both of you. I've pleaded with kitty to bite her fucking tongue and not say a word to you so many times its caused multiple fights between us. Been made to feel like shit for not seeing things her way and standing by her side. Then a situation comes up where you have the same opportunity and you make me look like an ass. She said I told you so so quick my head was spinning.

So I might not take my toys and leave the shitbox....Oops, I mean sandbox....but I'm certainly not going to spend the time here I used to...if I need to hang out with people who play mindgames just for their amusment and to mask their own insecurity....hell i can go to myspace for that :hehe:

I don't get the whole shit on the entire forum on your way out the door. Its such the Dymond thing to do. You've been coming here for 3 years and shit hasn't changed. If anything the forum is less brutal than it was. Hell even you have been called out for being an attention whore in the past. But when your post, which was about the 50th that was boarderline out of line having gone too far in this thread alone, gets called out you decide you're above it and have to knock everyone else here. You know exactly how this forum is, its drawn you in for years, you complain about this type of thread yet you jump right into it or at least read it. So why talk shit. You've specifically gone out of you way for 3 years as you say to come be apart of this. You claim this is a shitbox then you claim you've made a home in a shitbox.

eyez, I haven't had homework since '93.
show me beernanas! ;)

Cuz Vinnie is the man!

http://img407.imageshack.us/img407/5636/beernbananasal9.gif

[Davecat]

Your all tarts.

A.I.W.

[steff]

you're*

[tca]

A.I.W*

no third fullstop :P

[steff]

Why? Isn't the periods present because it's abbreviated words? I'm crap with grammar and all that shite mind you.

[tca]

The third fullstop isn't needed as, it just isn't by common grammar principle.

Its like N.W.A or uhm, having trouble thinking of any other examples, but you just dont need a third period/another period after the end of abbreviated word.

Okie doke, onto keeping this thread on track, who the hell in here would know first hand what kerri is like bar charlie? Seriously, you can't sit there and keep claiming that kerri is evil n plays mind games and all that shite, cos OH SNAP, i liked her earlier this year and shes one of the nicest people i've ever met, she didn't pay me out, she was decidedly honest from the start about me having no chance and besides i knew i had no chance from the start.

Although, her niceness must just have stemmed from the fact i thought i had a chance right? Cos she just fucks with peoples heads yeah? Oh yeah, i had a chance with kerri all along, in my dreams. :rolleyes:

Honestly, this shite is pathetic, the way you're acting, directed at teh hooker, cos all charlie is doing is sticking up for his girlfriend, which is perfectly normal, but you can't sit there and say im biased, well shes my friend, but thats hardly going to make me lie in her defence, defence, she hasn't done any fucking thing wrong, so why on earth do you feel the need to keep dragging on this shit like you have?

You know charlie is right, you know he has been right all along, hence the trying to back out of the thread now. Give up the argument while he leaves you with a shred of respect, cos i assure you, you're not going to win it.

Oh and you can say what you want in reply to me, but im not getting caught in a shit flinging match, cos well, there is just no reply to what i said cos every part of it was the truth and well, lets be honest for once in the thread shall we, if you argue with the truth, then you're just straight out lying.

Great, now im fucking doing what i hate you all for doing. :argh:

[swiss miss]

The third fullstop isn't needed as, it just isn't by common grammar principle.

Its like N.W.A or uhm, having trouble thinking of any other examples, but you just dont need a third period/another period after the end of abbreviated word.

Okie doke, onto keeping this thread on track, who the hell in here would know first hand what kerri is like bar charlie? Seriously, you can't sit there and keep claiming that kerri is evil n plays mind games and all that shite, cos OH SNAP, i liked her earlier this year and shes one of the nicest people i've ever met, she didn't pay me out, she was decidedly honest from the start about me having no chance and besides i knew i had no chance from the start.

Although, her niceness must just have stemmed from the fact i thought i had a chance right? Cos she just fucks with peoples heads yeah? Oh yeah, i had a chance with kerri all along, in my dreams. :rolleyes:

Honestly, this shite is pathetic, the way you're acting, directed at teh hooker, cos all charlie is doing is sticking up for his girlfriend, which is perfectly normal, but you can't sit there and say im biased, well shes my friend, but thats hardly going to make me lie in her defence, defence, she hasn't done any fucking thing wrong, so why on earth do you feel the need to keep dragging on this shit like you have?

You know charlie is right, you know he has been right all along, hence the trying to back out of the thread now. Give up the argument while he leaves you with a shred of respect, cos i assure you, you're not going to win it.

Oh and you can say what you want in reply to me, but im not getting caught in a shit flinging match, cos well, there is just no reply to what i said cos every part of it was the truth and well, lets be honest for once in the thread shall we, if you argue with the truth, then you're just straight out lying.

Great, now im fucking doing what i hate you all for doing. :argh:


this thread got boring a long time ago, lets turn it into a grammar nazi thread :) :hehe:

Now, my grammar isnt the strongest but i feel fairly confident that what you have said jesse is incorrect and could only be accurate if your abbreviation N.W.A came at the end of a sentence and was thus followed by a full stop, i.e. N.W.A. Wow, look there is another e.g.: i.e. still has two periods and wow so does e.g. The final period is most definitely still required, these examples only include two letters but grammar nazi's dont get bored and quit if the letters extend to 3 or more. For example: The C.I.A. protects american citizens........... however: American citizens are protected by the C.I.A.
in this instance the third period to the abbreviation would suffice, you would not then need a second period to indicate the end of the sentence - but when it occurs in the middle of a sentence the period is still required because the a is still an abbreviation of agency and, as such, still requires a period to indicate this. Much the same as you would STILL say U.S.A. in the middle and end of a sentence and not U.S.A

anybody doing English degrees that would care to comment??

