Women are Untrustworthy

[Uganja]

So,

How come women are so promiscious? Yet men have the reputation for being players...

How come most women get bored of their respective partner, and crave attention from a complete random who couldn't give a shit about them, and wont be there in their time of need?

How come you can trust a woman to be there when times are good, but when the going gets tough, they're gone?


What gets me, is that the reasoning behind most of the above actions, resorts in insecurity, but as soon as you provide your partner with that security they need, thats when they're out there craving attention from someone else.

Fuck relationships, you're better off on your own fellas.

Fuck them, and leave them

:rolleyes:

[Santo]

(Y) :glare:

[Moonblood]

Reason:

HUMANS. ARE. NATURALLY. POLYGAMOUS.

Do some research.

But yes, most modern women (along with most modern men) aren't too civilized, I will agree with that.

[Shiro Ishii]

Reason:

HUMANS. ARE. NATURALLY. POLYGAMOUS.

Do some research.

this is bullshit, and fucking stupid

[Smokie]

this is bullshit, and fucking stupid

Wheres your supporting evidence Shiro the psychiatrist (sp)

[I Got Priors]

According to relationship experts there are common reasons why women cheat. Here are the six most common reasons:

1. Familiarity has bred indifference.
The most common justification for infidelity that experts hear from women is that they feel taken for granted. When a woman feels like little more than a household drudge, attention from someone else becomes extremely seductive.

2. You’re leading parallel lives.
You used to travel the same path side by side, but lately your interests have diverged.

3. The passion has fizzled.
Some women are in pretty good marriages – things are good, the kids are fine, the husband’s okay – but she’s bored and needs some excitement.

4. The fantasy has fizzled.
A corollary to fizzling passion occurs when the romance fades and you realize your guy is not the fantasy man you fell in love with. Instead, he’s a mass of irksome habits that are starting to get under your skin.

5. Your ego needs a boost.
You can be in a relationship with a perfectly wonderful, loving man and still need extra affirmation that you’ve got it goin’ on.

6. It’s payback time.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, as the saying goes. :wifey:

[tca]

yeah

all pathetic reasons for cheating too

[Buckledmac]

i say gain her trust then fuck her over (a)

[Beli]

So,

How come women are so promiscious? Yet men have the reputation for being players...

How come most women get bored of their respective partner, and crave attention from a complete random who couldn't give a shit about them, and wont be there in their time of need?

How come you can trust a woman to be there when times are good, but when the going gets tough, they're gone?


What gets me, is that the reasoning behind most of the above actions, resorts in insecurity, but as soon as you provide your partner with that security they need, thats when they're out there craving attention from someone else.

Fuck relationships, you're better off on your own fellas.

Fuck them, and leave them

:rolleyes:

lol i think that statement answers the "why" in your questions ;)

[swiss miss]

Jay, you will find the right woman, you just have to keep looking - which cant be that bad of a prospect, surely?? :heybabe: :P

[DnD]

So,

How come women are so promiscious? Yet men have the reputation for being players...

How come most women get bored of their respective partner, and crave attention from a complete random who couldn't give a shit about them, and wont be there in their time of need?

How come you can trust a woman to be there when times are good, but when the going gets tough, they're gone?


What gets me, is that the reasoning behind most of the above actions, resorts in insecurity, but as soon as you provide your partner with that security they need, thats when they're out there craving attention from someone else.

Fuck relationships, you're better off on your own fellas.

Fuck them, and leave them

:rolleyes:

You're just trusting them to do the wrong things.

[TraPStaR]

(Y) :glare:

yes...lol

[dave]

there all mind fucks
they say A, mean B and do C

[F8SentMe]

Not all of them Jay and you will find yourself a knockout who loves you to death is caring and faithful one day. I promise

[Uganja]

This thread isn't just about me at all..... but I am actually trying to prove a point here.