[tca]

this thread got boring a long time ago, lets turn it into a grammar nazi thread :) :hehe:

Now, my grammar isnt the strongest but i feel fairly confident that what you have said jesse only applies if the abbreviation is at the end of the sentence, otherwise the final period is most definitely still required. For example: The C.I.A. protects american citizens........... however: American citizens are protected by the C.I.A.
in this instance the third period to the abbreviation would suffice, you would not then need a second period to indicate the end of the sentence. Much the same as you would STILL say U.S.A. in the middle and end of a sentence and not U.S.A
or am i being daft??

I think you're being daft, if persay, i were to say "The U.S.A is a great country" i think that would be correct, but on that note, i think if i were to say "I was born in 1988 in the U.S.A." then i think that would also be correct.

I do suspect neither is technically wrong, but technically on the same note, i think technically its supposed to be how i think.

I'll stop saying technically now. :P

[swiss miss]

I think you're being daft, if persay, i were to say "The U.S.A is a great country" i think that would be correct, but on that note, i think if i were to say "I was born in 1988 in the U.S.A." then i think that would also be correct.

I do suspect neither is technically wrong, but technically on the same note, i think technically its supposed to be how i think.

I'll stop saying technically now. :P

i was editing my post as you wrote yours, i think you're technically talking bollox :P

[tca]

Im not, but ok, you're welcome to your opinion.

Wrong or not. :P

[Buckledmac]

wheres Kat or Nickything when you need them :dunno:

[YetAnotherKitten]

What does it matter.. nobody uses the damn things anymore

!!

ie-

NWA-

USA or US

CIA

FBI

Google all of those with periods (or fullstops if you want) and see what you get!!

P.S. Uhm can you people PLEASE let us derail this thread?? :P

It's good to get it out but I though we learned to get it out before its all crazyness!! Be honest with yourself and others dagnabbit.

[Pirate Hooker with Monkey]

EYEZ - your tunnel vision defense of Kitty's behavior is sounding less and less like a man defending her honor, and more and more like you need to convince yourself…..


That's my last post. To spare the forum from another epic reply, I've sent you a PM. You can decide if you want to read it or not.

[Aiyana]

The third fullstop isn't needed as, it just isn't by common grammar principle.

Its like N.W.A or uhm, having trouble thinking of any other examples, but you just dont need a third period/another period after the end of abbreviated word.

Okie doke, onto keeping this thread on track, who the hell in here would know first hand what kerri is like bar charlie? Seriously, you can't sit there and keep claiming that kerri is evil n plays mind games and all that shite, cos OH SNAP, i liked her earlier this year and shes one of the nicest people i've ever met, she didn't pay me out, she was decidedly honest from the start about me having no chance and besides i knew i had no chance from the start.

Although, her niceness must just have stemmed from the fact i thought i had a chance right? Cos she just fucks with peoples heads yeah? Oh yeah, i had a chance with kerri all along, in my dreams. :rolleyes:

Honestly, this shite is pathetic, the way you're acting, directed at teh hooker, cos all charlie is doing is sticking up for his girlfriend, which is perfectly normal, but you can't sit there and say im biased, well shes my friend, but thats hardly going to make me lie in her defence, defence, she hasn't done any fucking thing wrong, so why on earth do you feel the need to keep dragging on this shit like you have?

You know charlie is right, you know he has been right all along, hence the trying to back out of the thread now. Give up the argument while he leaves you with a shred of respect, cos i assure you, you're not going to win it.

Oh and you can say what you want in reply to me, but im not getting caught in a shit flinging match, cos well, there is just no reply to what i said cos every part of it was the truth and well, lets be honest for once in the thread shall we, if you argue with the truth, then you're just straight out lying.

Great, now im fucking doing what i hate you all for doing. :argh:



jesus christ TCA why can't yuou keep it down to a couple lines..it is to much to read!!:girly:

[F8SentMe]

Nobody could see your boobies bounce!

LMAO perfect pic bravo:bucky:

[dave]

tca stfu ur ruining this thread ffs like you do to 90% of others
finaly a decent thread and you still post utter bollox and wont ever let a convo jsut drop cause u need to have the highest post count, ffs just get out ur house once and a while and see there is more to life then haveing a high post count and learn to socilise properly so you dont feel the need to keep posting all the fucking time
*edit* im also not the only person who thinks this

[kitty]

You see, all this time I thought you were innocent in Kitty's little games, but really you claim to be an accomplice......you're just a shill. And honestly, that makes me sad. You admit to laughing at the end of the day at her little conquests of emotional betrayal ... most of which are probably raging hormonal teens that can't help the fact that a hot woman is leading them on and batting her eyelashes at them (great point Hellraiser BTW). Sure it's not entirely Kitty's fault.....but who is old enough to know better? And more importantly, who is vindictive enough to play those games?