I've mainly been the person who the girl has been cheating with, I've shagged a few married women, engaged women, women with long term partners and such, in fact, they are probably the majority of my lays.

That obviously doesn't help any trust issues i might have in giving myself to a relationship with one person.

The girl i'm seeing at the moment hasn't done anything, but i'm 99% sure given a bit of time, she will.... And theres fuck all i can do about it, apart from not treat her as well as i have been, but i don't want to do that.


My question is, to all of the women who've replied to this thread, how many times, if any, have you cheated on a man?

[tca]

What gives women or men the right to think they can cheat?

[Beli]

This thread isn't just about me at all..... but I am actually trying to prove a point here.

I've mainly been the person who the girl has been cheating with, I've shagged a few married women, engaged women, women with long term partners and such, in fact, they are probably the majority of my lays.

That obviously doesn't help any trust issues i might have in giving myself to a relationship with one person.

The girl i'm seeing at the moment hasn't done anything, but i'm 99% sure given a bit of time, she will.... And theres fuck all i can do about it, apart from not treat her as well as i have been, but i don't want to do that.


My question is, to all of the women who've replied to this thread, how many times, if any, have you cheated on a man?

cheating is bad :( do you blame the "other" woman or man? or do you blame the one that you are with? i argue with myself on where the blame should be placed. the one you are with is the one who should be dedicated to you.

i kind of have strict boundires on cheating. to me, once a relationship has expierenced cheating, that relationship is doomed. arguements and untrust will always be there in regards to faithfulness.

tbh, yes i have cheated in the past. or is an open relationship considered cheating? but never on the current guy. and never since i was married. so 11 1/2 years min. of being cheat free ;)

[the squid of despair]

What gives women or men the right to think they can cheat?



Ummm, they do have the right to cheat...

[tca]

Ummm, they do have the right to cheat...

If you want someone else when your in a relationship AND you act on said impulses, you shouldn't be in a relationship.

[the squid of despair]

If you want someone else when your in a relationship AND you act on said impulses, you shouldn't be in a relationship.


I hope someone cheats one you...

[I Got Priors]

Does having sex with a woman count? :hidey:

[Cowboy From Hell]

Does having sex with a woman count? :hidey:

I would need to see the videotape, dont want to throw in a quick answer to that





:grin:

[Aeon]

This thread isn't just about me at all..... but I am actually trying to prove a point here.

I've mainly been the person who the girl has been cheating with, I've shagged a few married women, engaged women, women with long term partners and such, in fact, they are probably the majority of my lays.

That obviously doesn't help any trust issues i might have in giving myself to a relationship with one person.

The girl i'm seeing at the moment hasn't done anything, but i'm 99% sure given a bit of time, she will.... And theres fuck all i can do about it, apart from not treat her as well as i have been, but i don't want to do that.


My question is, to all of the women who've replied to this thread, how many times, if any, have you cheated on a man?



Ok..

Clearly it's you with the trust issues.. you even admit that...

Nobody starts at the top of trust....
YOU EARN IT!

And so far Has She earned it?

If by now you haven't looked at this girl and said.. "Yep this is the one" why are you worried?

Are you worried because you like this girl.....?

and.... by assuming this girl is gonna cheat.... well...

Does it gives you the necessary control "you need" to not feel anything for her..?


For me...
(i'm not gonna bullshit)

I cheat on boyfriends quite frequently.. .(not all of them the ones i like i break up with first.)


I generally cheat when I am not getting what I want emotionally or sexually.

But I am pretty demanding in both area's soooo... It's almost like i set myself up to cheat ahead of time... (my disclaimer lol)

In turn... i date guys (Normally) that are cheaters so that i don't have to worry about committment.. (because i don't want one)

So.. for me.. Now.... to try to avoid any hurt feelings i'm very upfront about what i want and need.. and if the dude can handle it then right on...LETS GO!

BUT.. i don't believe "MONOGAMY" makes any sence (to me). So i've acceptted that i am a cheater and i am upfront about it.