See...I'd love to know who you are referring to when you say that I am messing with these "raging hormonal teens" minds maj. The guys that I flirt and joke around with are all people that I normally talk to and we have joked like this for years. They are all in their mid twenties at least, and know about Charlie and know that it's all in fun. The only time in all my forum years that anything conspired that could be considered a mind fuck in the least ended badly, and hurt both of us. It ended up ruining a good friendship that I still to this day miss. It wasnt planned, nor was it malicious in any fashion whatsoever. I honestly dont think that is any of your business though. If he wants to talk to you about that, then that's up to him. He may already have for all I know, but I'll be damned if I explain myself to you on that front.

As far as Charlie and I laughing about things, we laugh mostly about the new guys that wont take no for an answer and keeps being persistant, or even the ones that say outrageous things. I'm sure you've heard the same things and it is laughable. I dont laugh over hurt feelings nor have I known of any besides one person.

Vindictive huh? So talking to someone for months and getting close...joking, flirting etc...everything's normal...then one day you find out that feelings are involved...someone gets hurt..that qualifies as vindictive?? then yes I'm a vindictive bitch..happy?

What gets me is that instead of saying that what I said was uncalled for(which I know was over the line, but still true) and just saying what you thought about me, you had to drag Charlie into this by implying that he wouldnt be here for me then texting him. I would have never dragged him into any of this shit and it blows my mind that you felt the need to.:|

[Aeon]

Quoted for truth!

This forum is showing a shocking case of double standards lately.


LMFAO...:eh:

What is the double standard... I am ever so interested in hearing it.

[Eyez Neverclear]

Okie doke, onto keeping this thread on track, who the hell in here would know first hand what kerri is like bar charlie? Seriously, you can't sit there and keep claiming that kerri is evil n plays mind games and all that shite, cos OH SNAP, i liked her earlier this year and shes one of the nicest people i've ever met, she didn't pay me out, she was decidedly honest from the start about me having no chance and besides i knew i had no chance from the start.

Although, her niceness must just have stemmed from the fact i thought i had a chance right? Cos she just fucks with peoples heads yeah? Oh yeah, i had a chance with kerri all along, in my dreams. :rolleyes:

Honestly, this shite is pathetic, the way you're acting, directed at teh hooker, cos all charlie is doing is sticking up for his girlfriend, which is perfectly normal, but you can't sit there and say im biased, well shes my friend, but thats hardly going to make me lie in her defence, defence, she hasn't done any fucking thing wrong, so why on earth do you feel the need to keep dragging on this shit like you have?

You know charlie is right, you know he has been right all along, hence the trying to back out of the thread now. Give up the argument while he leaves you with a shred of respect, cos i assure you, you're not going to win it.

Oh and you can say what you want in reply to me, but im not getting caught in a shit flinging match, cos well, there is just no reply to what i said cos every part of it was the truth and well, lets be honest for once in the thread shall we, if you argue with the truth, then you're just straight out lying.

Great, now im fucking doing what i hate you all for doing. :argh:

Thanks TCA you pretty much prove my point for me. The people kitty has talked with, flirted with, and just plain been friendly with can all be asked their opinions on this matter. She doesn't need to take my or kitty's word. A good handful of those people she flirts with harmlessly are Maija's friends as well and would be as easy to track down as signing onto msn. She can ask them and she can ask anyone else she wants to. She's not going to though. She's disliked kitty for over 2 years now, its been a mutual dislike between the two and neither of them will ever give the other the benefit of the doubt ever. Assuming the worst fits their already set in stone opinions. Hell more of them could post here just as you did and she'll just pass them over without thought or comment. I think kitty is the anti-christ in her forum world.

[Furyous]

BURN HER! (kitty, the anti-Christ) ;)

[tca]

tca stfu ur ruining this thread ffs like you do to 90% of others
finaly a decent thread and you still post utter bollox and wont ever let a convo jsut drop cause u need to have the highest post count, ffs just get out ur house once and a while and see there is more to life then haveing a high post count and learn to socilise properly so you dont feel the need to keep posting all the fucking time
*edit* im also not the only person who thinks this

You're first mistake was thinking i care about what you and circle jerk buddies talk about.

Secondly, this thread has gotten beyond the point of useless, im hijacking it into something better, sure people may object, but fuck them, they're only useless little pissants like you.

Third, you're an idiot.

Foruth, just for the hell of it, i get out quite abit, not that you would know about that, you're too busy staying at home acting like an emo. :rolleyes:

LMFAO... :eh:

What is the double standard... I am ever so interested in hearing it.

Look around, do you think women are treated equal around here? In principle, maybe, but when a woman around here flirts with guys, shes a slut, when a guy does it, nobody bats an eyelash. ;)

Ok so i quoted and agreed for the sake of it, sue me.

[Cowboy From Hell]

this thread is like the energizer bunny: keeps going and going...

[Uganja]

this thread is like the energizer bunny: keeps going and going...

it shares something in common with your momma too then:grin:

[steff]

The third fullstop isn't needed as, it just isn't by common grammar principle.

Its like N.W.A or uhm, having trouble thinking of any other examples, but you just dont need a third period/another period after the end of abbreviated word.

Okie doke, onto keeping this thread on track, who the hell in here would know first hand what kerri is like bar charlie? Seriously, you can't sit there and keep claiming that kerri is evil n plays mind games and all that shite, cos OH SNAP, i liked her earlier this year and shes one of the nicest people i've ever met, she didn't pay me out, she was decidedly honest from the start about me having no chance and besides i knew i had no chance from the start.

Although, her niceness must just have stemmed from the fact i thought i had a chance right? Cos she just fucks with peoples heads yeah? Oh yeah, i had a chance with kerri all along, in my dreams. :rolleyes:

Honestly, this shite is pathetic, the way you're acting, directed at teh hooker, cos all charlie is doing is sticking up for his girlfriend, which is perfectly normal, but you can't sit there and say im biased, well shes my friend, but thats hardly going to make me lie in her defence, defence, she hasn't done any fucking thing wrong, so why on earth do you feel the need to keep dragging on this shit like you have?

You know charlie is right, you know he has been right all along, hence the trying to back out of the thread now. Give up the argument while he leaves you with a shred of respect, cos i assure you, you're not going to win it.

Oh and you can say what you want in reply to me, but im not getting caught in a shit flinging match, cos well, there is just no reply to what i said cos every part of it was the truth and well, lets be honest for once in the thread shall we, if you argue with the truth, then you're just straight out lying.

Great, now im fucking doing what i hate you all for doing. :argh:

If it's more than 3 lines then I'm not reading it...

[tca]

Just skip to the last line then :P

[peddle07]

You guys are all fucked. seriously. fucked. I now realize what the problem is, why I dont give a shit about this place anymore. When I first started coming here, it was the kids pissing everyone off, sure I was a kid, I kept my mouth shut for the most part and used proper grammar. What happened? Why did the forum change? I have the answer to that old outcry. The kids left, and everyone else turned into the kids. I pat you all on the back. Im not making a drama queen rampage "OMG IM FKING LEAVING", I'll be around. I gotta say, alot of people here who I used to talk to and consider close friends, aren't the same people anymore. Just plain fucking retarded.
Oh yeah, I'm not a mod anymore, someone change my title for me please? Thanks.

[TJ60]

You're first mistake was thinking i care about what you and circle jerk buddies talk about.

Secondly, this thread has gotten beyond the point of useless, im hijacking it into something better, sure people may object, but fuck them, they're only useless little pissants like you.

Third, you're an idiot.

Foruth, just for the hell of it, i get out quite abit, not that you would know about that, you're too busy staying at home acting like an emo. :rolleyes:



Look around, do you think women are treated equal around here? In principle, maybe, but when a woman around here flirts with guys, shes a slut, when a guy does it, nobody bats an eyelash. ;)

Ok so i quoted and agreed for the sake of it, sue me.


you know this is starting to get under my skin, what in the hell makes you think your so much smarter than everybody here? There is countless people here with IQ's higher than yours that you can't even hold their jock straps. Get a new line for fuck sake, I don't care if it's my Johnson is bigger than yours JUST STOP POSTING THAT YOUR SOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH SMARTER THAN THE REST OF US. I don't deny there is people here with low IQ's but the way you tell it is your 50pts higher than everybody here and if thats so....get a better forum to make your day go by faster.

[tca]

you know this is starting to get under my skin, what in the hell makes you think your so much smarter than everybody here? There is countless people here with IQ's higher than yours that you can't even hold their jock straps. Get a new line for fuck sake, I don't care if it's my Johnson is bigger than yours JUST STOP POSTING THAT YOUR SOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH SMARTER THAN THE REST OF US. I don't deny there is people here with low IQ's but the way you tell it is your 50pts higher than everybody here and if thats so....get a better forum to make your day go by faster.

I merely called him an idiot, there is quite a few people here alot smarter then me. Next argument please.

[Cowboy From Hell]

it shares something in common with your momma too then:grin:

papa? :hidey:

[steff]

Nicole?

[HellRaiser]

Is that acceptance of my overture? :angel:

Acceptance of your (L) for me? Sure no problem lol.
To become your victim? ;) Psychic vampirism doesn't work against me. :hehe:

I guess I owe you an apology. I shouldn't have used your name but a certain person in this thread has me a little pissed off with her assumptions that all the teasing and flirting going on with kitty involved were always proked by her and not only that but they are with underage people when that is far from the case. And well your post kind of played into that whether you were aiming at her or not. You and her both claim its all underage boys and an older irresponsible girl when at least in kitty's case thats just not the case. But again sorry Hellraiser, I shouldn't have brought your name into this. That was probably a step further than I should have taken it.

Totally understandable and I can see how you perceived it, to say what ya did.
Your post did ring a lot of truth as well and I do agree, every situation requires 2 to make a story.

It's all good, were good, :beerchug:

[Kloaked Spirit]

I've always kind of liked the taste of apples.

[Eyez Neverclear]

I've always kind of liked the taste of apples.

Eat Washington apples! Mmm they're grrreat!

[Uganja]

I merely called him an idiot, there is quite a few people here alot smarter then me. Next argument please.

Your post content is boring, the word spam is irrelevant. No one admires you for having too much time on your hands and being able to post in every single thread..... problem is people do care about certain topics in threads (even if you don't), and you come in with an "I dont care about this thread so i'll de-rail it to divert attention to me and hopefully some of my bum chums will follow me and tell me that i'm being funny" attitude.

When people dispute your motives, your retorts are generic and generally result in trying to undermine peoples iq's (TJ's point) - if they were decent flames, and not the rants of a insecure teenager people might show you a bit more respect.

[tca]

Your post content is boring, the word spam is irrelevant. No one admires you for having too much time on your hands and being able to post in every single thread..... problem is people do care about certain topics in threads (even if you don't), and you come in with an "I dont care about this thread so i'll de-rail it to divert attention to me and hopefully some of my bum chums will follow me and tell me that i'm being funny" attitude.