When you loose that frame of mind and accept that this "lifestyle" (i.e. one on one) does not work for you, and you realize that you don't need to lie or sneek around...
then you may find that, there are girls out there that don't fit into "the Box Set" frame of mind that you are obviously tied to.
When you figure that out, you'll feel more trusting and not as paranoid (and then you cheat together .. way more fun;))

hope that helps.

[tca]

I hope someone cheats one you...

Yeah sorry sweetheart, but already been cheated on twice. I got my revenge nice and good though.

[Uganja]

Ok..

Clearly it's you with the trust issues.. you even admit that...

Nobody starts at the top of trust....
YOU EARN IT!

And so far Has She earned it? Not at all

If by now you haven't looked at this girl and said.. "Yep this is the one" why are you worried? She isn't the one for me, couldn't see a long term future, I just have my pride to consider

Are you worried because you like this girl.....? Slightly yes, in my experience, if i like a girl, it seems to be instinct for them to use it to their advantage

and.... by assuming this girl is gonna cheat.... well...

Does it gives you the necessary control "you need" to not feel anything for her..? No, it makes me feel out of control, and unable to deal with it


For me...
(i'm not gonna bullshit)

I cheat on boyfriends quite frequently.. .(not all of them the ones i like i break up with first.)


I generally cheat when I am not getting what I want emotionally or sexually.

But I am pretty demanding in both area's soooo... It's almost like i set myself up to cheat ahead of time... (my disclaimer lol)

In turn... i date guys (Normally) that are cheaters so that i don't have to worry about committment.. (because i don't want one)

So.. for me.. Now.... to try to avoid any hurt feelings i'm very upfront about what i want and need.. and if the dude can handle it then right on...LETS GO!

BUT.. i don't believe "MONOGAMY" makes any sence (to me). So i've acceptted that i am a cheater and i am upfront about it.

When you loose that frame of mind and accept that this "lifestyle" (i.e. one on one) does not work for you, and you realize that you don't need to lie or sneek around...
then you may find that, there are girls out there that don't fit into "the Box Set" frame of mind that you are obviously tied to.
When you figure that out, you'll feel more trusting and not as paranoid (and then you cheat together .. way more fun;))

hope that helps.

Did help actually, wanna fuck? :)

[the squid of despair]

Yeah sorry sweetheart, but already been cheated on twice. I got my revenge nice and good though.


There's 1 common factor in both of those failed relationships, you...

[tca]

There's 1 common factor in both of those failed relationships, you...

Nah, they went for too long.

One was 2 years the other a year and a half. The girls turned out to be sluts anyway though, so im glad.

[the squid of despair]

Nah, they went for too long.

One was 2 years the other a year and a half. The girls turned out to be sluts anyway though, so im glad.

Keep telling yourself that...

[tca]

I will mate, thanks. :)

[Aeon]

Did help actually, wanna fuck? :)


Only if you bring your new lil girlfriend.. :D:angel:

[~ Trojan Man ~]

Some Simple Rules For Woman.

1. If you think you are fat, you probably are. Don't ask us. We refuse to answer.
2. Learn to work the toliet seat. If it's up, put it down.
3. Birthdays, Valentines, and Anniversaries are not quests to see if we can find the perfect gift yet again.
4. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear.
5. Sometimes, we are not thinking about you. Live with it.
6. Don't ask us what we are thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as navel lint, other women's breasts or cars.
7.When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really.
8. You have enough clothes.
9. You have too many shoes.
10. Crying is blackmail.
11. Your ex-boyfriend was an idiot.
12. Ask for what you want. Let's be clear on this one: subtle hints don't work. Strong hints don't work. Really obvious hints don't work. Just say what you want!
13. Yes, peeing standing up is more difficult. We're bound to miss sometimes.
14. Most guys own about three pairs of shoes- what makes you think we'd be any good at choosing which pair, out of thirty, would look good with your dress?
15. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to most questions.
16. Come to us with a problem that needs solving. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
17. A headache that last 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.
18. Check your oil.
19. Don't fake it. We'd rather be ineffective than deceived.
20. It is neither in your best interest nor ours to take the quiz together.
21. No, it doesn't matter which quiz.
22. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after 7 days.
23. If you don't look like the girl on the cover of a romance novel, don't expect us to act like guys in the romance novel.
24. If we said something that can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad and angry, we meant the other one.
25. You can either ask us to do something, OR tell us how you want it done. Not both.
26. Women wearing low cut blouses and Wonder-Bras lose their right to complain about having their boobs stared at.
27. More women should wear low cut blouses and Wonder-Bras. We like staring at boobs.