When people dispute your motives, your retorts are generic and generally result in trying to undermine peoples iq's (TJ's point) - if they were decent flames, and not the rants of a insecure teenager people might show you a bit more respect.

Hm, another of these followers of dave, well im glad you took the time to post here, honestly, i am. You're wasting your time like the others before you though.

I could count five people in this thread (including about 3 of the main posters) who said this thread was old and boring. While you may sit there and get off over people being retarded and saying the same thing over and over in longer and longer posts, thats YOUR choice, that doesn't mean i have to sit here and put up with it.

As for respect, i care why? If i honestly wanted respect, i wouldn't spam. As for insecure, far from it, unlike yourself my friend. See, i didn't "undermine" his IQ i merely called him an idiot, since when is it such a crime to call people bad names in AIW?

I think you're all merely flailing about in a sad attempt to keep a stale thread going, it ran its course, get over it.

[Uganja]

Retort.


Hm, another of these followers of dave, well im glad you took the time to post here, honestly, i am. You're wasting your time like the others before you though.

Wasting my time because you are too ignorant to listen to decent advice?

I could count five people in this thread (including about 3 of the main posters) who said this thread was old and boring. While you may sit there and get off over people being retarded and saying the same thing over and over in longer and longer posts, thats YOUR choice, that doesn't mean i have to sit here and put up with it.

You don't have to "sit here and put up with it", you could ignore the thread, your opinion was hardly valued in here. Equally, why should we have to "sit here and put up" with your dull, contentless posts day in day out.

As for respect, i care why? If i honestly wanted respect, i wouldn't spam. As for insecure, far from it, unlike yourself my friend. See, i didn't "undermine" his IQ i merely called him an idiot, since when is it such a crime to call people bad names in AIW?

You don't want respect, yet you clearly advertise yourself as "spam king" in your signature, bit contradictory don't you think?
The insecure comment doesn't warrant much of a response... anyone with any type of social awareness can see my point. The ignorant person it was aimed at however, will not.
I am insecure about parts of myself, i'm big enough to admit that. But i wouldn't put down other people just to compensate for it.

Definately not a crime to call people names in AIW, i wont argue that point

I think you're all merely flailing about in a sad attempt to keep a stale thread going, it ran its course, get over it.

The threads content is finished, i agree....... My post to you was an attempt at seeing if you'll identify any of your wrong doings, clearly you wont.

[YetAnotherKitten]

sorry TCA. They are both right and you are apparently in denial.

exhibit A your excessive use of the word merely

Now tell me how many 18 year old Australians use that word??

I also know becuase I do the same thing. It's a bad habit that I'm trying to knock. Using words like merely and furthermore etc..well it's just condescending, especially coming from someone who was saying that everything should be said in less than a paragraph.

You also might want to consider that Jock and Jay have minds of their own and don't "follow" the will of a teenager. I'll label that exhibit B.

It's like you have a "debate" face but unfortunately we all see through it. You shouldn't have to fight for people to beleive you. You've got a noggin just like everyone else and there is no need to prove it by trying to degrade people who dissagree with you.

[steff]

Retort.

Counter retort.

[Mitch]

Counter retort.

Kitchen Counter

[tca]

Retort.

Wasting my time because you are too ignorant to listen to decent advice?

No, wasting my time because in the end, you're repeating what shit how many people have said in the past week alone? Do you not think i know my posts are rubbish? The single reason i just don't just post smilies and be done with it is to avoid a ban.

You don't have to "sit here and put up with it", you could ignore the thread, your opinion was hardly valued in here. Equally, why should we have to "sit here and put up" with your dull, contentless posts day in day out.

No, i'll give you your due there, you shouldn't have to put up with it, BUT i made a completey relavent post n dave attacked me, well as much as dave can attack, he is the equivalent of trying to cut down a tree with a butter knife.

You don't want respect, yet you clearly advertise yourself as "spam king" in your signature, bit contradictory don't you think?
The insecure comment doesn't warrant much of a response... anyone with any type of social awareness can see my point. The ignorant person it was aimed at however, will not.
I am insecure about parts of myself, i'm big enough to admit that. But i wouldn't put down other people just to compensate for it.

Oh yeah, like all humans i have insecurities, but nothing nobody on here will ever know about, i tell a lie, 2 people do, but my insecurities lay far beyond this forum buddy. As for spam king, lets face it, i can outrun anyone here in posts, that is the boast, i don't want respect, hell, i'd take a ban if they'd just give me one already. For the record, i dont put people down to compensate it, cos well my insecurities just don't come up, i put people down because quite frankly, it amuses me.

Definately not a crime to call people names in AIW, i wont argue that point

Glad we agree.

The threads content is finished, i agree....... My post to you was an attempt at seeing if you'll identify any of your wrong doings, clearly you wont.

Jay Jay Jay, i'd have expected you of all people to know the difference between a forum persona and somebodies real persona, im arrogant on here for the sake of pissing people off, since lets be honest, how many have bitten in this thread alone?



Since you so obviously insist on continuing this shite. Lets atleast make some more pages out of it.

sorry TCA. They are both right and you are apparently in denial.

Indenial about what?

exhibit A your excessive use of the word merely

Would you like me to resort to big bad swear words to make a point? Cos i will if you prefer them over the word merely.

Now tell me how many 18 year old Australians use that word??

You tell me, i don't associate with 18 year old australians because they shit me. Im not a big "people person".

I also know becuase I do the same thing. It's a bad habit that I'm trying to knock. Using words like merely and furthermore etc..well it's just condescending, especially coming from someone who was saying that everything should be said in less than a paragraph.

We're in no way alike. As for the paragraph thing, wow, learn to take a friggin joke.

You also might want to consider that Jock and Jay have minds of their own and don't "follow" the will of a teenager. I'll label that exhibit B.

Never said they didn't, nothing but love for both of them.

It's like you have a "debate" face but unfortunately we all see through it. You shouldn't have to fight for people to beleive you. You've got a noggin just like everyone else and there is no need to prove it by trying to degrade people who dissagree with you. I don't need to fight for people to believe me, people are going to believe what they want on stupid assumptions like age n all that shit. The people who i want to believe me, believe me, thats all that really matters.


Merely cos im bored n we could make this thread 30 pages with these ramblings.

[Mitch]

Aiyana is a whore.

[YetAnotherKitten]

Aiyana Is A dor able.

fixed.

[steff]

Kitchen Counter

The correct reply was "Joke about your mother"

[dave]

lol @ daves followers, who else are my followers?

[Aiyana]

WHAT!!!!your just pissed I could get more pussy than you
:fist:


Aiyana is a whore.

[CrayZii-InDiaN]

WHAT!!!!your just pissed I could get more pussy than you
:fist:

LMAO..... atleast u admit it urself ;) :hehe:

[Mitch]

WHAT!!!!your just pissed I could get more pussy than you
:fist:

I didn't mean to be offensive. You were in the SB yesterday saying that you didn't want to be included in this thread. And i'm a bastard...soo...

[tca]

lol @ daves followers, who else are my followers?

They're copying you by posting utter nonsense, admittedly, they make more sense then you. ;)

[Mitch]

He asked who they are...not what are they doing....jesus...

[tca]

Im sure he isn't that thick mitch. Thanks for your concern though.

[Aiyana]

PMSL!!!you tricked me:moon:


I didn't mean to be offensive. You were in the SB yesterday saying that you didn't want to be included in this thread. And i'm a bastard...soo...

[dave]

Im sure he isn't that thick mitch. Thanks for your concern though.

i did ask who are they, you seem to know everything and better than everyone else so who better to ask

[tca]

lol :rolleyes: is going to be my only reply to you

because well, now you're just being silly

[Cowboy From Hell]

zzZZzzzZZZzzZZZz

[dave]

so basicly the people who dont like you are my followers :S

[tca]

:bangdesk:

never mind

[Smokie]

fuck sake iam away for a month and come back to find this, people is it really necessary to argue 24/7 what happened to the love?

[Jacx]

you took it with you bastard

[Beli]

i thought this thread was dedicated to people trying to tell me how to act, think and feel. no one has ever been able to accompolish this feat save for my mother. and even then, it was only out of respect for her.
are we done here?

fyi for Steff: the outcome so far is i am a cunty bitch for wanting my winnings from overalls. :roll:

[Jacx]

i thought this thread was dedicated to people trying to tell me how to act, think and feel. no one has ever been able to accompolish this feat save for my mother. and even then, it was only out of respect for her.
are we done here?

fyi for Steff: the outcome so far is i am a cunty bitch for wanting my winnings from overalls. :roll:

Really, i thought it was to do with all the trouble making u like to get involved in, you yourself know that your check had to wait because rit was away and i even sent u a reminder for the address, once i had it i passed it onto rit like a good lil bitch and it was down to him.

I aint gonna bother getting into rants and raves here, this thread has enough damage, but don't make yourself to be a victim, for every action there is a reaction, and you lady have done plenty of actions in your time here.

My suggestion, stop playing mind games on people that want to be your friend, vixen, aeon, hell resa have all felt the brunt of it, and if the case is that you are sick as you say, then im sorry and i hope you recover to full health, but winding up others wont help you!

[Aiyana]

honestley I have no problem with you but the hole point of this thread was about you making comments about the staff being lazy or some shit like that....if you have a problems with what ever winning it is deal with that person...saying once is ok but hearing over and over is old.That is a private matter not a forum matter.
but i do wish you well,

I just have one question....as you can see the subject was getting to be old news....why try to start it all over again??honestly I don't understand


i thought this thread was dedicated to people trying to tell me how to act, think and feel. no one has ever been able to accompolish this feat save for my mother. and even then, it was only out of respect for her.
are we done here?

fyi for Steff: the outcome so far is i am a cunty bitch for wanting my winnings from overalls. :roll:

[Beli]

well Jacx the 3 you mentioned have had about 5 convo's each with me on msn...maybe less. i would hardly call that even an e-friend or even enough information to start mind fucking someone. i don't usually make friends with many females...case in point.. this thread :hehe: i am not a victimn nor have i been one. and the 3 lines from the s/b that were used, were directed at Rit and not you. but i think you might have understood that ;)

Aiyana i have asked for people to state exactly what it is they are talking about but i haven't seen much other than someone told someone on msn that ..... i just think that if someone is going to come at me with accusations..there should be some really good solid facts or examples. that is why i asked if we were done with the bitch fest or if anyone had anything to add.

[Aeon]

well Jacx the 3 you mentioned have had about 5 convo's each with me on msn...maybe less. i would hardly call that even an e-friend or even enough information to start mind fucking someone. i don't usually make friends with many females...case in point.. this thread :hehe: i am not a victimn nor have i been one. and the 3 lines from the s/b that were used, were directed at Rit and not you. but i think you might have understood that ;)

Aiyana i have asked for people to state exactly what it is they are talking about but i haven't seen much other than someone told someone on msn that ..... i just think that if someone is going to come at me with accusations..there should be some really good solid facts or examples. that is why i asked if we were done with the bitch fest or if anyone had anything to add.