28. We're not mind readers and we never will be. Our lack of mind-reading ability is not proof how little we care about you.
29. If we ask what's wrong and you say "Nothing", we will act like nothing is wrong. We know you are lying, but it's just not worth the hassle.
30. Don't rub the lamp if you don't want the genie to come out.
31.Telling us that the models in the men's magazines are
airbrushed makes you look jealous and petty and it's certainly not going todeter us from reading the magazines.
32. Christopher Columbus didn't need directions, and neither do we.

#33 The look is also blackmail. it causes wars. please dont use it unless necessary, and not in the presense of our male counterparts...because we never hear the end of it.
#34 If its that time of the month, and we hide away from you, its because were scared for our lives. Dont harass us and make us feel guilty about not wanting to spend time with a possible mass murderer.

#35. BEER is as exciting for us as handbags are for you.

#36. If we oggle, dont get mad, were gonna look anyway, its a scientifically proven fact. Besides if we wanted her, we'd be dating her wouldnt we.

#37. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.
#38. The man is always in charge of poking the campfire with a stick and/or tending the grill.

#39. If you really want a nice guy, stop dating good-looking assholes.

#40. You know, you can ask him out too.... Let’s spread the rejection around a little.

#41. Any sort of injury involving the testicles is not funny

#42. “Fine” or “Whatever” is not an acceptable way to end an argument

#43. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not a color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

#44. Cute is a word to describe things that a furry, soft, lovable, etc. Such as a bunny, a bunny is cute. Men are not cute, men are handsome, dashing, charming etc. WE have an image to keep up here, and calling us cute does nothing for us, especially around other guys.

[Aeon]

How to Please a Man



Follow this advice if you wish to impress your boyfriends.

Show up naked;
Bring beer.

[tca]

Eryn has my attention :P

[Nazkyn]

This really pisses me off about girls -

1. They slap on 10 tonnes of make-up, whenever they need to go out.

Or...

2. They boast about not wearing make-up and call girls that do tarts and slag them off for being artificial, then tan all fucking day and boast about their nice brown skin, and spend shitloads on rip-off products to make their skin look good. Talk about irony.

A bit off the original topic, but while we are pointing out faults of the opposite sex, why not?? :angel:

[Dymond]

somebody is surly!

[tca]

Rach not putting out mate?

[Uganja]

Its always the quiet ones that make the most noise during sex.

Just an observation

[Nazkyn]

Rach not putting out mate?

:P It's just an observation that i've noticed about every girl i've ever known... including Rach.

[Uganja]

:P It's just an observation that i've noticed about every girl i've ever known... including Rach.

you can't base your theories on a sample size of 2

[tca]

you can't base your theories on a sample size of 2

LMFAO, ouch jay, very ouch :P

[Aeon]

Its always the quiet ones that make the most noise during sex.

Just an observation


MYTH! :D

[Uganja]

its always the ones with small bums that fit the most cock (Y)!

[Aeon]

its always the ones with small bums that fit the most cock (Y)!

I see your trap coming a mile away!.

[Uganja]

women like traps.



Jay likes women

[Aeon]

one day buster.. you'll meet your match... mark my words.

mizz predicts it.