Well that's all the information i needed... ... go fuck yourself.

[JaiJai]

Well that's all the information i needed... ... go fuck yourself.

lmfao .. My sentiments exactly ... why the hell is she starting this all up again? Oh yea, the thread stopped being about her :roll: Good attention , bad attention, she doesn't mind, as long as it's attention. For f's sake.... it stopped being about her pages and pages ago :| lol.

Ok beli.. (i duno why i'm wasting my time) ... It's ALL been stated in this thread by several people regarding what games you've played.. As a matter of fact.. You just tried to play another one by telling steff that poor you was being picked on Simply because you wanted your precious winnings.. BULLSHIT.. again!

And the 3 lines used to start the thread, I'll say it AGAIN since obviously you have selective memory.. IT WASNT THAT INCIDENT IN OF ITSELF, IT WAS EVERYTHING COMBINED... *sigh* I said this at least twice throughout this thread... Plus I listed things like you asked me to, in my final post, only you never responded to it. (Y)

One last thing.. Jacx only didn't post through the whole thread because I asked him not to.. due to his position here, we didn't feel it would be the good thing to do .. that was our own personal decision between us...nothing more. Make no mistake.. he see's your games as well. ;)



Welp..Beli, bring it all up again and carry on if you must.. I'm off to work :wave:

Or better yet.. why don't you go into the shoutbox and talk the filthy sexual stuff like you were doing the other day (After this thread started). You know.. the stuff about the pooping and prostitutes and stuff like you were saying in the SB... you know... just to shove it in our faces that you'll do as you wish around here, blatantly rebelling against admins requests that you not do that. Oh yea.. I seen it, as i'm sure others did too. Hey, maybe even someone's kid or boss seen it.. that would surely make you happy wouldn't it? Good ole' Beli.. you're right.. you deserve to act exactly how you want here :) Ciao.

[steff]

PJV9EMkv0u4

:P

Has this post had the most characters in it ever in Oddthought history?

[Aiyana]

LMAO:hehe:

PJV9EMkv0u4

:P

Has this post had the most characters in it ever in Oddthought history?

[Mitch]

LMAO:hehe:

What the fuck is wrong with you? Why type before what you're quoting??? It's confusing as hell!!

I'm sorry, i have sand in my vagina. It just itches and itches. I've tried getting it out with a spoon, but there's still some stuck in there in there.

You know, it's not so bad really. It gives me an odd tingling sensation inside. That may be the reason i'm so cranky. I've got the warm fuzzies and it's a new thing and i'm sorry, alright. I'm sorry.

Although, thank god it's not as bad as Jesse's sand. He's got the Sahara Desert of sandy vaginas man..

[Aiyana]

What the fuck is wrong with you? Why type before what you're quoting??? It's confusing as hell!!
I'm sorry, i have sand in my vagina. It just itches and itches. I've tried getting it out with a spoon, but there's still some stuck in there in there.

You know, it's not so bad really. It gives me an odd tingling sensation inside. That may be the reason i'm so cranky. I've got the warm fuzzies and it's a new thing and i'm sorry, alright. I'm sorry.

Although, thank god it's not as bad as Jesse's sand. He's got the Sahara Desert of sandy vaginas man..

is this better for you simple man!?! and why did you feel the need to hide what you wrote....is it because it makes no sence to anyone but the simple man:S

[fire]

i read to page 8...well most of it..not the spam...

i dont know what to say.i only talk with most peeps on here when they want some thing..i feel bad that this even had to be started...wouldnt even have known about it if i hadnt of been told..but im the same way ..i only talk to some when i need something from them....sorry guys i do hate to do that to peeps....

i know what JaiJai is talkin about..but its not only Beli that does it..i see it more and more now.but its mostly kept in the cartel talk...i think its turned in to a club...im hurt that i wasnt invited to join....BITCHES.

i know i dont fite in with you guys..i live in my own world..some times it includes you guys...but its stil my world...

i will say again that Admin have upmost respect from me....they have to take all kinda shit from a bunch of babys....yes thats you

[tca]

mitch, your jealous you can't be the sand in my vagina

[Mitch]

Yeah, being the Vibrator just doesn't cut it..

[YetAnotherKitten]

Yeah, being the Vibrator just doesn't cut it..


:hidey: I dont get it... then again.. maybe I don't need to know!:hehe:

[Smokie]

PJV9EMkv0u4

:P

Has this post had the most characters in it ever in Oddthought history?


LMFAO! :hehe: if i could give rep there would be some going your way for that

[MEMORYMAKER]

Really, i thought it was to do with all the trouble making u like to get involved in, you yourself know that your check had to wait because rit was away and i even sent u a reminder for the address, once i had it i passed it onto rit like a good lil bitch and it was down to him.

I aint gonna bother getting into rants and raves here, this thread has enough damage, but don't make yourself to be a victim, for every action there is a reaction, and you lady have done plenty of actions in your time here.

My suggestion, stop playing mind games on people that want to be your friend, vixen, aeon, hell resa have all felt the brunt of it, and if the case is that you are sick as you say, then im sorry and i hope you recover to full health, but winding up others wont help you!



YEA YA REALLY WANT TO TAKE THAT ADVISE
I'M NOT GOING TO SAY ALL ADMINISTRATORS
SO NOT BRING UP ANY NAME'S THEY SHOULD TAKE THAT ADVISE TO AND TRY PRACTING SOME OF THE LINE'S OF BULLSHIT THEY THROW OUT AND LET'S NOT FORGET THE WAY THEY LOVE TO SHOOT DOWN AND BELITTE OTHER FORUM MEMBERS TRYING TO ACT SMARTER THAN THEY REALLY ARE????????????


MEMORYMAKER
founder of the BR@NDEDFEW

[Alf uckem]

i read to page 12 then got bored. The only thing i got outta this thread is the monkey pirate is maija, is that right?

So who won in the end?

[Cowboy From Hell]

i read to page 12 then got bored. The only thing i got outta this thread is the monkey pirate is maija, is that right?

So who won in the end?

Darth Vader is Luke Skywalker's father :|

[Alf uckem]

yeah but is maija a priate monkey, and you just ruined the whole starwars series i was gonna watch em all today. I might as well not fuckin bother.

Next your gonna tell me in the film titanic, the boat sinks at the end:|

[tca]

don't be silly andy, the titanic will never sink

oh wait............

[hobbels]

http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y267/whoamel/plaatjes/lorelai.jpg

i've been away too long...

[tca]

damn right you have :D

welcome back hobbs

[Nazkyn]

totally fucking uncalled for.


I left this forum a long time ago because of drama, popularity contests, and this catty bullshit. I guess my only mistake was coming back here and reading the post of an adulturous attention whore who had no business getting into this conversation that was about BELI in the first place.

I'm done biting my tongue for the sake of kindness....

How dare the biggest e-slut in the entire forum have the nerve to call Dymond out when he was simply making a point about how people on the internet are never TRULY your friends.


So I'm sure very shortly your male cavalry will arrive (hmmmm.....somehow I think Chawlie won't) to save you yet again and flame the hell outta me...Maybe you can even get Tung unbanned again to come to your rescue.

But sorry, I won't be here to reply. I don't come here to get my e-ego stroked.


Resa, Aeon, Vix.....love you all, and I know you are freinds with Kitty, so no worries if you need to be here for her and come to her defense...I already told you how I feel about the Beli situation Resa. I love you girls...wish you the best! :grin:

That is BULLSHIT!!

EVERYONE knows Aeon is the biggest e-slut on the forum... followed closely by Hanso... Uganja.

[SweetHoney]

GOD

Well now...I was trying to decide if I could add anything of value to an A.I.W. thread. Since I have determined that it is not likely that I could flame with the "old crew", nor do I have an interest in doing so, I thought I would point out that friendships are born when two people connect on pretty much ANY playing field. I bring this up in hopes that it might inspire those here dissing on their so-called friends' behavior. None of us are innocent. We are all flawed in one way or another. I myself am a tragically hopeless flirt. I thrive on the attention of others, or I wouldn't even BE here.

Forum friends are not so very different from "pen pals", and many successful marriages have come from relationships started in this manner.

What I find utterly amazing is the fact that people find it so easy to point fingers at others while overlooking the faults that they themselves possess.

People defending the actions of friends is admirable, albeit unnecessary in this particular thread. I have personally found myself both annoyed at the "attitudes" of "old forum" members, and jealous of them for their foundations. The "new" forum, which is now "old" to ME is not as vicious (according to many of the seniors here) in content (we just don't know how to flame)... that's what I like about it, honestly. The new forum members may not have the history of being here from the beginning, but the friendships that have developed in this new era are equally as valuable to those in them as is the value placed on the others' relationships.

True friends are hard to come by, and this world is hard enough to survive without this kind of drama in it. "Opinions are like assholes...everyone has one and they all stink." Too true. I don't mind the thought of an A.I.W. section for those that need to resolve personal issues, however "personal" issues should *imho* be addressed on a personal level...once brought to a public forum, it becomes a group problem, and a collaborative effort. You cannot expect to bring something of such magnitude out into the open for people to see, and then expect them to keep their mouths shut about THEIR feelings on said matters.

I have made friends with Dymond, Beli, and many of the other posters present in this thread, however, Dymond has never been anything more than a friend, and he himself warned me about his flirtatiousness (always honest about having a wife). Beli's ability to cheer people up when they are down despite the manner in which it is done is inspiring to me. Whether she complains about things too much or not is irrelevant as she has a right to her feelings and opinions as well as anyone else here does. My personal issues with Kitty stemmed from my jealousy of her, and something she did that hurt another friend of mine here. Again, not mine to protest. I made no bones about not liking the way she handled "things" although I never outright admitted what my issues were with her...it wasn't my place, and I handled myself inappropriately at the time. I can't claim to be on the "everybody loves kitty" train, but I no longer have "issues" against her that require an attack. JaiJai hasn't been around much during my time here for me to get to know her, and typically I have seen her as a voice of reason, so I find it hard to completely ignore her feelings...although I think there is a bit more going on here than just an indignant reply accosting another forum member in a public manner. I would have thought it more her style to confront on a personal level, although admittedly if this was a public attack from Beli the repair could only come from a public accusation.

Can't we all just get along? *whining*

[Flashman]

"Tits oot for the Lads" says I

[Puppy Dogs and Ice Cream]

i can eat a can of vegetable soup and shit out a better thread then this

[Ridgeback]

"Tits oot for the Lads" says I

here, here :grin: